Family & Relationships - 31 October 2006

Ive been married 4months. my husband isnt as romantically interested in me as i would like or even as "normal" guys should be. We discussed this issue and it seems that his "romantic" interest in me is sporadic. this has crushed me and my self esteem. he doesnt flirt with me, look at me the way a husband should look at this wife, or really act all that interested except once in a while. an affair has been 100% ruled out and theres no type of dysfunction. he wants "us" to work, and says he can be the way i want. i disagree. i feel like this isnt an issue to work out. its either there or its not. i dont want my husband to have to try to become more romantically attracted to me nor do i want him to "get help" for it. when your in love and really attracted to someone the romance should come natural especially for a young healthy guy. he says he doesnt know why the attraction lacks but i think it has to do with me physically but he doesnt want to hurt me. I need help!!!

2006-10-31 09:25:22 · 10 answers · asked by sunflower 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What should I do?

2006-10-31 09:25:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom yells at me when im sick, Tells me that i make it difficult for everyone. And im rarely sick. On the phone i told her i might have a kidnay infection and she just yelled at me. I hung up on her. But why is she like this? any ideas?

2006-10-31 09:25:15 · 7 answers · asked by KGcutie 2 in Family

My husband and I have hit the "Dry Spell" lived together for 7 years and been married 2. Love making is not at the top of his agenda - how do i let him know it is on mine?

2006-10-31 09:24:40 · 10 answers · asked by cloe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

that is the reason i talk less.and not known among my fellow brothers.
give me some ideas.

2006-10-31 09:24:29 · 10 answers · asked by diwu 1 in Friends

last year this girl i didnt know came up to me nd said he friend thought i was really hot but was too shy to talk to me, and i thought it was a joke, but this year the girl is in my homeroom and stares at me a lot, and gets shy around me even though shes really outgoing everywhere else. i kinda like her too now, but idk if she would still like me. she's also a lot taller than me but i wouldnt care about that, nd i think that says something bout me... what should i do? i never really talk to her...

2006-10-31 09:23:31 · 12 answers · asked by Justin 2 in Singles & Dating

One of the "girls" commented on one of his body parts (private) last time I saw her, the first time I met her. HIs best friend (girl) I have never met will be on the vacation and I have never met her. We have been dating 5 months.

2006-10-31 09:23:25 · 23 answers · asked by Ann 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother in law really does not like me and never has. I am sure there are some really nice mother in law's out there but every now and then you get one thats not right!!!
She has accused me of trying to sleep with her husband, having sex on her sofa with other people, putting acid on her soap.
She said she would pay for stuff for our wedding but said at the LAST minute that she did not have the money and the best of all has accused me of beating my children because they have 'a new bruise'.
My children are toddlers. They all get bruises at some stage. I don't understand what I have done to this woman to make her treat me like this. I have always been as nice as I can and ingored her when she has stuck out her toungue at me and called me a ***** when no one is looking!!
I just cannot get on with her and feel that everything she says now is meant in a nasty way. My husband won't let her look after the kids because he is worried she will say something to them too.

2006-10-31 09:22:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband of two years and myself moved into a new apartment today for the first time living together without roomates.
I came home from buying some things and sat down to watch t.v, he came in and turned it off, i couldnt believe it and turned it back on, he threathened to throw it out if i watched it during the day!!
We got into a big fight after i told him he cant control me. Now he says the T.V is going! Unfortunately im depended on him right now as i havent yet recieved my working status, and cant work. If i divorce him i will be cutting my nose off despite my face as the say as i wont get my greencard. But i can not and wont tolerate being controlled. Wat should i do? I love him very much but i need to be independent, he needs to know i can walk out if i like.. but how can i ?

2006-10-31 09:20:36 · 22 answers · asked by Lady 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so, here's the dilemma. Fiance and I have been together 6 years. It's really time to get married and we'd like to before we start a family. The problem? I don't want a big wedding (if I could just sign papers and be done with it I would). My family won't be there for two reasons: 1. they can't get along in the same room for 2 minutes 2. they all live far away and probably wouldn't even take the time out to come.
While my fiances family is close and do get along, I want something quick and small. Maybe just us and a couple of witnesses.
Here in B.C. you can't just go to the courthouse and do it there. You need to have a commissioner of marriage perform it or do it at a church.
The commissioner of marriage goes wherever you want to have the service.
So, got any ideas that are quick and easy? Also, how do you break it to the people who won't be coming ie. my family?
When my dad got remarried he told us like a week beforehand and we didn't go cuz we were far away.

2006-10-31 09:20:12 · 19 answers · asked by aprilandroland 2 in Weddings

A- Michael Myers
B- Freddy Krueger
C- Chucky
D- Jason Voorhees
E- Leather Face
F- Jigsaw
G- Leprechaun
H- Pumpkinhead

You do know that at least one will be visiting you this evening so lock your doors and BEWARE!!!

2006-10-31 09:19:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I think I broke the record with ejaculating over 100 times in my pool in one hour. The cleaner pump on my pool is very powerful and I could ejaculate within 20 seconds of my penis touching the pump then it only takes me 10 seconds for my to recharge for another orgasm. The defect is that the PC muscle of your penis is like swollen and grows really big and takes about 15 days to swell back down. So I can only do this every 15 days am looking to brake a record next time I try this with over 150. Since I learned this new trick. Am also a 14 yr old male lol. So I can't do this stuff with women. So yeah 100 orgasms in 1 hour pretty cool huh?

2006-10-31 09:19:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why are you with that person still??

2006-10-31 09:19:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Sigh. :/

I'm totally in love (I use that word lightly) with two of the world's sexiest cops, and they both happen to live together and they both want me, too. What ever do I do?

2006-10-31 09:19:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just don't know what's going on. I'm young, kind of short and is starting to get a little confused and irritated on what's been going on with my life. I try too hard to be funny, people don't take me seriously, and... I'm just a kid. What's going on, peoples???

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2006-10-31 09:17:25 · 8 answers · asked by Detrimentalist 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

First time asking. I don't know what to do. I'm an organized 36 year old guy, married 12 years with an 11 year old son, that just bought a house. I'm not happy and am questioning if the grass is greener on the other side. Yes, I can deal with life as is for the next 10 years or more, but is it worth it? I got married when I got my girlfriend pregnant, it was the right thing to do. After my son was born, she became very religious, SDA to be exact. So, she's very sexually conservative, and is not into me that way, which is something I "think" I need allot of (I also know I being a guy I want what I can't have). Because of the religion I can't raise my son the way I want. No Halloween, Santa, Easter Bunny. My wife and son don't do things on sabbath as I do.. Nutshell; shes very conservative and I'm a wild party guy. She doen't spend money and is 0 maintenance. On the other side, I could have a hot high maintanance wife that blows all my money. Wish there was more space.

2006-10-31 09:16:57 · 34 answers · asked by El Conquistador 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend that is 8 years older than me and is like a sis to me has been mad at me for months becuz of things ive said to her
ive apologized so many times...but she wont forgive me or talk to me...we were real close, and i dont know what else to do to make things ok....it really hurts me that she doesnt love me enough to talk to me anymore

2006-10-31 09:16:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

OK, here we go... ME and this guy went out in like 7th grade (hes a year ahead of me in school) and we broke up cuz of the whole him e going to high school thing. and we've liked each other on and off. well before homecoming last year i asked him to go w/ me and he said no and I'm like OK, no harm done. them this year he asked me and i said no cuz i was going w/ one of my friends cuz he didn't ask me til like two weeks before. well any who, i still like him alot and i told himand he trunt it around and asumed that i asked him out (which i didn't) and said that the answer would most likely be yes, and that he would call me on saturday and let me know for sure. well he never did. and he hasn't said any think to me since.

I guess my question is do i have a right to be mad, and should i be?

should i call him?

2006-10-31 09:16:22 · 14 answers · asked by dancing_diva 2 in Singles & Dating

Well I have been with my bf for almost two years now and I am deeply in love with him,but we are pretty young(16, 17) but we have spent so long together. We have been arguing alot lately and we arent sure if breaking up is necessary or not. I dont know what I should do. Can you help me?

2006-10-31 09:14:56 · 20 answers · asked by nicole 1 in Singles & Dating

Im miserable - I just found out about my new husband cheating on me - but Im not sure how far it went. We had been going out for about a year when my Dad who had cancer got a bad checkup and was not given long to live. He asked me to marry him so my dad could walk me down the aisle. Now its 9 months later - my dad died - and I just found out that he went to a lot of trouble to contact this girl he went out with 3 years ago. Ive been very depressed about my dads death and now this! I found his emails to her - he sent her pictures of his pen** and told her how he could still feel the electricity in their kiss and how he made a mistake in not being with her because I micromanage his life. They had explicit net sex - I mean stuff that made me throw up when I read it it was so XXX rated. Him talking about what she felt like and how she smelled and how good she tasted - they were going to meet and I dont know for sure if they did - how do I confront him about this - what do I do?

2006-10-31 09:14:50 · 19 answers · asked by teresapowers 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why do people change after marriage? How difficult is it to keep the fire burning?

2006-10-31 09:13:48 · 12 answers · asked by Rochelle5969 2 in Marriage & Divorce

when i with him feel good but the problems is that we fight to much, when we starting to go out everythingwas good but after while we started to fight but he said that he loves and i feel it, and i love him but i know sure if we can be like this.

2006-10-31 09:13:41 · 5 answers · asked by daliah 1 in Singles & Dating

I found myself lately faking orgasm's while having sex with partners. Nothing new if your a woman right? However, i am a man, "go figure huh!" Has this happened to any other men out there?

2006-10-31 09:13:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you liked a guy and he went out with one of you best friends? and I was wondering if they broke up if it would be wierd if he started liking you?

Like, If I talked to her about it?

2006-10-31 09:13:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-31 09:12:34 · 7 answers · asked by fariy 1 in Family

Okay, so I recently have broke up with my loser boyfriend of 2 and 1/2 years, and am single and loving it. Little would I expect that at my new job, there is this super super hot guy working there too. One thing is that he is 8 years younger than me. I am 26 and he is 18. I feel like I'm in high school again the way I am acting, it is crazy!!! I guess my worry is him finding out I dig him and feeling rejection if it isn't mutual. I would be mortified!! I could use some advice here! I don't want to date anyone, but I'm not against any booty calls (if ya know what I'm sayin!!!) LOL YIKES! Why do these things happen when you don't expect them or want them? (Heavy sigh)!! HELP!!!

2006-10-31 09:12:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 18 and in first year of college live at home and i like a guy who is 24 and my parents do not approve think he is too mature or advanced for me?could someone explain there point of view?

2006-10-31 09:11:23 · 8 answers · asked by Tiffancy L 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 09:10:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Here is a hypothetical situation. You have a crush on a guy for a long time, but since he didnt talk to you (for whatever reasons) kinda gave up. If you were still single later and wanted a relationship, and he asked you soon after that would you go out with him?

2006-10-31 09:10:15 · 7 answers · asked by spacemonkeysfromhell1234 1 in Singles & Dating

what about other lingere?

2006-10-31 09:09:59 · 10 answers · asked by kinky_in_medford 1 in Singles & Dating