2006-11-04 07:22:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
TELL HER straight out! I knew a guy was cheating on my best friend and i didn't say anything. then she found out on her own....and the person who told her said that i knew also!...and she called me a "Bitc*" cause she said she would do the same for me.
2006-11-04 07:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be prepared on her being upset at you as well as the boyfriend. She'll be upset and want to know how long you've known, how you found out, etc. Just relax, be calm, and if you're old enough get cigarettes and some alcohol. It'll make her feel better. lol
2006-11-04 07:24:51 · answer #2 · answered by ◙Blue-Eyed♥Red-Headed♥Bella◙ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"I want to tell you something. I might be wrong, and you are welcome to doubt me. I'm not trying to make you upset and I know that if you heard this about my boyfriend youd tell me. Do you want to know what it is? :pause: I saw your BF cheating on someone else. If you don't believe me thats fine. I'm just telling you that's what I saw. I'm only telling you becuase I care and I think you have the right to know."
2006-11-04 07:27:38 · answer #3 · answered by Mayonaise 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You might want to do it with utmost honesty, then she will know you really care about her and are a good friend, but you will also need to do it soon or else it could hurt more if you were to tell her later.
2006-11-04 07:25:06 · answer #4 · answered by Chloe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
theres no easy way of telling her you just need to tell her cause if you dont then when she finds out you knew you could lose her if you tell she might be mad at you for awhile but when she finds out the truth you guys will become friends again.
2006-11-04 07:33:43 · answer #5 · answered by legion 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you love your friend. Start off with I'm only telling you this, because I care... Then, if she thinks that your jealous or somethinng, just give her some time and she'll come to realize that you wouldn't lie.
2006-11-04 07:24:21 · answer #6 · answered by fhorncentral 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Tell her what you know. What you saw or even what you heard. But if it's more of a he say she say kinda thing, then let her know that it may not be true, but you heard whatever and it worried you and you thought you should let her know.
2006-11-04 07:25:47 · answer #7 · answered by Chris D 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You say, "Hey, Ray Charles, get your eyes fixed. He is totally cheating on you."
2006-11-04 07:24:14 · answer #8 · answered by cannon1977 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
first of all, MAKE SURE ITS TRUE!!! once you know for sure then just be straight forward with her and tell her. be there for her after you tell her for emotional support. any kind of eye witness proof would also be helpful since she might not believe you
2006-11-04 07:25:21 · answer #9 · answered by aj 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are a real friend you would just tell her "hey...this guy is cheating"...or confront him and tell him to do it by a certain time....if he doesn't ..then spill the beans...he will probably just dump her then it wont matter if she knows
2006-11-04 07:24:03 · answer #10 · answered by freezerburn 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋