Family & Relationships - 4 November 2006

2006-11-04 09:43:40 · 8 answers · asked by amuse4you 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I know I know....I am a dumb *** for letting this affair continue. He now uses what I have always said,,,,He wants me to be happy. Then why in the heck does he keep calling me? And why do I keep answering the phone.....I can not let him go......??????? Every time we talk I wind up crying, because he tells me how he cares for me and apologizes in saying that he cannot give me what I want today. I then say just let it go because we will never be together...then he says never say never that is a long time.

2006-11-04 09:43:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we have so many things that are wrong in our marriage but the love is still there, atleast for me it is. He walked out because he doesnt have the ability to stand up for his marriage. Therefore I want to move on, let go emotionally, (sexually too) but IM hurt and scared. Any words of encouragment here? how does one let go of an unhealthy relationship that causes a lot of emotional pain?

2006-11-04 09:42:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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2006-11-04 09:40:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he was ordered to pay me each month for the rest of my life. if he was working they would take it directly out of his checks, but since hes not can i get it taken directly out of retirement or soc sec.

2006-11-04 09:39:31 · 8 answers · asked by dds 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 15, female and I'm having an affair with boy aged 17 who's engaged to a girl 1 and 1/2 years younger than me.

This boy is my ex. and we went out for 6 months. Now he's been have feelings for me, and we've started having an affair behind his fiancée's back. But everytime I meet him I feel awkward, and make up an excuse. But deep inside I have strong feelings for him. I'm not sure what to do.

He's sworn me to secrecy, but accidentally my best mate found out, I trust her to keep the secret, she knows we've both had feelings for each other, because she’s sits near him on the school bus (I walk home) and she know that it's gotten so serious, I’m only 15 and this relationship is meant to be truly physical but I can't help falling in love.

Please someone help me, I don't know who to talk to, except form him and my mate, and what to do with my emotions.

2006-11-04 09:39:30 · 54 answers · asked by Silent Sam 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-04 09:37:55 · 65 answers · asked by Excelsior 2 in Friends

well my friend love this guy but he doesnt like her he told me he liked me and we have been friendsfor a while now and i want ot but i know the right thing would be to put my friend first but he is my friend too pls help!!!!!!

2006-11-04 09:36:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i think someone has been flirting with me but im not sure if he is because idk whut it is. so can u please help me A.S.A.P please?

2006-11-04 09:35:07 · 7 answers · asked by Ali 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My grandson recently had to come live with his father, my son. I seems that he has become very disrespectful with his mother and her new husband. He will get angry very easy and start throwing things, punching holes of walls and confronting his mother like he will hit her. He does things in school and says things to his mother,without even thinking how bad he is sounding and looking. My ex-daugher in law is a wonderful mother and she called crying to my son that she could take it no more. It is my sons dream come true to have his son here with him. Now I am concern,because he gets this rages for no reason at all. He is 11 years old. I finished talking to my ex-daugh in law and she thinks she has failed..I do not think that nor does my son. What i want to know is how to control this episodes? What kind of help does he need.? As always thank you for your time and God Bless

2006-11-04 09:34:32 · 10 answers · asked by alicia s 1 in Family

2006-11-04 09:33:05 · 29 answers · asked by cutiekp17 1 in Singles & Dating

I believe that there is not perfect man or woman, but I do believe that there is a person out there just perfect for you. A person who will love you with thier whole hearts and love your imperfectionas, and you think that that person is just amazing and makes you feel wonderful inside. Does anyone else believe in the perfect person like I do?

2006-11-04 09:32:05 · 11 answers · asked by mk 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 09:31:13 · 15 answers · asked by vampira5556 1 in Friends

They have just had a new baby and they also have a 2 year old, everytime I see them she sits on her **** and gives out the orders but doesn't do anything! He changes all the nappies and ends up doing the nasty jobs.

2006-11-04 09:28:31 · 37 answers · asked by thompson_clare 2 in Family

In a long line of people waiting for a bank teller, one guy suddenly started
massaging the back of the person in front of him. Surprised, the man in front
turned and snarled, "Just what the hell are you doing?"

"Well," said the guy, "you see, I'm a massage therapist and I could see that you
were tense, so I had to massage your back. Sometimes I just can't help
practicing my art!"

"That's the stupidest thing I've ever heard!" the guy replied. "I work for the
IRS. Do you see me screwing the guy in front of me?"

2006-11-04 09:27:58 · 11 answers · asked by jazi 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 09:27:33 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-04 09:27:14 · 8 answers · asked by hannah 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-11-04 09:27:12 · 6 answers · asked by Garmonbozia 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy has asked me out but my friend doesn't know about it. should I? Have fancied him for a long time but did nothing about it becasue I value my friend's friendship. he's very good looking but i'm torn.

2006-11-04 09:26:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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is this ok to wear to a wedding reception

2006-11-04 09:25:44 · 17 answers · asked by cwoodwa 1 in Weddings

2006-11-04 09:25:19 · 4 answers · asked by bonham_2005 1 in Family

There is this girl that I like. She is a good friend of mine, but I want more. Yesterday I was going to ask her out, but we got lost in another conversation and she said she didnt know what she would do if we weren't friends. Is that a clue for me to find somebody else, or should I keep trying?

2006-11-04 09:25:16 · 9 answers · asked by twinkieman93 2 in Friends

that his best friend is flirting with me? i also thought maybe i could scare this guy by saying i was going to tell my husband and just hope it stops. what should i do? tell the husband or just threaten the guy with the thought of telling him?

2006-11-04 09:24:34 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im having a destination wedding in New York in a castle. I want a really cool save the date announcement. No price limit.

2006-11-04 09:24:05 · 6 answers · asked by jlynnd0221 1 in Weddings

I know some of it is my fault for letting people walk all over me. I can't help it though. When someone does something wrong to me. I get really mad but I let them do it again..I know that you can't make everyone happy and not everyone is going to like you. But for some reason I still try.I am just a good hearted person and I have tryed to change but thats who I am. I am not weak though. I can stand up for myself and I do. I just always go back on my word.

2006-11-04 09:23:39 · 12 answers · asked by kira 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I'm a fairly successful graduate student (creative writing) in the US and I've been in a long distance relationship (different country, same continant) for almost 6 years. We see each other a couple of times a year. We've had problems and he's insisted on being on a 'break' to work on his career (this break has been on for almost a year). I'm also extremely overweight (240 lbs at 5'3), so I don't feel like I can find anyone else. I've lost a good amount of weight but my boyfriend just says I'm still not good looking, esc. I feel so trapped... sometimes he's very good to me, but lately it feels like I don't even have a boyfriend, beacuse he basically ignores me. If I was thinner I would go out and find someone new, but I know that if I end this relationship, I won't find anyone else. He's coming in to visit for Thanksgiving. I'd appreciate any advice. Thanks!

2006-11-04 09:23:26 · 6 answers · asked by SBWV09 1 in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy in my class. we carpool together to school and we talk a lot together. ive asked my friends if they think he likes me, but they don't really know. he is always annoying me (i don't mind it) which everybody calls flirting. he jokes around with me and treats me like a friend. but when he treats me like a friend, it doesn't feel like one of my frineds is talking to me. it feels like he is flriting. does he like me?

2006-11-04 09:20:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi i am married and have one year old daughter,i know my hubby for last 6 year. when beginning he used to beat me a lot whenever i argue with him , when i were pregnant last year i caught him when he called one girl and had sex chat , he apologize and said he wont do it well i trust him , sometimes he do said i am possesive and always suspect him,i am working as part time duty manager in one of retail company my earning okay for me and daughther ,now my question is i love him so much but i dont know whether he sincere to me or not , i dont know whether can i live without him, please help me and at the same time are all the mans like this ? i do decided to leave him but because i am from asian background all my friend family will say something bad if i leave they will look down on me , as a wife and mother i never missed my duty my only bad thing is something i raise my voice thats it , if i leve him he definitely will fight for my daughter what should i do please help me ????????????

2006-11-04 09:20:15 · 18 answers · asked by chittu kutty 1 in Singles & Dating

This is how it all happened..
my older bro john got into a head on collison car wreck and forgot take his meds.And he was in a panic attack. He was speeding and he finally was caught by alot of police. But he was in such a state of rage that fought the poilice and was sent to the hospital. So we get a call from my house from the police saying my brother is in the downtown hospital. He is in the Emergancy room. (and my folks were in hawii so my aunt was staying with us).
And my bf wasnt talking to me ontop of that. I was giving him his space.. BUT i called aaron asking him for directions because he knows roads (and he always knows what to say to calm me down and help me out) because my aunt lives in peru and her and I do not know where this hospital is. And he didnt pick up. (he stopped calling me and ryan craft a friend of my bf tells me to giv him space NOT HIMSELF, So a few days before thats what I did.)So for the next 2 nights my aunt and I had to sleep in the hospital lobby I was NOT going to leave him!! And so my parents finally come home and go straight to the hospital. SO to pay for the bills and insurance my family chooses to use MY collage money to pay for the hospital bill and then RIGHT afterwards he he was sent to JAIL!
So my brother had to stay in jail for a day. and we had to use ALL of my collage money over 4 thousand dollars to get him out and now my brother is in another mental instituion and i am not allowed to see him for mounths maybe even years because he panics! it was horrible

and then ontop of that Aaron finally calls me...

And Im like thinking thank god, becuz he makes me feel better and he was yelling at me saying

" Dont ever ******* call me or my house Ever again You stupid ******* son of a ***** ITS OVER!"

and i was crying and I was all like beggin him to wait and he hung up and so he dumped me...

2006-11-04 09:19:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I spend every day with my husband. Today I went out with a friend of mine and her boyfriend who is also my husband's friend. We saw another friend of ours who is a girl. She just moved into a new apartment and asked if we'd like to come over for a little house warming party. My friend's boyfriend asked me to ask my husband to come so he wouldn't be the only guy there. So when I get home I told him what my friends boyfriend said. He looked at me and said, "What makes you think I'm going to let YOU go." I feel so miserable and I don't know why he's being this way. It's like he doesn't want me to have a life. What should I do?

2006-11-04 09:19:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce