Calling me. I should have know better, because this is a pattern for him. I would like to have my dad, or brother call him and tell him to leave me alone but I am not sure if I want my family involved. I did call the police for their help but I have to tell him to stop calling first. I did that. I really would love for a cop to call him and tell him to leave me alone. I now cannot stop crying because I am afraid. I am not asking this question under my email acct b/c I am afraid he will find it and who knows. Please help... and I mean serious answers only.
2006-11-04 07:26:48 · 16 answers · asked by OMG I thought I saw A Kitty Kat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
MY FAMILY IS IN ANOTHER STATE. I am in this alone. Maybe that is why he is doing this.
2006-11-04 07:35:58 · update #1
you already told him verbally to stop calling. now i would put it in writing and send it to him certified and make sure that you have a copy of the letter. i would also get your family involved immediately--like now--what are you doing? go to them NOW!!!! get the police involved, and never ever, ever give your friends, boyfriends or anyone your email passwords ever. good luck
2006-11-04 07:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by lidakamo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the prosecuting attorneys office in your town and ask them to tell you what are the requirement for a restraining order. You need to get a court order for you, your family home, your work and computer(so he cant send emails).Change your email completely and notify everyone that has to have it and drop the old one, just dont go back there except to take copies of any email "he"sends.A restraining order only works if the person is reasonable and afraid of going to jail but at least then if you get scared and hes threatening you you can call the police and they will do something.
2006-11-04 15:31:19 · answer #2 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You called the police. Maybe you should get your father or brother involved. This guy shouldn't be breaking into your e-mail accounts. He's crazy. Try the police again. They must help you in this situation.
2006-11-04 15:30:00 · answer #3 · answered by luv_dec21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have called him and told him to stop then u should definitely tell the cops because hes is definitely turning into a stalker and a predator and it is getting scary. dont call ur family yet because they might do something drastic trying to protect you and end up in jail. CALL THE COPS!!!!! because he sounds like a psycho
2006-11-04 15:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look into getting a restraining order because apparently he is not getting the hint. Dont get your family involved because then he could turn around and accuse them of threats.
2006-11-04 15:29:26 · answer #5 · answered by lion75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o wow this is major
ok im not an expert but.....
go to his house and tell him yourself. if he gets physical, meaning if he tries to hurt you, fight back and signal for someone to call the police. run away from his house. tell everybody that you have a new email, and tell all your friends to block your old email address so that he can't hurt anybody.
2006-11-04 15:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by TraceyH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's phyco. Anyway, I think it's a good idea to get the police involved in this situation.
2006-11-04 15:29:42 · answer #7 · answered by puppypal710 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your really this scared then call your dad and your brother and tell them to beat some sense into him, or at least to call him and get him to leave you alone
2006-11-04 15:30:01 · answer #8 · answered by aj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are physically threatened go somewhere safe and file a report write every incident down no matter how trivial if need be get an order of protection GL
2006-11-04 15:32:17 · answer #9 · answered by Agent99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o h*ll no! that f***** call the police, get restraining order, and get new eMail and in that order! That boy has got to move on and don't worry, it's not yor fault.
2006-11-04 15:32:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋