To someone that you only see maybe two weekends a month?Who says that the distance is a major factor for the relationship to work?Who doesnt really make an effort yet you do?Whom you are loyal to and he says the same thing.Do really think that he is faithful or is he just saying that to make you happy.Should I see other people in the mean time but be with him when we are together.Am i wasting my time even though I really like?Its hard to accept that he doesnt feel the same way I do....Help!
2006-11-02 22:34:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how long hav you known this guy ! unless your IN LOVE dont get into a long distance relationship !
its not the smartest thing to do ! you dont noe how much your willing to sacrifice for this guy and to sacrifice time is somethign i dont get !
c he may be an amazing guy but the distance will be just too much for you all !!
it may not even work tat well ! you need to be aroudn each other ............to noe wats gud and bad about each other and to accept each other inspite of everythign bad !
unless you feel you should wait for him and he is THE guy you shouldnt wait !
if you felt he was THE guy then you wouldnt be so doubtful about it !
but one thing i dont advice u to do is see other people while your still with him !
we gals get very touchy when our guys cheat on us and are verry perticular about loyalty..........im sure they deserve the same !
either wait for ur 2 dates per month or break up with him and move on !
tell him the distance is too much to take !
tc
all the best
bye
2006-11-02 22:53:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are difficult, at best. If you don't believe that he's faithful to you, or feels the same way you do, then you need to be honest with him. Tell him that you should both see other people until the distance issue is resolved. You can see each other when he's available, if that's what you choose to do. Most important of all, trust your instincts!
2006-11-02 22:40:17 · answer #2 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just save yourself the trouble and end the relationship. Then you will be able to see other people without feeling guilty for cheating on him. Its probably the best thing for both of you.
No one deserves to be cheated on, even if hes already cheated on you.
Show him the respect and break up with him first.
2006-11-02 22:39:20 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know i wouldn't. i hate wasting time - remeber we live onlyu once and youth is such a short time. i would stay with him when we meet but see other people meanwhile and searching for someone better. good luck. im sure he is doing the same without informing u
2006-11-02 22:56:41 · answer #4 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really want to see him then go ahead. just accept it for what it is. if you cant then its best to walk away.
2006-11-02 22:39:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if only i can foresee the future i would have done that sweetie your heart cannot lie to you so follow your heart
2006-11-02 22:40:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless she looked better
2006-11-02 22:38:06 · answer #7 · answered by mike b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋