my boyfriend is obessed with porn it seems.. we just moved in together and he spends all of his time on the computer talking to other people and playing his game. When I want to have sex with him he makes up some lame excuse and watches porn to get off to. I told him that I dont appreciate him doing that.. he has no reason to watch porn since he has an attractive woman that would be willing whenever.
what should i do
2006-11-04 07:42:15 · 10 answers · asked by Panda Baby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i talked to him about it before and he said the reason he does it is because its fast and easy and it gives me some variety without cheating on me
2006-11-04 07:50:38 · update #1
I can tell you that he is cheating. If he is looking at porn, when you two are having sex he is not thinking of you. When you look at those images, you are in total control over everything that happens. You also have no commitment to them and you are not exposed to being vulnerable. But , when you are with a real women you have to take the time to understand them and what they desire, you have to emotionally connect with another person, and after that they are still there you don't just turn them off. I think there are probably other underlying factors about his emotional state that he chooses to look at porn to medicate. You need to decide if this is how you want to spend the rest of your life or not.
2006-11-04 07:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude its definitely cheating cause hes talkin to other ppl and he makes up lame excuses and starts watching porn if i were u get out quick cause he has a nasty obsession and u've tried talking to him and it didnt work. i mean doesnt he have a job or something well good luck to u
2006-11-04 15:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not cheating, however there is probably a reason he's using porn instead of you. Talk to him about it...
2006-11-04 15:48:53 · answer #3 · answered by elodie_uncensored 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't normally consider porn cheating, but if he is withholding sex or affection from you, then I guess it is. That isn't 'happy relationship' behavior.
2006-11-04 15:45:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit and watch porn with him and while watching it ,touch him caress him and make him to have a wild sex just like the movie with you!
2006-11-04 15:46:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him u deserve better, someone who'll appreciate ur real beaty, than someone who spends time looking at fake plastic dolls on line who ain't even REAL women.
2006-11-04 15:45:18 · answer #6 · answered by DaRkAnGeL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. You should sit down and enjoy it with him. You might likr it.
2006-11-04 15:45:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him off the compture and then say u dump him.
2006-11-04 15:45:48 · answer #8 · answered by BRANDON C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is nuts-- willing g/f anytime -- wow that's unusual --don't know what else to say-- that guy is nuts
2006-11-04 16:38:41 · answer #9 · answered by Ladder Captain-29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont kno how to pleasure him right!!!
2006-11-04 15:47:24 · answer #10 · answered by BlondeCheerChick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋