i am so confussed at this point! i have such a great boyfriend that i care alot about. with in the last few weeks he has began 2 tell me that he loves me .... and that i am the love of his life and stuff... i am not really sure what 2 say i mean i really like him but i am not sure how 2 find out if i love him or not ... here is one our convo's on im...
i said:i am so freakin stubborn,ugly, no 1 likes me, cry all the time, and i am really picky and never happy with what i have,i dont know what u see in me...
he said:first of all every1 is studdorn u r beautiful and i love u and it is better 2 cry than hold it in its actually shortens ur life
not 2 cry and every1 is picky and i see some1 that i love and care about that is funny smart the most beautiful gurl i kno
...c what imean i dont know what 2 do i need help! plz give me some ideas!
2006-11-03 11:09:07 · 18 answers · asked by m@ck 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He seems really nice, be grateful, i think your afraid to tell him you love him because you no in your heart that its true , you just dont no what will come next of what will happen. You probavly really want to tell him you are in love with him to but are just afraid that if you say it it will bring trueness to the whole thing and you think it will be different somehow, ive never been in love so i dont no the concequence's , but he loves you that much, youve got to feel something along the lines of love, i no its a big word but when you find someone your willing to love it is a big deal, a good one, so just tell him when it feels nautral, in person, not on the computer or over the phone or with a group, tell him alone , you will feel so much better and he will only love you so much more, but do it when its naturak and if your not reading, then wait, let it count for something, and when he tells you he loves u then say thanks or your so sweet, until you feel ready to hit him with the big L word
2006-11-03 11:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by Bridgette ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope I can help. First of, I'm pretty sure your not ugly. Being a girl myself, I can understand what you mean. You don't have to make a comittment to the guy though, if you don't know what you feel. If you love him, you'll feel it, beleive me. Second, let him know how you feel, ask him for advice, and work it out together. Let him know you're confused, and perhaps ask him for some time alone to figure it out. It sounds to me like you need to take it slow, so allow time for yourself, and figure out if this is what you want and need. Let him know how you feel, and if he loves you, he should understand. Give it time though, and don't say something your not 100% positive you feel. Hope this clears up somethings :) GL girly ^.^ -R. Mayer-
2006-11-03 11:16:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing to do is to ask him if he's really serious. If he says he is, then tell not to take this the wrong way, but that you don't know how to react to his words. Tell him that he's making you confused with what he's saying. Ask him to not always say those things. Basically, you should have a heart-to-heart talk with your boyfriend. If he really loves you, then he'll understand.
2006-11-03 11:16:31 · answer #3 · answered by xiah_hansol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That kind of thig happens all the time when some1 uses those three little words in a conversation, really. I think you really need to keep the lines of comunication open but be honest, too. So I think you really need to talk to him about your feelings and his feeling because they obviously seem a little bit different.
2006-11-03 11:11:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He consistently will get there first? Why do not you at some point get there earlier than him and whilst he walks in moment, simply say Hi to him and from there confidently matters among you 2 will develop.
2016-09-01 06:47:14 · answer #5 · answered by buch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there is nothing really for u to b confused about. it is not like this is someone who likes u and u don't like them so u r trying to shut them down nicely. it is ur bf and u did said that u like him so tell him thank u for what he said or for making u feel better, and then tell him u wish u felt the same way. u don't have to go say i love u and i'm ready to died for u. only u decides when u love and when u do then say it,so if u don't . don't feel like u have to ok.
2006-11-03 11:20:54 · answer #6 · answered by sweet143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to tell him....you like him if you're not ready to say I love you, don't.
I was dating my husband and he told me @ 6 months he loved me, I couldn't say it and didn't feel I was ready for almost 1 year later.
I did tell him I liked him and loved the way he cared about me.
I loved his smile and the way he treated me.
Howe'ver I really really like you......was as far as I could go.
something in the heart .....
weve been married 19+ years...
Being honest is always the best thing.
Best wishes
2006-11-03 11:17:17 · answer #7 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he starts talking like that why don't you just tell him that you are not really sure how you feel. let him know that you are a little confused about where your relationship is going.
i can tell you one thing though: picture your life if suddenly he wasn't in it any more..? how do you feel? that should give you all the answer you need as to weathre you love him or not
good luck
2006-11-03 11:14:16 · answer #8 · answered by insane illusions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is going to take more time and it sounds like you have low self-esteem which is never good.Let him love you and maybe you self image will improve .GIVE IT TIME!
2006-11-03 11:15:27 · answer #9 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to work on your self esteem and quitting knocking him for liking you and trying to tellyou your beautiful.
2006-11-03 11:14:09 · answer #10 · answered by lee lee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋