My ex boyfriend and he and i broke up about a year ago. Our relationship, when it was good it was unimaginably good and when it was bad it was very bad. He took alot of drugs and when we first got together so did i. I cleaned up and he never did, the relationship ended. We continued to sleep together for awhile but we lost contact after a bad fight. By a fluke we started speaking again and decided after a really nice convo to be friends and not to sleep together anymore, but that night he msgd me all these ridiculous dirty texts and kept calling me. I msgd him back and went off my head about him being a ********. He texted me and said how much i mean to him. Is the only reason he says this stuff is because he is on drugs? And has no other interest in me but sex? He is very goodlooking he could get sex anytime much closer to where he is. I dont want to be with him because of the drugs but i want to know what does he want from me?
2006-11-02 22:14:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-02 22:16:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that a separation can be extremely hard. It sounds like a bad relationship and you are probably better off on your own. When drugs or drinking are involved it is not a good situation. you say he is good looking and he could get someone that is closer to the area he lives, but sometimes people like the challenge, especially when you say you would not sleep with him any more , it would be the victory of defeat.
2006-11-03 06:22:28 · answer #2 · answered by perrisgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because of the drugs, and maybe some other things, he has no control over his life. He wants to see if he can control you. If he is on drugs, he can't possibly love you more than he loves them. And, he has to want to change, no one can make him. You already know that. Move on girl. Don't answer his text. Be polite when you see him, but never be caught alone with him. Men like that have no problem taking what they want if you won't give it to them. He wants to control you. Don't let him. Good luck. I am very proud of you for cleaning yourself up. That takes a very strong person. God has wonderful things planned for you.
2006-11-03 06:20:53 · answer #3 · answered by jennifer c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey: Run, don't walk, run as fast as you can away from this loser. Get rid of any and all things that remind you of him. Forget the "really, really good looks" let some other girl, if she's stupid enough, have him, he isn't worth it.
Stop and think, what kind of a husband would he make? ask yourself truthfully, what kind of faithful friend would he make. Get rid of all "e" accounts with his numbers, the texts, everything. Tell him not to call you anymore.
Good Luck
2006-11-03 06:21:46 · answer #4 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he just wants to make sure he has some kind of control over you. My ex did the same thing to me. He didn't want me but he wanted to make sure he knew I wasn't with anyone else. It's just a control thing. I wouldn't sleep with him or even have anything to do with him anymore. It will only get harder on you.
2006-11-03 06:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by Tammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to get laid. End this relationship and have some respect for yourself. Tell him to go take a hike and find yourself a good man that will give you everything you want not just sex.>
2006-11-03 06:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by Captain Comment 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He only wants sex from you and has made that very clear. To keep your self clean and off drugs you NEED to stay away from him. Congratulations on getting clean !!!!! Unless he is ready to get off drugs you don't need him around you.....in anyway!
2006-11-03 06:19:56 · answer #7 · answered by shelshe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there and done that. He is only using you for his gain.He doesn't care about your feeling's or no one Else..Take it from me, forget about him lose all contact ,move on with your life because life is to short to be wasted on someone that has no feelings towered others. Good luck and please keep me informed. C.J.J.
2006-11-03 06:27:32 · answer #8 · answered by cjett63 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Bf has a Double Personality...
2006-11-03 06:19:13 · answer #9 · answered by POWERBS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what he wants? Get it clear in your head what you want, that's much more important. And when you have figured out that you don't want him anymore, don't fall for his headgames.
2006-11-03 06:16:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋