Family & Relationships - 2 November 2006

1.Do you value friendships as much as relationships?

2.How much more or less?

3.Which is more enjoyable?or do both of them have the same allure,only in different aspects?

4.Which one is more longer lasting?(this is also,taking into consideration friendships between opposite sexes.)

5.In which one can you be yourself?just yourself...

6.Can two people of the opposite sex have a really strong friendship that comes as close to love,except for the romance part?

It would be nice if you can answer in relation to your own experiences.Thanks once again! :)

2006-11-02 22:37:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. I have found out that he has cheated on me with the same girl. I walked in on them while they were getting up to things. But since this has been happening my life has been going down hill and i have become depressive and i have been doing body harm all over my body. Everytime i ask my boyfriend why he did it he hits me and it frightens me but im too scared to leave him because of things he knows about me which are personal. What shall i do please HELP ME!!!!!

2006-11-02 22:37:08 · 50 answers · asked by Dannie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i will choose any 1 if the r looking good ..and if they r intrested and if they r my age...rest all will chat.....

2006-11-02 22:36:47 · 1 answers · asked by thunder1blaze 1 in Singles & Dating

i recently talk with one girl.

2006-11-02 22:36:41 · 4 answers · asked by anand-b.tech 1 in Singles & Dating

So my story goes like this...I have been with this guy for 1 year and five...six months.We were the perfect couple.He was the best boyfriend. Things were perfect but then when I went for a holiday,the same weeken he cheated on me with his ex,this was 8 months into the relationship.He had slept with her more than once.She had told me that I should go to hell coz they together at that time I knew nothing that was going on.
He told me he was confused.......When I got back from my holiday he came running back saying he was sorry,he loves me and he wolud make it up to me. Loving him I took him back.

Things were normal for couple months.He went through some financial problems,when his friends didnt even help him,but I did.Stood by him till the end.I wolud sacrifice my nessities for his. Then he started to talk bad, to me,shouting,swearing me...He started talking to other girls,keeping pictures of them,he made me feel insignificant infront of everyone. (there is a continuation)

2006-11-02 22:36:17 · 9 answers · asked by sexyangel 1 in Singles & Dating

a guy just told me that he likes me a while ago......but I'm not sure if I really like him. I have a friend who had the same problem, but she told the guy that she likes him when she doesn't and ends up liking him after a few dates! Should I do the same thing my friend did, or tell the guy I just don't like him? Btw, he's my classmate so we see each other almost every day.

2006-11-02 22:35:45 · 9 answers · asked by - 2 in Singles & Dating

To someone that you only see maybe two weekends a month?Who says that the distance is a major factor for the relationship to work?Who doesnt really make an effort yet you do?Whom you are loyal to and he says the same thing.Do really think that he is faithful or is he just saying that to make you happy.Should I see other people in the mean time but be with him when we are together.Am i wasting my time even though I really like?Its hard to accept that he doesnt feel the same way I do....Help!

2006-11-02 22:34:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friends Name is Dave Ash he lives in murwillimbah N.S.W australia we have lost contact now this sounds cliche i just miss him lol he's a great guy i do'nt know if i did something wrong but we lost contact . if u read this i am sorry for whatever it is i have done i miss u heaps just our chats now & then lol was nice u are a great guy with tons to offer hope u are very happy in life & whatever it is u are now doing hopefully still golf & music take care please if anyone knows him or u are him please send me an email even if it's hi say hi to Eartha kit for me & take care Luv sarah xoxox miss u Rock God !!!

2006-11-02 22:34:15 · 1 answers · asked by leebeesmum_77 2 in Friends

We were together during our teen years but the timing isn't right for neither of us because both of us were involved with other people. It's causing me so much sadness. I want to talk to him more and I miss him so much that it hurts. Help. I know that there is no future for us because I'm determined to keep my marriage and yet it's also tearing me up inside. He doesn't know that I feel this way. I would rather appear to be cool about it. I just wish that he is always alright and happy with the life that he has. I never thought I could ever feel this way towards someone. I tried to forget about him before and I'm going to do it again. I hope this time I could.

2006-11-02 22:33:37 · 18 answers · asked by janice 2 in Marriage & Divorce

35 years old from Varanasi having a unique, extra ordinary and best heart of universe, kindly contact if desiring my help. pnarayan6@yahoo.co.in or 0542-2507677

2006-11-02 22:33:10 · 7 answers · asked by Narayan P 2 in Singles & Dating

I been deploy for a while now and going home soon. I only have 2 weeks back home and then I'm deploying again. I already set day to spent time with my parents but I want to do new and fun things while I'm back home. Any suggestions.

2006-11-02 22:32:23 · 5 answers · asked by Jesus A 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

right...im blasting off...most of us have had really stupid questions removed for no good reason by the Y! errr police,lol...this guy posted a question last night asking outright for pics of womens **** and vaginas although he couldnt spell it,lol...he even put his email addy in the question details...uuurrrggghhh...he has like 22 thumbs down several people have reported him and yet his question is still up??? i have nver reported anyone but i reported the little squib just to moan at Y! about their policing methods...i told them theyre policing sucks and that everyone is pissed off...do you think i will get response or do you think this guys question will be allowed stand and i will get a violation,lol???

2006-11-02 22:32:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 22:31:27 · 18 answers · asked by nice ghirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I am goin out wid this guy who i love to bits but ever since i meet his mate i cant stop thinkin about the other guy. We have snogged and i had forplay wid him. Im starting to get strong feelings for this guy but im afraid what my boyfriend will say? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!

2006-11-02 22:31:27 · 12 answers · asked by Dannie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

last night my bf asked me to marry him and because i no it is true love i said yes even tho we have only been together for 6 months. we live together but my mum doesnt like him scince i moved in with him how do i tell her that we are engaged?i no this is the person i want to spend the rest of my life with and we were really good friends before w got together. i love every little thing about him (even his snoring that keeps me awake at night)everything i wouldnt change a thing about him and it was only when i moved out of my mums she started to not like him before then she loved him as she said he was a proper gentleman and she hadnt seen me so happy for years.so now that she dont like him how do i tell her as she can be violent and agressive and i dont want her to giveme aload of abuse i was thinking of writing her a letter to tell her so she can read it as i will find it easier to explain things to her like that as she wont be constantly interupting me and then and see what happens

2006-11-02 22:30:30 · 38 answers · asked by mummy to 3 miracles 5 in Weddings

Due to the number of marriages that end in divorce, and the bitter legal battles that follow. Women marrying wealthy(usually very old) men, simply to get their hands on his fortune, and celebrities marrying each other simply for publicity, and then divorcing two minutes later.

2006-11-02 22:29:43 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend were together for about 11 months. We were at a high in our relationship, very happy, both in school, both working full time jobs. Busy people, we spent our weekends together. There really was no problem, what so ever. He text messages me, that he was going throgh some things and need time to think. It turns out to be more serious stuff, from what I can gather, mental (issues). Dealing with past, and things that have recently happened in his life (going to Iraq). This has stopped us from speaking every day, even to seeing each other. We talk berifely through text messages and that is about it. Usually I do most of the talking cause I want him to know that I am here for him. I am giving him the space he needs (I am not ya typical girl). With my question now with the background put before you...Should I continue to stand by his side at a distance, and be the good girlfriend I am being to him or should I just move on with my life?

2006-11-02 22:29:00 · 4 answers · asked by Jazzy 1 in Singles & Dating

35 years obese sad man having best lovely heart in the world.

2006-11-02 22:27:26 · 5 answers · asked by Narayan P 2 in Singles & Dating

How to tell if she’s ready to be kissed and how to turn her on. Then how do i make a first move.

2006-11-02 22:25:23 · 7 answers · asked by Myman 1 in Friends

im with my boyfriend who has basically lived with his mom his entire life. she said her son took her husbands place. not sexurally. but all of his other woman left him. she orders him around hes 47yrs old. she always--------- gets involved if we have a dispute. she has been politely asked more than 100 times to not interfer. she always defends him regarding anyone as if he cant do this for himself. they have a strange relationship. they yell alot and curse at each other. i think he has anger inside. he told me his dad told him to look after his mom the excuse he gave me. im sure he meant look after her to make sure shes okay not to have a life with mom and not one of his own. i use to feel sorry for him but lately i feel like leaving. she now tells me what to do. when to go to bed. she even asks me to tell her son he cant go places he wants to which i dont tell him. if we are gone she calls on the cell phone to find out where were at and hurry home. this seems like im dating those two

2006-11-02 22:25:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we are planning to go out on a date... tel me how can i make it most memorable day for him... i love him a lot...

2006-11-02 22:23:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 22:20:23 · 13 answers · asked by elvegee 1 in Singles & Dating

if love is so great why then should we suffer so much for it.i am a victim of the pains of love and now iam let wondering why do we love.should we even both getting married or are we afraid to grow old alone

2006-11-02 22:18:36 · 13 answers · asked by ladykash 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hi friends please solve my problem i just want to know that how can we show our love to others and even how can i know that my boy friend truely loves me or not. he currently live in hyderabad an me myself in delhi in fact we both are charted accountant and work under same firm. he used to call me daily but i am still confused that is he really loves me or i am only a time pass for him.he is a south indian and me related to a brahman family.

2006-11-02 22:15:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex boyfriend and he and i broke up about a year ago. Our relationship, when it was good it was unimaginably good and when it was bad it was very bad. He took alot of drugs and when we first got together so did i. I cleaned up and he never did, the relationship ended. We continued to sleep together for awhile but we lost contact after a bad fight. By a fluke we started speaking again and decided after a really nice convo to be friends and not to sleep together anymore, but that night he msgd me all these ridiculous dirty texts and kept calling me. I msgd him back and went off my head about him being a ********. He texted me and said how much i mean to him. Is the only reason he says this stuff is because he is on drugs? And has no other interest in me but sex? He is very goodlooking he could get sex anytime much closer to where he is. I dont want to be with him because of the drugs but i want to know what does he want from me?

2006-11-02 22:14:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok...I'm dating this guy named Ron for about a month now..and we are so in love with eachother. I gave my promise to God that i wouldn't have sex until i'm married but for some werid reason I felt so comfortable to the point that i thought i was ready to give myself to him. The strange thing is after doing an hour of nothing but four-play and then having him go inside me..only made me more nervous and exhausted..I mean when we four-play my body is completely aroused and the energy and connection between us is incredible but right when i thought i was ready to make love to him...every bone in my body started to quiver and shake rapidly. I felt at that moment I wasn't ready..but he had already but the condom on..so I went through with it...After we finished about 10minutes of sexual intercourse...I just stood there shocked and depressed...It wasn't the way I invisioned it to be..Was i not ready? Or was it the feeling of breaking the promise i made with God?. I don't know??

2006-11-02 22:10:20 · 31 answers · asked by SexiRedheadedMami 1 in Singles & Dating

she is trying to defaming me by blaming different kind of wrong things in front of others .by the grace of God we have large amount of properties may be she want to convince my parents to throw out me from that wealth i am very despaired so pls tell me what i do to be avoid by her deeds?now i am in another country to make career and to avoid her deeds and misleadings.

2006-11-02 22:09:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If were to get into the prostitution biz, Would it be unrealistic for me to ask my g/f to trust me. I mean I have no interest in being unfaithful but being that it is the sex industry, is that just crazy?

2006-11-02 22:06:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just wanna know......

2006-11-02 22:06:34 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-02 22:05:52 · 7 answers · asked by binina 1 in Singles & Dating