One of the "girls" commented on one of his body parts (private) last time I saw her, the first time I met her. HIs best friend (girl) I have never met will be on the vacation and I have never met her. We have been dating 5 months.
2006-10-31 09:23:25 · 23 answers · asked by Ann 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it is OK for him if you go on vacation with a bunch of " male friends"
2006-10-31 09:26:37 · answer #1 · answered by elgil 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guy and a lady can't sleep in a inn a room. Your boyfriend might want to be inoccent in spite of the indisputable fact that the girl will attempt to get him in at evening. I recommend you stay mild hearted and placed your safeguard up. go away him till eventually he comes decrease back. Then, seem at how he does. If he hangs out more effective and is quiet and stuff. He must have achieved something. Or..i'd save calling to envision on him. in spite of the indisputable fact that, you may want to attempt to believe him. i do not comprehend if he can throw a 4 year relationship down the drain. Its okay to doubt. Your in basic terms scared to lose him thats all.
2016-12-05 10:02:27 · answer #2 · answered by aune 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a lot of things that can be said about this. What do you feel deep down does it feel right to you? I don't think it's right. For one were you invited and why aren't you going? Think about this how does that girl know anything about your guy's private parts and what type of girl could she be to say something like that in front of you and what about this so called best friend you haven't even meet? Sounds like nothing but trouble to me no matter how long you've been dating. You can't tell him what to do but you can talk to him and tell him how you feel and just take it from there.
2006-10-31 09:31:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many girls and how many guys? Why are you not going?
In any case, sounds awfully fishy. Are you in a full, committed relationship, or is it a bit casual? 5 months isn't an awfully long time...You can only hope that is genuinely just friends with them, but I can't blame you for being suspicious.
What I would be most concerned about, however, is why you're not going with him!!
2006-10-31 09:28:40 · answer #4 · answered by Aidan J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is BULL ****. I don't give a **** what he pulls out on ya, he ain't goin' without you! Srsly, don't listen to that "YOU DON'T TRUST ME" bs, either. That is so not cool. Not to mention it would be totally stressful for you, hun! After 5 months, you gotta be somewhat serious, so if I were you, I'd have some serious objection to this. :/
Tell him who's boss!
... or else.. :D...
Tell him that you and your best friend were invited to go on vacation with three guys.. and you're all sharing a huge lux suite with an in-room jacuzzi. See what he has to say to that. ;)
2006-10-31 09:27:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it OK for you to go on vacation with a bunch of male friends? Thats your answer.
2006-10-31 09:31:21 · answer #6 · answered by Bill D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How come you are not invited?? Sounds fishy to me. If he really is interested in you he would have invited you. He is probably kinda not ready to be with you. He cant even introduce you to his friends. And about the girl commenting on his whatever she was just probably trying to make you jealous. Anyway I would dump him cus he seems not ready to have you in his life
2006-10-31 09:29:02 · answer #7 · answered by vidamar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could anwer this by saying are you mad ?If this is your boyfriends idea of a vaccation then I would forget he is my boyfriend forever .You may both be trusting of one anther but when temptation is put right in front of you like in this case it would be very hard for any man to resist !!!!!!!!!! I hope you understand now !! He or they could lie to you when they return home unless of course you dont care he might even bring you back a present its called sexually transmitted diseases.
2006-10-31 09:39:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan a vacation with all your guy friends for the same time and see how he reacts.
2006-10-31 09:25:27 · answer #9 · answered by Kevin P 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As long as he's not the only guy and they aren't sharing a hotel room, I think it would be fine. But, I think then you should plan a trip with a bunch of your guy friends and tell him that if he can go with his girls, you can go with your guys.
2006-10-31 10:02:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋