if u have tell me who and what u wish u have told them be4 losing em'???
2006-11-04 07:14:37 · 17 answers · asked by sparkle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The 13th of last month I lost my Mother in Law. I wish I would of told her how very much I love her. I told her "I love you." all the time but never really explained what was in my heart. We didn't always agree and at times I think we drove the other crazy but there was a lot of love there. If I could go back a month I would tell her. I would hug her for as long as possible.
2006-11-04 08:16:32 · answer #1 · answered by ginyamarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have lost my share of people I cared about, but I never dwelt on any "could've, should'ves. It's too late and is negative thinking. I have just tried to learn from any mistakes I felt I had made in my relationship with that person, and resolved to try my best not to repeat them.
I think most people firmly believe - or strongly hope - that when we leave this physical world we don't just "go pop" but that our "essence"... our "personal consciousness" ... our "soul" for whoever likes that word somehow transitions to some other plane of being, and hopefully still have some kind of access to the thoughts, words, and actions of the people with whom they had a special relationship in this world. If none of that is true, and we DO "go pop" and that's it, then it really doesn't matter because that person is absolutely, totally, el gonno , and they know nothing any more. But if it IS true , then I am convinced we can feel assured that the loved on the other side now understands us completely, and is fully aware of any regrets that we feel.
I absolutely don't know what happens after we die and I don't think anyone else does either. You can believe one thing or another with a fiery passion, but that still does not make it verifiable fact. So I guess we all each have to wait and see.. The important thing really is to just realise that we all make mistakes and have regrets about our behaviour at one time or another, and if that ;person who has "passed on" is still "there" in some disembodied spirit form, he or she is sure to know that our regrets are sincere, and has forgiven us.
2006-11-04 07:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I lost my 42 year old daughter. The eldest.
It was an excruciating pain in my heart. She died in a car accident, her daughter (my grandaughter) was driving.
Wish I could tell her how much I loved her and I wanted to have her near me all the time. But she was happily married and could not live with me anymore, she had her own home with her husband and daughter.
I will never forget how beautiful she was and I remember her with her beautiful face and hair and nice body for her age.
We all miss her very much. Still, I can't see her pictures because it makes me remember that she is not with us anymore.
But God has given us the strenght to endure and the time will come when I can put her beautiful picture in my home to look at her every day.
Hope you can find peace in your heart and consolation in God., time heals every wound. Believe me. Be peaceful. Love, Huntress......
2006-11-04 07:36:21 · answer #3 · answered by Dubelzi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not very recently I've lost 3 people I wish I would have told them how much I appreciate them and how much I love them.
2006-11-04 09:18:13 · answer #4 · answered by Elizabeth S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, i'm sorry on your losses. Grief counseling could nicely be sensible. I went after my Dad and then my mom died. i think of that grief follows somebody direction. There are similarities yet do no longer anticipate what you're dealing with to be precisely like every person else. determine which you have a counselor you have faith and could relate to overtly.
2016-10-15 09:19:13 · answer #5 · answered by coats 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few years ago, I lost my grandfather. I was young and my mother wouldn't let me see him because she didn't want me to remember him being so sick (whick I am glad that she didn't). I wish that I had been able to spend a day with him-just to be in his presence (ha was unresponsive at the time of his death). My grandma is now dying, and I spend part of every day with her (she lives at my house). Just being able to be with her at this hard time in her (and my) life is a gift. I could never wish my grandfather back because he was so sick, and it was his time to go, but I'm just glad I got to know him.
2006-11-04 07:20:06 · answer #6 · answered by AndyMan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have. My uncle,he committed suicide. I wish I would have went to him and talk to him. I have no idea what I would have said though. He has a little son,which is so sad. I still can't believe he is gone. I talk with him allot in my dreams.
2006-11-04 12:30:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In July of this year I lost my 41yr. old sister to cancer.I wish I'd told her more how much she meant to me.My Mom had cancer this year also but,so far is in remission.I tell her every day that I Love Her.
2006-11-04 07:21:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah when i was 6 yrs old i had lost my grandmother and she had die because she was having a heart attack and i wish that i could tell her that i love her and miss her and that i miss her great cooking from down south in louisana new orleans and i miss everything about her. and then i had lost my granfather he had die because he had a stroke and i miss them both and i will always love them becuase they had loved me and that will never change.
2006-11-04 08:02:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah,my aunt.I would tell her that i loved her and appreciated her alot and how she took care of me,she was kinda like a second mom to me but i never had the chance to say goodbye to her since she was really sick and in another state.I hope she knows i will always have her in my heart.
2006-11-04 07:18:25 · answer #10 · answered by abelssexywifey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋