Sexy Bill,
What a wonderful Wednesday it was, I just wanted to write you and thank you again since I was unable to write much yesterday morning due to the workload at hand. It was positively wondrous to be close to you, and to make love, which is out of this world.
I have to tell you, I am so impressed with your spirit in willingness to honor my request for more space that I feel closer to you than ever. You displayed an unprecedented level of understanding and wisdom, I am beside myself with admiration and respect for you. You never fail to show me the light when I have doubts. I only hope that I treat you as well as you deserve to be treated, because you are worthy of only the best and nothing less.
Looking at the whole, the only thing that I've had trouble with is how much you give, which is almost to an extreme, since you have such a generous heart. I can't help but to feel bad because I'm not in a position to give as much in return. At the same time I understand that is how you demonstrate your feelings, and I respect that.
I want to apologize that, I realize I've pretty much made it all about sex. That is shallow of me. I suppose I tried to justify it in my own mind by thinking that, as a man, maybe that is all you would care about too. But I am really a jerk for thinking alongs those lines-- you are a human being with feelings, not just a hot body and handsome face.
The more I find you reaching out to me with personal things such as sharing pictures with me, and showing/giving me things from your childhood, sends a message. Today I was puzzling over this outpouring, not knowing really what to do. My initial reaction unfortunately is to try to avoid getting too personal. But I started to think about how what a person shares is also what a person needs-- and maybe that I was treating you like an object. Like a sweet-hearted protest, you are showing me that you are more than just a toy. Like that toy doll in my dream that suddenly spoke, I've suddenly come to realize what's going on. I can see that you really want and need a special connection, and it's sad that I tend to do the exact opposite and vigilantly avoid everything that is romantic, sentimental, and personal. I don't know how to change this, but I think by ignoring your attempts to make a connection I am only making matters worse.
At least by acknowledging your needs I hope that you can see the level that I care about you. I am making my own attempt to figure out how to treat you right. I just wanted you to know that.
Have a joyful and happy Friday, looking forward to talking to you sometime this weekend.
Hayley
2006-11-03 11:13:39 · 20 answers · asked by beat_this_program 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Frig is she the author of Collins concise dictionary or a legal document writer or something? That was a friggin long way to say all i want is sex so stop showing me your soppy side and if you don't stop showing me your soppy side I am going to drop you like a hot potato and she thinks that being hard on herself which she only feels on the surface, you will excuse her for her rudeness. This girl seems like she has a lot of surface area and beneath that, what do ya know, more surface. I would be teed off to no extent if I was you. If you are looking for a deep and meaningful relationship, she isn't the one. It's not even signed Love Hayley or at the most Regards Hayley. Hayley sucks my friend, find another. This one could freeze ice on her derrière.
2006-11-03 11:20:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, does she talk like this in person too?
very robotic, but she is apologizing for making your relationship about sex only and she is telling you that she will make the effort to let you in emotionally that is. Now how you should respond i dont know how you are feeling are you wanting more with her than just sex or not, all of that would affect your reply to her.
2006-11-03 11:26:08 · answer #2 · answered by Stormy Waters 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks to me that she is happy to carry on the sex but does not want to get emotionally involved.You sound like a really nice person from what she has written about you and i think you would be best finding someone who will love you back
2006-11-03 11:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She talked deeply, that undemanding or maybe prevalent discovered individual can no longer rather understand what he noted.. She do no longer sounds communicative....Sounds extraordinary! Is she a psychologist or a psychology pupil who dont to circulate the point to be understood by capacity of persons even close to to her... She is your gf, wish you know her.
2016-10-21 05:31:28 · answer #4 · answered by trowell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank her for sharing her feelings with you. She is trying to connect with you in the same way that you are trying to connect with her. This is a very rare woman that you have found. she is wanting to speak to you in your own language. Respond to her by speaking in hers.
2006-11-03 11:19:48 · answer #5 · answered by yourluckystar69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be like wow this is alot of stuff i just dont know how to respond not that it is a bad thing! i will have to think on it!
2006-11-03 11:17:09 · answer #6 · answered by Tess c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it was right of you to show her personal e-mail to alot of people here...I am sure she meant for only you to read that. y opinion sorry.cause I would feel hurt if I saw my e-mail posted on here by my bf.
2006-11-03 11:19:47 · answer #7 · answered by oxygenO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm..sounds like she's not ready for commitment. She sounds confused about what she wants. I wouldn't respond at all, just give her some space and see what happens.
2006-11-03 11:18:04 · answer #8 · answered by wendy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I couldn't even get through it....it was an all hail Bill letter...she sounds a little odd.
2006-11-03 11:16:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes a woman, just thinking way too much like normal.
god i couldnt take a girl like this. does she talk this much in person?????
2006-11-03 11:16:19 · answer #10 · answered by supahtforyou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋