A long my life I have dated several men, however I don´t know why in any of this relationships I can´t ever make things work. I had never had a boyfriend. They start calling me and showing interest and suddenly they loose it. I think it´s my fault because I try not show interest in them I hardly ever call them because I´m afraid they won´t feel the same way as I do. Now I´m dating this guy and it all started well he called me every other day I never called him, I just returned his calls when I didn´t pick up the phone. We went out several times but now he stopped calling and I´m sad because I really liked him but then again I can´t bring myself to call him because I don´t want him to think I´m crazy about think. So help me please? why do I do this and how can I change this?
2006-11-03 11:18:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why not being honest about this when you meet a man and tell him that you have a problem with this. If he knows about your problem then he may be understanding (if he is a good guy) and call YOU instead.
I am talking by experience.
2006-11-03 11:22:44 · answer #1 · answered by ullis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Ms; you can tell them up front that you have a problem call men or just simply pick up the phone and call. Your choice. Threw out life we do not know if we like or can do something unless we try it. So ask yourself if you want to be alone and unhappy or take a chance and simply dial the phone.
Good Luck
2006-11-03 19:25:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax, Breathe in, and get a good conversation started!! I'm sure that if you start slow instead of proclaming love on the first date things will turn out just fine!!
2006-11-03 19:22:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just doesn't like people who do sloppy work. Since I am not a mayor this is only a guess.
2006-11-06 16:47:59 · answer #4 · answered by Shred Guy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to be open and honest with you. stop accepting low standard responses from men. be forward about it and tell him you deserve to know where you stand. then be prepared for the bitter truth. it might hurt, but at least youll get some closure
2006-11-03 19:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by unkerpaulie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is wrong with you get on that phone and call him you are just dateing not getting married CALL HIM
2006-11-03 19:21:13 · answer #6 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋