I just met back up with this guy I like that I hadn't spoken to in five years and I'm obsessing over whether he likes me. Well we got together last night and ended up kissing for two hours. I had to leave just before we would have had sex and he seemed disappointed but was understanding that I had to go. Before I left we made plans to get together next week. He even said he would break plans he already had with his friends so he could spend Wednesday night with me. Does it sound like he likes me? Or is he just after sex?
2006-11-04 07:00:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thanks so much, everyone! Well I know he wants sex, but I want to know if he has feelings for me or not. So that is my question. Thanks!!
2006-11-04 07:07:27 · update #1
You'll know the correct answer Wednesday. Seems to me though from the little info you gave he might just be legit and actually like you. If it was just sex then he would have made some excuse or compliment to get you to stay can continue the make out session, but as you said in your words, though he seemed disappointed he was understanding and you left. Seemed like he was aroused and didn't want the feeling to leave.
But as previously stated you will know more on his intensions wednesday when you all meet up and go out.
2006-11-04 07:08:11 · answer #1 · answered by J Truth 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sex and love don't coexist in a dating relationship. Find a guy who will love and care for you without sex entering the relationship until you get married. If you decide to date a guy who wants to have sex outside of marriage, he will only pretend to love you so long as you fulfill his desires. He'll eventually get tired of you and move on to someone else leaving you with nothing. Be patient and the perfect man will come at the perfect time.
2006-11-04 07:45:37 · answer #2 · answered by Bozzy3 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Kissing for two Hours? And then you wonder if the next time you go out, whether or not he likes you or wants sex from you? Gal, you two are lucky you controlled yourselves after kissing for that long of a time! Maybe he is testing you to see if you will let him go further next time?
2006-11-04 07:07:16 · answer #3 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i am in the same position you are in right now. I am wondering the same thing. I think he likes you and give him a chance, see what happens wednesday and go from there thats what i am doing. my freinds have told me to take it one day at a time and see what happens. I think if he didnt like you he wouldnt have broke his plans with his freinds. Always look at the positive side and not the negative side. Good luck!!!
2006-11-04 07:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by emt_907 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
How can you KNOW someone you haven't talked to in 5 yrs? Too early for emotions to be involved.
2006-11-04 09:28:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may like you, but he also really wants sex, more than he likes you. So...if you want more than that, you have to tell him right off the bat, otherwise he's going to expect to get laid everytime you get together.
2006-11-04 07:06:34 · answer #6 · answered by ixi26c 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think thats something you have to decide and at some point before sex ask him don't use sex as a love tool for him to love you
2006-11-04 08:59:17 · answer #7 · answered by marshall6922 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He just wants sex. I think I would find someone that would respect you and want to know you and not use you.
2006-11-04 07:03:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go out with him and see how it goes. If he keeps presuring you then you know he is out for one thing. Sex. If he respects you enough or cares enough he will wait. Good luck and God bless you both.
2006-11-04 07:16:45 · answer #9 · answered by ladyrebel4real 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
To me it sounds like he just wants sex. FYI; sex is a gift from God to MARRIED couples.
2006-11-04 07:02:54 · answer #10 · answered by Blondie 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋