Family & Relationships - 3 November 2006

10 points to the best answer, i just want to know whats the craziest or stupidest thing you've done for love, as in trying to get back together or any other things???

2006-11-03 11:18:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he was watching live videos and talking to girls, this has really broke my heart and caused major problems in our marriage, i carnt get over it, he says hes sorry and was just curious but he was doing it for months, i feel like hes cheated am i overreacting?

2006-11-03 11:18:33 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A long my life I have dated several men, however I don´t know why in any of this relationships I can´t ever make things work. I had never had a boyfriend. They start calling me and showing interest and suddenly they loose it. I think it´s my fault because I try not show interest in them I hardly ever call them because I´m afraid they won´t feel the same way as I do. Now I´m dating this guy and it all started well he called me every other day I never called him, I just returned his calls when I didn´t pick up the phone. We went out several times but now he stopped calling and I´m sad because I really liked him but then again I can´t bring myself to call him because I don´t want him to think I´m crazy about think. So help me please? why do I do this and how can I change this?

2006-11-03 11:18:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sexy Bill,

What a wonderful Wednesday it was, I just wanted to write you and thank you again since I was unable to write much yesterday morning due to the workload at hand. It was positively wondrous to be close to you, and to make love, which is out of this world.

I have to tell you, I am so impressed with your spirit in willingness to honor my request for more space that I feel closer to you than ever. You displayed an unprecedented level of understanding and wisdom, I am beside myself with admiration and respect for you. You never fail to show me the light when I have doubts. I only hope that I treat you as well as you deserve to be treated, because you are worthy of only the best and nothing less.

Looking at the whole, the only thing that I've had trouble with is how much you give, which is almost to an extreme, since you have such a generous heart. I can't help but to feel bad because I'm not in a position to give as much in return. At the same time I understand that is how you demonstrate your feelings, and I respect that.

I want to apologize that, I realize I've pretty much made it all about sex. That is shallow of me. I suppose I tried to justify it in my own mind by thinking that, as a man, maybe that is all you would care about too. But I am really a jerk for thinking alongs those lines-- you are a human being with feelings, not just a hot body and handsome face.

The more I find you reaching out to me with personal things such as sharing pictures with me, and showing/giving me things from your childhood, sends a message. Today I was puzzling over this outpouring, not knowing really what to do. My initial reaction unfortunately is to try to avoid getting too personal. But I started to think about how what a person shares is also what a person needs-- and maybe that I was treating you like an object. Like a sweet-hearted protest, you are showing me that you are more than just a toy. Like that toy doll in my dream that suddenly spoke, I've suddenly come to realize what's going on. I can see that you really want and need a special connection, and it's sad that I tend to do the exact opposite and vigilantly avoid everything that is romantic, sentimental, and personal. I don't know how to change this, but I think by ignoring your attempts to make a connection I am only making matters worse.

At least by acknowledging your needs I hope that you can see the level that I care about you. I am making my own attempt to figure out how to treat you right. I just wanted you to know that.

Have a joyful and happy Friday, looking forward to talking to you sometime this weekend.

Hayley

2006-11-03 11:18:09 · 14 answers · asked by beat_this_program 1 in Friends

when a guy lifts his eyebrows fast up and down at you...wat does that mean?

2006-11-03 11:17:58 · 17 answers · asked by Sweetchicky292 @ 2 in Singles & Dating

when my husband has to work late i'm the one who has to pick the kids up from school or take care of them when their sick not the ex because its "not her day to have them".i'm the one who takes them to get father day or b-day gifts plans the kids b-day party gets the x-mas tree so santa can come.but when it comes to mother's day weddings...we stepmoms get forgoten.my husband is a excellent dad never missed a child care payment has joint custody allways gets his kids on time never misses a visit with them and takes them extra time whenever he can.the only time the mom wants them is when my husbands family is having an outing( ex cousins b-day) and she wants to go to just bad mouth us then she will say "its my weekend to have him so i'm going to take him"any other time she is more than willing to give us extra time so she can go out.i know there are a lot of dead beat dads and evil stepmoms but why should the rest of us suffer for a few bad apples?

2006-11-03 11:17:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay I am 13 go to Jr. High and I am going out with one of the cutest guys in school named Russell we have been dating for like two weeks well sence we are still kind of shy I decided to start a notebook. It was a cute idea and i love him so much. But here're my convo I really don't know what to write about!! We been writing in it for about a week...so some helpful ideas would be really nice!! Nothing to old like politcs okay?? Thanx this really helps a lot Much love to everyone who answers!!!

2006-11-03 11:17:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why would she be dating a guy that looks, like me, the only difference, he's hispanic, but he looks a lot like me, whenever we see each other in the halls, she pokes me in the ribs, I do the same, even when her bf is around, she's told everyone she was in love w/ me, I feel bad, because, when we were going around I cheated on her w/ my friend, some girl I loved, and well I regret that, I wanted her back this year, but I guess I'm late, this is all my fault, has anything like this ever happened to you?

2006-11-03 11:17:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

As you can guess, this question is posed to non-black straight women.

2006-11-03 11:16:27 · 8 answers · asked by Ann R 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 11:16:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he is cute and sexy but i am 1 year younger. but i asked him out and he said no. but he FLIRTS with me. what do i do?

2006-11-03 11:15:45 · 12 answers · asked by execusive chick of eastwick 1 in Friends

I am involved with a man that is very controlling and now I feel stuck like I can't get out. At first I had my own job and now I work for him doing IT work and he doesn't pay me but gives me money like it's my allowance. He refuses to give me a paycheck and what makes things worse is I know he is cheating on me and I guess I am supposed to allow it since he is supporting me? I have confronted him but he denies everything even though one girl has confronted me and told me to my face that he was coming over to her house for a whole month. He denies it and says that he knows all about us and wants to break us up. Who should I believe? I can't prove it unless I hire a private detective and that is too expensive. He works a lot and has to travel a great deal. I am not sure what to do.

2006-11-03 11:14:48 · 32 answers · asked by christine_marie_baker 1 in Singles & Dating

my parents are imigrants from guatemala, theri really poor. Like all my mom ever cooks is rice, and my dad is always wokring. I buy my clothes at tjmaxx because i cant afford any better, and my shoes at payless. the kids in my school always make fun of me callin me a "poppie" and to go bak to my country...y do they do this?

2006-11-03 11:14:47 · 26 answers · asked by gian 1 in Family

Sexy Bill,

What a wonderful Wednesday it was, I just wanted to write you and thank you again since I was unable to write much yesterday morning due to the workload at hand. It was positively wondrous to be close to you, and to make love, which is out of this world.

I have to tell you, I am so impressed with your spirit in willingness to honor my request for more space that I feel closer to you than ever. You displayed an unprecedented level of understanding and wisdom, I am beside myself with admiration and respect for you. You never fail to show me the light when I have doubts. I only hope that I treat you as well as you deserve to be treated, because you are worthy of only the best and nothing less.

Looking at the whole, the only thing that I've had trouble with is how much you give, which is almost to an extreme, since you have such a generous heart. I can't help but to feel bad because I'm not in a position to give as much in return. At the same time I understand that is how you demonstrate your feelings, and I respect that.

I want to apologize that, I realize I've pretty much made it all about sex. That is shallow of me. I suppose I tried to justify it in my own mind by thinking that, as a man, maybe that is all you would care about too. But I am really a jerk for thinking alongs those lines-- you are a human being with feelings, not just a hot body and handsome face.

The more I find you reaching out to me with personal things such as sharing pictures with me, and showing/giving me things from your childhood, sends a message. Today I was puzzling over this outpouring, not knowing really what to do. My initial reaction unfortunately is to try to avoid getting too personal. But I started to think about how what a person shares is also what a person needs-- and maybe that I was treating you like an object. Like a sweet-hearted protest, you are showing me that you are more than just a toy. Like that toy doll in my dream that suddenly spoke, I've suddenly come to realize what's going on. I can see that you really want and need a special connection, and it's sad that I tend to do the exact opposite and vigilantly avoid everything that is romantic, sentimental, and personal. I don't know how to change this, but I think by ignoring your attempts to make a connection I am only making matters worse.

At least by acknowledging your needs I hope that you can see the level that I care about you. I am making my own attempt to figure out how to treat you right. I just wanted you to know that.

Have a joyful and happy Friday, looking forward to talking to you sometime this weekend.

Hayley

2006-11-03 11:13:39 · 20 answers · asked by beat_this_program 1 in Friends

ok, so i had been exercising, and looked like crap. then i had to rush to the store really quick, and didnt have time to change clothes or put on makeup. then after seeing two girls i'm jsut becoming friends with (which was bad enough) i saw this guy i'm totally in love with!!! i almost literally ran away, but he saw me because we locked eyes for a split second. hair messy, dorky clothes, no makeup, look like ****.....what does this guy think of me now!?!?! am i a total FAILURE at life!?!?!?!?!?

(this may sound a little dramatic, but at the moment, i dont care)

2006-11-03 11:13:19 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okayy well there is this guy that just came to my school and i like him alot he seems to like me but then he seems not too and in his last school he really liked this girl and he still doesn even though he in a new school now and lots of girlsin my school give him ALOT of attention so any advice on how to make myself stand out in his eyes and like me and forget about those other girls?????

2006-11-03 11:13:12 · 3 answers · asked by in like but confused 1 in Singles & Dating

What is kissing like for guys? If you make out with a girl for two hours with tongue and everything, does that mean you have feelings for her, or is it just to get in her pants? Does kissing make guys all warm and mushy inside and make you feel like you're in love? Is kissing intimate for guys like it is for girls, or just something they do to get her to put out?

2006-11-03 11:13:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My aunt by marriage, and best friend passed away a few months ago. A few wks. after her death, her sister asked if there was anything I wanted that had belonged to her. She named some jewelry pieces that she'd given the grandchildren and daughter in law. We had been best friends all of my adult life. Two days just before her death, she inquired about my lost bracelet. Because of that, when asked what I wanted, I asked if any bracelets were left. I was told that there were and yes, I could have one. After two months I was called to "look at some things." There were 3 pairs of 20 yr old shoes. I remember when they were purchased. The heels had to cut down over the years as my friend grew older. To me, her sister, who was jealous of our relationship played a cruel joke. I hugged her, and thank her graciously then left. What do you think?

2006-11-03 11:12:36 · 11 answers · asked by Genny2ster 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do I fear that all men have a secret agenda or just desire no-strings-attached flings? I don't want to believe that way...but I keep thinking that they do. Do men actually want love as much as women do? Or is it just women who are doomed to be romantics? Is it really SO bad to have just one wonderful person to go home to?

2006-11-03 11:12:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 11:11:16 · 21 answers · asked by me!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 11:09:30 · 11 answers · asked by Save the Envirnment 1 in Singles & Dating

i am so confussed at this point! i have such a great boyfriend that i care alot about. with in the last few weeks he has began 2 tell me that he loves me .... and that i am the love of his life and stuff... i am not really sure what 2 say i mean i really like him but i am not sure how 2 find out if i love him or not ... here is one our convo's on im...
i said:i am so freakin stubborn,ugly, no 1 likes me, cry all the time, and i am really picky and never happy with what i have,i dont know what u see in me...
he said:first of all every1 is studdorn u r beautiful and i love u and it is better 2 cry than hold it in its actually shortens ur life
not 2 cry and every1 is picky and i see some1 that i love and care about that is funny smart the most beautiful gurl i kno
...c what imean i dont know what 2 do i need help! plz give me some ideas!

2006-11-03 11:09:07 · 18 answers · asked by m@ck 2 in Singles & Dating

my father died when i was 2 because he had brain cancer from smoking. my friends thinks its funny and they make jokes about it what shall i do i also cry for so long

HELP IM IN TROUBLE FROM THIS DEATH COURSE

2006-11-03 11:08:28 · 5 answers · asked by Tiffany F 1 in Family

ok well there is this guy who walks with me to class all the time and waits for me out of class. and he likes to come up behind me and push me and stuff like that. ive seen him staring at me sometimes and he is always taking my ID card and stuff like that. we always talk to eachother too. he says he likes this other girl but i dont know if he likes me. .i dont know if he just thinks of me as a freind or if he likes me.

2006-11-03 11:08:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how can i choose a toy that will give me what i been wanting for the past 3months but wont hurt me. i heard they are some called bullets but they are too hard any suggestions? i would preferred something similiar to the real thing

2006-11-03 11:07:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend who I really like, but he lives Michigan. We talk cell to cell as a way to keep in contact. Sometimes he doesn't call for a week at a time. He is usually really busy with sports & school or so he says anyway, I don't think he's cheating. I just wonder if he just doesn't like to talk to me that offten, and if so how can I make him want to? Does he really like me? How can I tell? Help! I need a love doctor!!!

2006-11-03 11:07:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband is away at boot camp.and ever since his family is been talking junk to him about me. his aunt took our children and then when i went to pick them up i found out she took off and left them with a 12 year old kid.his mom was there with them,when i got back.but what i was upset about was his aunt taking off and leaving the kids with a 12 years old girl. no his mom.and i was specific what i was upset about.and they told him that i didnt want the kids with their grandmother.and that i had a fit about her watching the kids.and i was so upset that i wrote him a letter and told him to get the story straight and if he was going to believe everything they told him to just leave me alone because im done living like this.his mom and aunt always been like that about me.they even had him call a spiquic to see if i was cheating.and ive been nothing but faithfull since hes been gone.they dont do anything to help out.i work my a s s out everyday to make sure my kids have everything they need

2006-11-03 11:07:12 · 13 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend, Josh, sits right next to me in all but one of my classes, we are the same age, we like practically hte same stuff, we act and think the same, but he likes my slight friend, Tori. He is so nice, and smart! he almost always gets at least a 102 on his vocab tests, if I'm lucky I get a 76! I am so stupid and in Algebra he is like 30 lessions ahead of me and my friends are on the normal lessions and I am so dumb I always get no higher than a 92!! I stink at school!! He knows I like him and he when I told himit was killing me, all he said was " I already knew. but I like someone els." And I know he was talking about Tori, everyone in school knows he likes her, even I know and I just moved here, from the other side of the continent!! I realy need help!! I mean it's not like I'm butt ugly I think I'm normal looking, but all the girls in my school are always talking about how they wished they looked like me! HA! I wish I looked like them!! I have not had a clear face since last year!

2006-11-03 11:06:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Lately my mom has said things like she doesn't care if I kill myself, having me was a big mistake, and if I ask for anything she will bang my head against the ground until it bleeds. I talked to someone at the Boys and Girls Club and he siad he would call Social Services if I wanted him to. Should I tell hem to call them???

2006-11-03 11:05:33 · 23 answers · asked by Kate 1 in Family

2006-11-03 11:04:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships