I have this women that likes me a-lot. Yes I am a women also. I told her I am not into her. That I don't date women. I don't have a problem with that its just not me. Plus I dated her newphew for 10 months. She knows nothing of mine and his relationship. We kept that a secret from everyone, we had personal reasons. anyways She works with me and she gets mad at everyone that talks to me including my boss. I think she is the only women that I have ever meet that thinks like a guy. She will not take no for an answer..She tells me all the time she loves me and if I don't talk to her she gets really mad. As if we are in a relationship. I tell her she can't talk to me like that. She will say she is sorry and that she can't help it because she loves me.Her newphew knows everything. Me and him will never get back together but we are still good friends. What would you do about the aunt???
2006-11-04 07:55:49 · 12 answers · asked by kira 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dam! You can be in a very dangerous situation, especially if you think she has a few 'loose screws!' Those type of ppl you never know what they are capable of doing. You really need to seriously think about how you are going to approach this situation without setting off a time bomb. The best thing to do is let your boss know because you are feeling threaten and you are dealing with a very powerful figure here. If you don't let ppl know whats going on your safety could be at risk, you need to be able to feel secure and have ppl watching over you and it sad because it's not you with the issue it is this 'aunt' and I think she mite need to seek help, or help will be forced on her if she crosses the line. She has no right to 'control' you, you have to fight for your power back if you have to deal with her, knowing you are 'weaker' than her gives her the advantage. A classic bully. Good Luck!
2006-11-04 08:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by Starjarus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your job is at risk in this situation and unless you want to risk it, you should talk to your boss about this woman. It sounds like it is affecting your ability to work and that is not a good thing. Unless your boss knows about this woman's sexual orientation I would just say that she is being unprofessional, saying inappropriate things to you and makes you uncomfortable and it is affecting your ability to work. Ask your boss for help. Unless you don't know this already, what she is doing is considered sexual harassment and if you report it and your boss fails to put an end to it, you can sue.
2006-11-04 16:03:52 · answer #2 · answered by BLANK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she acts like a guy that can't take no for an answer, then treat her like a guy that can't take no for an answer. Tell her FLAT OUT that you DO NOT WANT her and WILL NOT DATE her. And if she won't stop then.....restraining order.
2006-11-04 16:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by Mistro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boss you are being sexually harassed at work and are going to sue if he does not intervene!
2006-11-04 15:59:32 · answer #4 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell it straight to her face that u are definitely not into women and say it seriously so she gets the message i mean c'mon u just dated her nephew and tell her if she doesnt stop ur gonna get the authorities into it.
2006-11-04 16:00:36 · answer #5 · answered by mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report her to your supervisor at work, and start the process of sexual harassment.
2006-11-04 16:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by yourluckystar69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you work together remind her about the sexual harassment rules in your workplace. and if need be exercise those rules, and tell your boss.
2006-11-04 15:58:59 · answer #7 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut contact with her completely.
That will get the message to her.
2006-11-04 15:59:01 · answer #8 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not gay tell her to quit the harassment.
2006-11-04 16:01:35 · answer #9 · answered by cb56br 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you have a bf in a nice way!
2006-11-04 16:00:21 · answer #10 · answered by white hawk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋