a guy just told me that he likes me a while ago......but I'm not sure if I really like him. I have a friend who had the same problem, but she told the guy that she likes him when she doesn't and ends up liking him after a few dates! Should I do the same thing my friend did, or tell the guy I just don't like him? Btw, he's my classmate so we see each other almost every day.
2006-11-02 22:35:45 · 9 answers · asked by - 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give it a go...you don't know if you like him..only time will tell but be honest and let him know you wanna "see what happens" if there aren't any sparks then say oh well ya tried...don't you HATE the whole "what if?" factor...why go through that...find out and then you will know....
2006-11-02 22:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by never2pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i've been in this situation before too. I thought that after going out with him for a while i would start to like him. But as i went out with him i started to like him less. So i broke up with him and now i actually do like him but i moved to a different school so now i am having trouble getting back with him because he never answers his phone.
But i have done that before and then it was a happy relationship but it is a 50 to 50 chance that you'll end up liking the guy. But if you really really dont like him then say no. But if you kinda like him then say yes think about it and youll no wut you should do. I just had to choose between saying yes to a guy and saying no a few weeks ago. Everytime i thought about saying yes another part of me would say no. That is how i knew to say no.
2006-11-03 06:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by - 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that u wanna b frens and see how things go from there, get to know each other first..n if u still dont like him then tell him out straight
2006-11-03 06:41:49 · answer #3 · answered by Stardust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens some time that wn u get things easily, or things easily come to ur way, u get cofused(get bored easily) give some time to urself think about ur relationship, nd Yes its vry nice that a frnd to whom u know better bcum ur lifepartner (trust me getting attach or manage wid a boy u hardly know is difficult)
2006-11-03 06:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh i dont think you should make tat mistake !
never tell someone tat you hav feelings for them when you dont !
im sure when you like a guy you wud expect him to like you bac ! btut if he fakes liking you back youll be verry hurt!
dont make this mistake ! take your time !
go out a couple of times if he ok with it ! get to noe him better ! then youll noe the gud and bad side of him ! then decide if you like him !
dont tell him you like him and break his heart later !
tc
all the best
2006-11-03 06:44:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You either like him or you don't
I don't like placing my hand on a hot stove ... but I'm not gonna keep doin' it till I get to like it
Go out with someone you actually like .... don't lead this guy on then dump him ... he's going to get his heart broken soon enough without rushing things with you
2006-11-03 06:40:33 · answer #6 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could turn out great! I think you should give him a few dates too.Ä°f then you still don't like him,you can tell him without hurting his feelings.Good luck!
2006-11-03 06:38:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love touches us for one time, but it lasts for a lifetime
2006-11-03 06:47:02 · answer #8 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart
2006-11-03 06:38:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋