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I know this question has already been asked BUT he has many female friends... (he isn't a player, just one of those really nice guys) What does it mean when he sort of stares? It's not exactly staring, but looking at me every so often, and just focusing his attention on me, even if I'm not talking. But he doesn't talk to me, and seems not to notice me (or he just ignores me) whenever I'm around, (not purposefully, but maybe he just doesn't care..?) I'm not sure, but I know he knows I exist because when his friend asked who I was, he turned to me; he just never says hi, even though he looks at me when we're walking in hallways. (And let's pretend there's nothing wrong with me--like a booger or face defect--and I'm a decent-looking girl... my other guy friends consider "cute, funny, nice") I hope I'm being specific enough (just didn't want the "makeup" or "booger" explanation)...
Also, I am very shy, and some people have told me I look unapproachable. Can anyone explain why?

2006-11-04 07:48:38 · 7 answers · asked by Chocolate_swirls18 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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maybe he doesnt know what to say to you or something or feels weird around you. i kinda know what your saying because theres this guy in my spanish class that constantly stares at me but i dont really see it as anything i never talk to him or whatever. the point is he might be trying to get to know you since he knows who you are and stuff but doesnt know how to aproach you possibly because your shy. just talk up more and maybe he'll see that you guys have something in common or vice versa and try to strike up a conversation or something. guys dont pay attention to girls that are a turn off so if he always looks at you its not for a bad reason.

2006-11-04 08:00:53 · answer #1 · answered by bridgetttttt 1 · 1 0

You have the same problem I have. Listen, what I've learned after 5 months is that guys are shy and when two shy people are around each other there's really not much to say. I guess we shy girls need to be more bold when it comes to guys because they seem to never want to speak up about their feelings. That's what I struggle with. If you really wanna know what's going on with him, the only way to find out is to ask him. I've often wondered if something's wrong with me, like maybe I am too shy. I can't really change that, but if you think you're unapproachable, ask those people why they think so.

2006-11-04 15:55:01 · answer #2 · answered by Ahhh....Me Time 4 · 5 0

Shy girls are hard to talk to... so they arent as approachable.

I used to be really shy, but I'm getting better. Just learn to be happy with yourself.

2006-11-04 15:52:01 · answer #3 · answered by Mayonaise 6 · 2 0

Next time he stares at you, smile, raise your eyebrows questioningly, and play with your hair. Do this several times and observe his reaction.

2006-11-04 16:12:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

look around learn "people" they have "feature moments" that you can learn. you cant make progress without making mistakes.

unless your a churchy. no joke

2006-11-04 15:54:26 · answer #5 · answered by chagrintiger 1 · 0 1

probably likes you. or is a stalker. I hope its not a stalker

2006-11-04 15:51:34 · answer #6 · answered by Rehead Jackson 2 · 4 0

I bet someone can.
But how do you expect me to know why you are unapproachable. May be you bite, I donno.

2006-11-04 15:52:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

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