ok, so i had been exercising, and looked like crap. then i had to rush to the store really quick, and didnt have time to change clothes or put on makeup. then after seeing two girls i'm jsut becoming friends with (which was bad enough) i saw this guy i'm totally in love with!!! i almost literally ran away, but he saw me because we locked eyes for a split second. hair messy, dorky clothes, no makeup, look like ****.....what does this guy think of me now!?!?! am i a total FAILURE at life!?!?!?!?!?
(this may sound a little dramatic, but at the moment, i dont care)
2006-11-03 11:13:19 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just relax, everything is ok.
A good shot of positive mental attitude will make you glad he saw you.
Have you heard the saying, Love is blind. That is very true with us men. I can truthfully say, I have never fallen for a girl because her hair was fixed or not fixed a certain way, or what she had on, etc, and remember, and do not forget, I guarantee you, that you were the only one overly concerned about your appearance. If he likes you and cares about you, you would look good to him if you were wearing a feed sack.
By the way, you are not a total failure, or even a small failure, as when he sees you, he most likely can not see past your beautiful smile and sparkling eyes and your vibrant personnality.
When you can see yourself as others see you, especially your special man, you will see how truly special you really are.
Bet you this guy is more in love with you than you with him.
Just be sure you level with him as to why you avoided him as sometimes us guys are not smart enough to figure things out and he may get the wrong idea.
There is another one that says for a guy, if you think you have found Ms. Right, get her when she is all dressed up, looking like a million dollars, and when you get close to the swimming pool, push her in. When she climbs out and the guy still thinks she is Ms. Right, then it is meant to be.
Of course, I am just kidding, but the point should be considered.
The only thing I would be concerned about at this point, is be sure he understands why you were evading him. He may think you don't like him and were trying to avoid him.
Your question deserved an answer that will serve to provide you with the best answer possible, because of the seriousness of the issue to you. Didn't mean to make it so long, but this is what it took to give you a complete reassuring answer.
Darryl S.
2006-11-03 11:30:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Totally not do not downgrade yourself look forward deep down u know that ur beautiful.Don't bother what people say.Because whatever people say is a lie. Most people are snobbish. Ur not a faliure everybody has something good in themselves.Maybe ur boyfriend thaught deep down ur heart is good afteral he din't say anything did he? Anyway gal my advice too u is don't downgrade ur self ur Not a faliure And do this everyday take a card and write I am not a FALIURE stick in on ur mirror that's an advice from Oprah.Anyway Good Luck in Life
2006-11-03 11:21:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pelosi is not a failure. You are and Republican-Neocons-Fascists are way more than total failure. Drop dead one by one or all together and the sooner the better it will be for America and for the rest of the world.
2016-03-28 06:01:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
geesh. calm down...your going to come to realize in a couple of days that it really wasn't that bad. if you talk to this guy and he continues to talk to you then your ok. if you don't speak to him then most likely he doesn't care what you were wearing. i doubt he went home and pictured you in his head over and over again. As for your "becoming-friends-friends" then consider it a test. If they are going to judge you on what you look like outside the "circle" then you don't need them as friends. so...don't be so dramatic. read your question again in a couple of days and you'll probably laugh.
by the way...this does not qualify you as a "FAILURE IN LIFE". That is unless you dwell on it.
2006-11-03 11:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by nina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably figured you had been working out. You think that sucks, the guy I'm in love with works at the gym I go to so sees me all sweaty all the time!
2006-11-03 11:17:01 · answer #5 · answered by grrlstarr79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i answer the door in my boxers and thats it, but im not a loser or failure so i guess u arent one either
just say hi to him tomorrow or monday and be like yeah i saw you the other day and get into a conversation.
just clear it up for him
2006-11-03 11:16:45 · answer #6 · answered by eddie k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It 's just one impression. Its not like it happens to you everyday. You'll wake up tomorrow and probably feel and be a lot better. Don't worry about it; we all have bad days.
2006-11-03 11:15:53 · answer #7 · answered by arvarnau 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it. Lots of gals play sports and do outdoor activities with guys, and they aren't all made up but they look great anyway.
2006-11-03 11:17:54 · answer #8 · answered by eddygordo19 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are making a big deal out of this. if he likes you, then he wouldnt care what you were or were not wearing. if he is totally not interested, he will probably ignore you
2006-11-03 11:17:48 · answer #9 · answered by Roshni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't look your best in front of the guy you liked. Boo-f-ucking-hoo. Trust me, there are worse fates.
2006-11-03 14:37:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋