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I have a boyfriend who I really like, but he lives Michigan. We talk cell to cell as a way to keep in contact. Sometimes he doesn't call for a week at a time. He is usually really busy with sports & school or so he says anyway, I don't think he's cheating. I just wonder if he just doesn't like to talk to me that offten, and if so how can I make him want to? Does he really like me? How can I tell? Help! I need a love doctor!!!

2006-11-03 11:07:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

16 answers

Hi Dev,

I can relate to you problem. The best way to work things out it once tell him how you feel. Gather all the courage you have and express yourself. This is what i had done. My guy travels a lot and most of the time i use to call him i rarely got calls from him. I suddely stopped calling him for a couple of days and than he called i spoke to him that day and when he asked me why i didnt call him for so many days i just told him i was caught up with work. Even the next day i didnt call him so the 3rd day he called again and thats the time i told him everything everything that i had in my mind. That helped a lot in our relationship.

So you can try that...
All the best

2006-11-03 17:42:20 · answer #1 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0 1

long distance never works out ... sorry to say it

==============================...I think the easiest thing to do is just tell him how you feel. If you explain things from your perspective to him he might realize what he's doing. He probably just doesn't like talking on the phone. Us guys generally don't like to waste time on the phone. Males and females are different in this area. Most guys could live without ever talking on the phone at all - and 5 minutes a day is about our limit. just be patient... i have heard a lot of people say long distance doesnt work....but i dont beleive that..... u shud call too sometimes... keep in touch over emails.... u should not suffocate him..give him space.. show him u care... and if he is really worth it...he will respond....good luck... try to express U R feeling to Him either directly or indirectly but normally dont waste U R time by calling him in the phone. If he really likes U and understood U R feeling U will surely get him. It is better if u explaing to him ur feelings.Then he may understand and talk to u .

yourself not want to talk to him. lol. you said he's busy with sports, so find a satisfying hobby for yourself and stop treating him as your teddy bear. Some people do not like to talk on phone so much..Even i m like that when ever my girl use to call me i use to be silent and let her do much of the talking and call her very rarely. even when she used to be with me i use to be a little different.she also used to complain but with time she understood what i m....

what happens when u call her? is he in a hurry or listens to u patiently...
If he is patient then u need not worry .May be u have a very sweet voice which makes her so quite...


I can relate to you problem. The best way to work things out it once tell him how you feel. Gather all the courage you have and express yourself. This is what i had done. My guy travels a lot and most of the time i use to call him i rarely got calls from him. I suddely stopped calling him for a couple of days and than he called i spoke to him that day and when he asked me why i didnt call him for so many days i just told him i was caught up with work. Even the next day i didnt call him so the 3rd day he called again and thats the time i told him everything everything that i had in my mind. That helped a lot in our relationship.

So you can try that...
All the best

2006-11-04 04:28:41 · answer #2 · answered by aniket c 1 · 0 1

He probably just doesn't like talking on the phone. Us guys generally don't like to waste time on the phone. Males and females are different in this area. Most guys could live without ever talking on the phone at all - and 5 minutes a day is about our limit.

2006-11-03 19:20:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Try to express U R feeling to Him either directly or indirectly but normally dont waste U R time by calling him in the phone. If he really likes U and understood U R feeling U will surely get him.

2006-11-03 20:04:58 · answer #4 · answered by Ramasubramanian 6 · 0 0

Some people do not like to talk on phone so much..Even i m like that when ever my girl use to call me i use to be silent and let her do much of the talking and call her very rarely. even when she used to be with me i use to be a little different.she also used to complain but with time she understood what i m....

what happens when u call her? is he in a hurry or listens to u patiently...
If he is patient then u need not worry .May be u have a very sweet voice which makes her so quite...

2006-11-04 01:10:30 · answer #5 · answered by Gaurav A 2 · 0 0

You cannot express properly if you go on talking on cell phones always.
Friendship needs personal expressions.
Better you catch him where he is and get to know what is in his mind. Know each other well by personal meetings.
Or you have to wait till he completes his school and other things.
or you have to meet him during school vacational holidays.
Nothing should become one way.

2006-11-03 21:37:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

just be patient... i have heard a lot of people say long distance doesnt work....but i dont beleive that..... u shud call too sometimes... keep in touch over emails.... u should not suffocate him..give him space.. show him u care... and if he is really worth it...he will respond....good luck...

2006-11-03 19:21:58 · answer #7 · answered by lul 1 · 0 0

Let him leave on his own. Dont force him, anything. You better make a call to him, when you needed to talk with him.

2006-11-04 04:54:13 · answer #8 · answered by manoj Ransing 3 · 0 0

I think the easiest thing to do is just tell him how you feel. If you explain things from your perspective to him he might realize what he's doing.

2006-11-03 19:11:57 · answer #9 · answered by sassafras_tea_66 1 · 0 0

you can make yourself not want to talk to him. lol. you said he's busy with sports, so find a satisfying hobby for yourself and stop treating him as your teddy bear.

2006-11-04 00:48:02 · answer #10 · answered by fleur 4 · 0 0

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