2006-11-04 09:31:13 · 15 answers · asked by vampira5556 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well that is a hard situation to be in. you can't help who you are attracted to but you can manage how you act about it. You'll have to move on if they don't feel the same way. That situation has happend to everyone.
2006-11-04 09:34:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not trying to be mean, but there's really nothing you can do, you definitely can't make him love you back, it would be nice if it worked that way, unfortunately it doesn't. I know it must be hard loving someone and wishing they loved you back, it does hurt. Just try to get over the fact, that he doesn't love you back. Don't ignore him or be mean to him, just because he doesn't love you back, that wouldn't be fair to him, especially if he's a good person, at heart. Don't do things, in hopes that it'll make him love you, you'll only disappoint yourself, not to mention your self esteem. I believe, there is someone for everybody, you just haven't met him yet, but when you do, he'll love and cherish you, in the same manner, that you love him.
2006-11-04 17:40:57 · answer #2 · answered by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar problem. I was totally in love with this man, and he just wanted to remain friends. So that is what we did. I helped him with his problems with other women (boy was that hard), and we went out to dinner, and just remained like best of mates. About 2 months later, we went out clubbing together with a whole pile of other mates, and it just happened. We are now married with a little boy, and have been together for well over 8 years.
If you think that this guy/girl is the one you love, then just stay friends and eventually, if it is meant to be, it will happen. Good luck.
2006-11-04 17:41:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had the same issue, but I'm a guy and my ex-friend is female.
If you try and push it, all you may end up being is a "Friend with Benefits". Of course it was different with me. I became an ex-friend as she didn't want to deal with someone who was into her but she was looking somewhere else.
So what to do? Look for someone else. It is difficult, but it is what you need to do. Ask yourself are you into him or is he what you want because you think you can't have him?
2006-11-04 17:36:53 · answer #4 · answered by Geo-Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else to love, whats the point of loving someone who will never love you back? It is a waste of time. Find someone who loves you back. If your friend doesn't love you its his lose.
2006-11-04 17:34:47 · answer #5 · answered by imkay527 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is love? The Bible says that God is love. Is your love for your boyfriend like God's love? God's love "does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth." Does yours?
See how good your love is--take this test: http://www.livingwaters.com/good
2006-11-04 17:38:24 · answer #6 · answered by JSB2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should continue to love him. Love will not always be reciprocated. But the world can always use more love.
2006-11-04 17:35:55 · answer #7 · answered by dr.cocktail 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just move on because he's probably aint worth it. He's going to realize soon that he lost something.
2006-11-04 17:44:20 · answer #8 · answered by LiTo_OnE06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you admited to him that you like him? if you haven't, then find a moment alone when you are both sober and admit to him. I only say this because friends (good ones at least) like it when you are truthful
2006-11-04 17:36:07 · answer #9 · answered by Tye dye 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else. Relationships are give and take. They should be equal
2006-11-04 17:36:16 · answer #10 · answered by jetli1333 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋