I still love my Ex Boyfriend..what do I do..?

Question

This is how it all happened..
my older bro john got into a head on collison car wreck and forgot take his meds.And he was in a panic attack. He was speeding and he finally was caught by alot of police. But he was in such a state of rage that fought the poilice and was sent to the hospital. So we get a call from my house from the police saying my brother is in the downtown hospital. He is in the Emergancy room. (and my folks were in hawii so my aunt was staying with us).
And my bf wasnt talking to me ontop of that. I was giving him his space.. BUT i called aaron asking him for directions because he knows roads (and he always knows what to say to calm me down and help me out) because my aunt lives in peru and her and I do not know where this hospital is. And he didnt pick up. (he stopped calling me and ryan craft a friend of my bf tells me to giv him space NOT HIMSELF, So a few days before thats what I did.)So for the next 2 nights my aunt and I had to sleep in the hospital lobby I was NOT going to leave him!! And so my parents finally come home and go straight to the hospital. SO to pay for the bills and insurance my family chooses to use MY collage money to pay for the hospital bill and then RIGHT afterwards he he was sent to JAIL!
So my brother had to stay in jail for a day. and we had to use ALL of my collage money over 4 thousand dollars to get him out and now my brother is in another mental instituion and i am not allowed to see him for mounths maybe even years because he panics! it was horrible

and then ontop of that Aaron finally calls me...

And Im like thinking thank god, becuz he makes me feel better and he was yelling at me saying

" Dont ever ******* call me or my house Ever again You stupid ******* son of a ***** ITS OVER!"

and i was crying and I was all like beggin him to wait and he hung up and so he dumped me...

Now school has started up once again and its been a complete Hell for me, my brother was fine..

And a few mounths have passed..And my ex boyfriend is popular and so it seems everyone love him. Well everyone tells me to try and move on..Well its easier said then done..For you been with someone for a year.. Well for you see he was my first in alot of things. Sex being one of them.

Well it hurts so much nowadays, I cant get over him. He ment alot to me.So much..

Well rumores still fly around my school, and I still feel like everyone knows that Im in pain even when I try to not be.

BUT I see him flirting with other girls even all my friends. And theres one rumore going around the school my best friend is dating my ex. And it turns out that it was true.

She hasnt said a word to me. There going on a date tonight?! So Im crushed and I feel alone,because my friend was like the one person who understood me.But she took the one thing I love away. IM CRUSHED & I want my EX Back

So now my best friend and my ex are going to be going on a date tonight. and im crushed..

She hasnt said anything to me at all about it, and she knew how much I cared for him and love him. She KNEW!! And then this rumor comes back to me and it turns out to be true?!

What if they become a new couple?! I cant even staind the mire thought of that!!

Answer 1

He is an *** hole...get away from him. Don't worry about him.

Answer 2

Well you don't need to let this get to you because you'll find someone better than him and ur story is kinda long so I couldn't cram everything in but if you have feelings for him or you're in love then just let some time pass by and see how things go. By then you should know if you still wanna be with him or not or if you should move on. If he called you a ***** and stuff then I think u should just let it go and find someone else. Yeah it might feel like he's the only for you right now but in time you'll see that he's an asshole and that you need to move on the the next guy.

Answer 3

Are you serious? HAVE SOME RESPECT FOR YOURSELF! No guy should EVER...EVER talk to a girl like that, no matter what. Why would you miss someone that talks to you like that?, thats horrible! There are tons of guys out there who are willing to treat girls with respect, and love them and care for them and it sounds like this guy is a MAJOR JERK. First off, to get over this guy, you have to realize that you can do better than him. You have to realize that this guy is not worth crying one tear over because he talked to you like that. You need to have respect for yourself and know that you dont need this jerk in your life. My mom told me a saying one time she said, "You already have one a s s hole, you dont need another one." Dont give this boy the time of day! Sure, you're going to miss him, thats inevidable, but it will make the healing process go by alot faster if you just realize that hes a huge jerk, and then when you start missing him think of all the bad things hes ever said to you or done to you.If it helps, make a list of all the good things hes done, then make a list of all the bad things he's done, if the bad outweighs the good, you know hes NOT the one. Just lift your head up and do things that make you happy, and try to be around friends/family alot, thats always helped me, because when you're alone, with nothing to do, you want to think about him, but if you keep busy, you wont have enough time! Good luck, and STAY STRONG!

Answer 4

First, if you want to get into a good school you should know that it is COLLEGE, not collage. Try student loans...worked for me.

Second, that dude sounds pissed off at you. Kind of like a rabid barking dog. What do you do when a dog is barking at you like that?.... you sure don't go and pet it. So, with that said you should move on and find another boyfriend. I think this one is done with you.

Answer 5

first of all he is a jerk
2nd of all all u need is a cup of icing and a spoon
3rd of all u need to ask yourself why you dated this guy, obviously God know that he wasn't Mr Right!
4th of all u need 2 go 2 the mall in your cutest outfit and look for a new guy to keep aaron of your mind then spend all of your energy with the new guy

..and if u still aren't over Aaron just get your new guy to go somewhere where Aaron is to make Aaron jelous!

Answer 6

When you hit rock bottom there's nowhere to go but UP. Pick yourself up and trust that everything will be ok. Worrying doesn't get you anything but sick so stop doing it. If you really love your bf, let him go because that's what he wants. Maybe it's time to start depending on yourself to make things better. . .

Answer 7

Forget him and walk away from him. Eliminate him from your mind by using a little willpower. Dont delude yourself by thinking you can get him back. Besides, he is an asshole for yelling at you like that.

Answer 8

so sorry to hear about ur brother hun,i really hope hes gonna be ok,u seem to good for ur ex,if he couldnt be there for a time u wud need him more than ever,hes not worth it. u sound like a really nice and considerate girl,helping ur brother out with ur college money,u need to surround yourself with family and friends,the people who care about you and forget that looser, hope all works out for u xx

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Answer 10

Maybe you shoul give him time to pick up himself..he needs to be alone with himself at the moment to be alone with his thoughts...just always be ready to notice if he already recovered and thats the time to have a serious talk..just keep the faith,,

Answer 11

Hey, honey,,, gee,,, you dont need this guy!!! period,,, let him go, he is stuck on himself ....

There are plenty of guys that would love to have you as their girlfriend,, even me, if you were 18,,lol..... but forget this looser!!!

Good luck,,, and give it time....it will be better for you.....