Family & Relationships - 4 November 2006

...find true love? Are there any men out there who put intelligence, integrity, tenderness and warmth above T&A?

2006-11-04 07:31:51 · 14 answers · asked by Kodoku Josei 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 07:30:29 · 19 answers · asked by Therese P 1 in Singles & Dating

if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this

hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .

so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?

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34 minutes ago
and then she just sent this message to him today


"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"

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21 minutes ago
i should also add that she has been calling/texting him since the begginning of july . . . he tried to get her back for 2 months after she broke up with him. . . they broke up for no reason . .. she just told him she wanted to date around .. . . and she texted him on what would have been there two year anniversary and reminded him of it

2006-11-04 07:29:56 · 9 answers · asked by osb2904 1 in Singles & Dating

i sent him an letter i ask hime if he was still be my friend he and i ask him if could still hang out with is friend and him
what does it mean above
can i still hang out with him

2006-11-04 07:29:43 · 8 answers · asked by PAUL M 1 in Friends

This is more of a random relationship question. It doesn't really apply to me, but some of my female friends ask out guys... I've always been the old-fashioned type who waits for guys. But sometimes, I actually consider asking someone out--which I think is a little weird (for myself). But do guys think it's weird to be asked out? Or is it a good thing?

2006-11-04 07:29:27 · 5 answers · asked by Chocolate_swirls18 2 in Singles & Dating

i still love him with all my heart. and i miss him everytime i think about him i cry i had to change schools because it hurt to see him . waht do I ,

2006-11-04 07:28:52 · 15 answers · asked by shanshorteysexy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She's in the shower right now, and i mopped the floor, that made her somewhat happy, but I really want my best mate to spend the night at my place, and my mum keeps saying "I don't know." So how can I have here let my mate sleep over tonight?

2006-11-04 07:28:00 · 13 answers · asked by I ♥ SUGARLAND! 2 in Friends

I usually get the question of so how do you know that you are really in love with your boyfriend. What i tell them, is that I dont have an obsession for him. From my past experience, the guy i dated before my current boyfriend, there was this obsession with him. I basically cut everything out of my life cept him. That was very unhealthy. But what else would I tell a person about my love and how I know it is true. Me myself does know that this is love so its enough that i know. Now im just tired of people questioning me. What should I tell them?How do you describe love to those who are wondering?

2006-11-04 07:27:45 · 18 answers · asked by Ronak M. 1 in Singles & Dating

There are 3 guys that pay alot of attention to me. #1 is always leaning on me&tries to get me alone w/ him. #2 is trying to get in good w/ my brother & is always touching me. Also every time he tries to ask me out I change the subject. My brother calls it a major rejection.Yet the guy keeps trying. #3 is a little shy &I befriend him because of it. Well, he treats me w/ so much respect &I know he will do anything for me. Also did I mention that he pretty much hates any guy who talks to me&has tripped them for it. The bigger problem is that I have a thing for a different friend. He is my good friends brother that I soon became friends w/. He is sweet, intellegent, witty, spiritual, kind, funny &so much more. We use to talk all the time online &at church. But ever since these 3guys came in he has been very distant w/ with me. We now never talk pratically &he avoids me. He will say hi & then walk away. If not more than a friendsthen just friends. If I did't like him,I'd want to be friends.

2006-11-04 07:27:03 · 7 answers · asked by someone ha 2 in Singles & Dating

Calling me. I should have know better, because this is a pattern for him. I would like to have my dad, or brother call him and tell him to leave me alone but I am not sure if I want my family involved. I did call the police for their help but I have to tell him to stop calling first. I did that. I really would love for a cop to call him and tell him to leave me alone. I now cannot stop crying because I am afraid. I am not asking this question under my email acct b/c I am afraid he will find it and who knows. Please help... and I mean serious answers only.

2006-11-04 07:26:48 · 16 answers · asked by OMG I thought I saw A Kitty Kat 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 07:26:39 · 21 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

I need help my bf said i needed new moves to use on him

2006-11-04 07:26:11 · 9 answers · asked by Melissa<3 2 in Singles & Dating

I have trawled the internet looking for answers to my predicament, yet all the answers always asume the woman to be the victim.
I am in a relationship with a woman who can be the most lovely sweetest person at times yet has mood swings that would embarress the devil himself.
I love her very much and think she loves me, yet she can suddenly blow like a super volcano.
we have been in this relationship for 4 years which has had romantic moments most people can only dream of and a passion not even imaginable in movies, yet it is fataly flawed.
My partner is very irritable and self centred, extremely dominating and controlling she will talk literaly for hours on end yet not allow me to finish a single sentence should I be so inconsiderate as to say something. Heaven help me if thesubject is other than her.
The slightest thing will make her blow a fuse, simple things like not turning the corner quickly enough when driving, after which I will suffer the most vile verbal abuse imaginable.

2006-11-04 07:25:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 07:24:31 · 19 answers · asked by tina_brandenburg 1 in Weddings

we have decided that when we get married we would like to get married on a beach-northwestern Tasmania and that this would be an informal occasion by which we mean the following dress codes
males: jeans, boardshorts, thongs, shoes or boots
females: whatever you like

is this to informal or are we better to be SLIGHTLY more formal?
please dont say get married in a church because neither of us goto church at all and love the idea of an informal wedding.

Mitch and Laura

2006-11-04 07:24:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My husband is an alcoholic. He has liver damage, but says he has no problem. When he is drinking he is very mean, threatening to throw me out, saying I don't do anything, even pushing me backwards once. He promised me if I would file bankruptcy on our bills and keep his name out of it, he would put my name on the deed to his house. We have been married almost ten years. After I filed and went to court he wouldn't keep his promise, saying if I didn't like it I could get out. He never says "I love you" to me because he says he told that to two women in his life and they both made a fool out of him.If I ask him if he loves me he will say yes, but if I tell him "I love you" he just says hmmm. He drinks about 3 cases of beer a week. A couple of months ago he drank about 16 cases (480 cans) in 46 days. I know he has liver problems. Would most people leave or stay when they know he is in bad health? I am 53 and disabled. I ask for a dishwasher and he said I have two. My hands. Any advice?

2006-11-04 07:24:10 · 22 answers · asked by Brenda L1953 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It seems like everytime I start a relationship with a woman, She always asks if I have any good pornos, Ive never owned a porno video or magazine in my life, Ive borrowed them in the past but only after school when I was a teenager or my friends stag night a few years back, I dont know what to do or what kind of porno women are interested in, maybe I should ask you guys?
What should I do, Should I by one?

2006-11-04 07:24:03 · 19 answers · asked by crazykev2007 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 07:23:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

There this guy we use to have same homeroom for 9th &11th grade but we didn't talk to each other he was just a classmate. Until one day I was walking to my locker I needed to get some books out for class until he told to wait not to close the locker. We don't share lockers so I just looked at him. At first it looked like he forgot wat he was going to ask me he stutters. I asked "Wat do u want?" He said "Um can i burrow ur history book" I say "I don't have a history class" so he was just standin there and i say "how is it that u know my name?" he said "cus um u popular"

Ever since i seen him by my locker more often and i notice that i have him for a class.

What do u think?
What should I do?
Does this situation mean anything?
Just tell me ur opinion please

2006-11-04 07:23:03 · 14 answers · asked by ♥yessy♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

he said he was very busy and called late in the night at about 10 pm..and i did not answer the phone... WHAT IS UP???

2006-11-04 07:22:56 · 10 answers · asked by sam 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 07:22:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 07:22:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm a new college freshman juggling 18 hours of coursework at college, and i have to study just about every waking minute. and then i come home for the weekend, and i don't feel like doing anything. but my mom just assumes that i'm out at school everyday lying around drinking and eating and being eaten, and it couldn't be further from the truth. i probably watch about 20 minutes of TV everyday and that's just in the morning waiting for the weather report. anyway, so when i come home, she's always telling me to clean, to wash the dishes, to do yardwork. i have papers to write, huge exams to study for, and not enough time in the world for everything i have to do. how can i make her understand?

2006-11-04 07:19:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok, so one of my best friends has liked this guy for like five months and they're finally together! I was so happy for her untill I saw him lip-locking with his ex-girlfriend. I told my friend and she asked him about it but he said I'm crazy. Now she's angry at me. What should I do?

2006-11-04 07:17:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

C'mon! Chating with people that you don't even know is fun! Really! You don't know what you're missing!

2006-11-04 07:16:59 · 18 answers · asked by midnight_girl49 1 in Friends

My 15 year old has a friend from church(different one same denomination)who is 21 year old male.I am male myself and can find no logic in a 21 year olds interest in a 15 year old ,church or not.He sends gifts and flowers and I have caught her talking on the phone with him regularly.He comes across as intentions being very noble. Everyone seems to buy it but me.Am I all wrong?Am I being over protective and old fashion as I have been acussed of?

2006-11-04 07:16:24 · 22 answers · asked by racer x 1 in Friends

And she looked great in a bikini. Let's have fun with this and say you 2 were alone and you could do whatever you wanted. this girl is 5'1 and 90lbs. She's a really rich gymnast and dancer from 60010(one of the wealthiest zips in the US) You could have friends with you if you want. Would you do what most girl's think you would do?? Please Answer!!!

2006-11-04 07:15:34 · 5 answers · asked by Sakura 1 in Singles & Dating

please help, everytime i seem to get a new girlfriend she moves to chile! what am i doing wrong?

2006-11-04 07:15:27 · 20 answers · asked by andrew r 1 in Singles & Dating

cuz i asked my friends and they said it wasn't. Ok so i likethis guy. and i'm like way too shy to talk to him. so i'm gonna tell him in his yearbook at the end of the year that i like him. sound stupid?

2006-11-04 07:14:55 · 4 answers · asked by I♥David and Tom 4 in Singles & Dating

if u have tell me who and what u wish u have told them be4 losing em'???

2006-11-04 07:14:37 · 17 answers · asked by sparkle 2 in Family