if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this
hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .
so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?
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and then she just sent this message to him today
"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"
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i should also add that she has been calling/texting him since the begginning of july . . . he tried to get her back for 2 months after she broke up with him. . . they broke up for no reason . .. she just told him she wanted to date around .. . . and she texted him on what would have been there two year anniversary and reminded him of it
2006-11-04 07:57:45 · 6 answers · asked by osb2904 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The fact that you asked this question before (in its entirety) shows that you are really disturbed by this.
Hence, you should be talking to her about it. I think I gave a thorough, heartfelt answer before (and others did too) but they weren't good enough; what are you expecting to hear? Are you hoping that everyone will jump on your bandwagon and say what you want to hear, in order to justify what you're feeling? Are you looking for validation for your thoughts or feelings? Cut it out. The only one who can validate your feelings is you.
You HAVE to talk to her about how this is bothering you.
2006-11-04 08:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by Ade 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's regretting breaking up with him. She can't let go of him, ie, the calling, emails, texting. Yes a woman can seem happy on the outside but be torn up on the inside and she can hide it very well from whomever she needs to.
My advice to you..let her go, she's using you. Besides, what has she done for you in this relationship except keep you dangling? There's plenty of girls out there willing to keep your heart safe, you don't need one that'll abuse it. Good luck!
2006-11-04 16:13:37 · answer #2 · answered by aweety69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. talking to an ex is usually a bad sign. sounds like she can't let go and wants the best of both worlds
2006-11-04 15:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by overrated224 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't sound like she is still interested in getting him back. it sounds like she just really cares how he is doing. but being a jealous person myself, i would confront her if she isn't telling you she is trying to contact him. just the deception of the attempted contacts would be enough for me to say, "what is up here, why r u still trying to contact him secretly if it is over between u?"
2006-11-04 16:05:07 · answer #4 · answered by heather l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude what can i say... im the type that says if you wanna stay stay if you wanna go... dont let the door hit you on the *** on the way out.
2006-11-04 16:06:19 · answer #5 · answered by chagrintiger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this has been asked before
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AgUmbZ5q1lg1GzGTe5f_pPPsy6IX?qid=20061020215054AAozwnk
2006-11-06 16:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by Duckie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋