Ok, so one of my best friends has liked this guy for like five months and they're finally together! I was so happy for her untill I saw him lip-locking with his ex-girlfriend. I told my friend and she asked him about it but he said I'm crazy. Now she's angry at me. What should I do?
2006-11-04 07:17:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find out when he is going to be with the ex and ask your friend to hang out there too. Then she will see them and know he is a jerk. Then be there for her because I'm sure she is going to be upset.
2006-11-04 07:22:55 · answer #1 · answered by Hannah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. Since you have already said something and she responded by getting upset with you , then now is time to back off and let her find out for herself. You can be there for her, but until then don't get in the middle of it and never say, "I tried to tell you so" Just be a friend. Some people have to find out their own way.
2006-11-04 15:28:21 · answer #2 · answered by SKY 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one wants to believe that their significant other is cheating. Of course her first reaction is going to be anger and its going to be directed at you- she wanted to believe that what he said is the truth and the easiest thing to do was to blame you and assume that you're trying to break them up. As long as she thinks he's trustworth, there's not really a whole lot you can do. She's going to believe him because she's wanted to be with him for so long and, like most people, she wants to believe that what she has is real. I know its not a fun situation but, you might have to back off until she finds out for herself. She'll realize that you were right.
2006-11-04 15:23:32 · answer #3 · answered by irishgypsy88 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to show her... like if you catch them again... but if she gets angry and doesn't believe you, I think you should take a step back and maybe just ignore her a little bit so you don't end up getting mad at her for not listening to you... If you've been friends for a long time, let her know you wouldn't ever lie to her... hmm I hope this helps...
2006-11-04 15:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by Chocolate_swirls18 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well she obviously is choosing her boyfriend over you and she is blinded by love you need to catch him in the act and bring her with you so she can see for herself sit her down and tell her that your her best friend why would you lie to her and if she is stupid and doesnt believe you then let her find out for her own self and ive been in this situation before when your in love you dutn want to believe that they are cheating on you so dont take it personal shes just in love giev her the chance to realize what he is doing and be there for her
2006-11-04 15:24:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is a true friend then it is worth fighting over. It's not your fault he was kissing his ex. She shouldn't be angry with you. Talk to her. Get through to her that you are her friend and you would never do anything to hurt your friendship.
2006-11-04 15:23:22 · answer #6 · answered by ladyrebel4real 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not really what should you do- it's what you should not have done.
You shouldn't have said anything to begin with.
People will always turn those situations around on you. I know. I have been there with my brother and his wife. She told me some guy bought her a ring and she liked him and didn't know what to do. I told my brother and then of course it came back that I didn't understand.
2006-11-04 15:21:23 · answer #7 · answered by Mommyk232 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You've done your part. When someone is in a relationship with someone they care about, they can be blind and stupid, which is obviously the case with your friend. Now you sit back and watch her get played, wait for her to find out and when she does, (and she will sooner or later) accept her apology and move on.
2006-11-04 15:20:34 · answer #8 · answered by Chris D 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is perfectly normal as weird as it sounds that she is mad at you. You have confirmed probably what is her worst fear-a cheater. just give her time and if she does not talk to you she will eventually realise or come around. hopefully she will realise if not be patient. point out to her what is your reason for inventing something, you dont so she should believe you. good luck
2006-11-04 15:28:23 · answer #9 · answered by dazzle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave it alone or get evidence. A cell phone pic or something? If you have nothing then don't bring it up again. She will learn and get over it and be friends again.
2006-11-04 15:20:26 · answer #10 · answered by ronnny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋