Okay, so I recently have broke up with my loser boyfriend of 2 and 1/2 years, and am single and loving it. Little would I expect that at my new job, there is this super super hot guy working there too. One thing is that he is 8 years younger than me. I am 26 and he is 18. I feel like I'm in high school again the way I am acting, it is crazy!!! I guess my worry is him finding out I dig him and feeling rejection if it isn't mutual. I would be mortified!! I could use some advice here! I don't want to date anyone, but I'm not against any booty calls (if ya know what I'm sayin!!!) LOL YIKES! Why do these things happen when you don't expect them or want them? (Heavy sigh)!! HELP!!!
2006-10-31 09:12:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In all relationships there is a certain amount of risk. If you aren't willing to risk the rejection then you will never get the object of your affection. If you are really into this guy then take a chance. If you end up feeling embarrassed, well at least you can say you tried.
2006-10-31 09:16:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I am the same way with the Guy I like but hey what helped me out is by me telling him how I felt and I'm still acting like a high School kid with a crush on my english teacher (giggles) Tell him how u feels and if he feels the same way about u then talk about what the both of u want up front cause u don't want to hurt urself by not knowing what he wants and him not knowing what U want, :) if he just wants to be ur friend just be his friend but if he wants the same thing u want like I said yall need to talk about it :) Hope I was Helpfull.
2006-10-31 09:20:11 · answer #2 · answered by Nicca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful with a new situation new problems come. It's not the age thing that is a concern for me, I am more concern if he is showing you any signs that make you feel like a teenager again! No matter what age when a man is into you he's into you so if it's just flirting or if you are the only one that is doing the looking, staring, smiling, etc. leave it alone and enjoy being unattached!!!
2006-10-31 09:18:14 · answer #3 · answered by livlovelaugh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there is a 35 yr old woman that likes me like that and i'm 23 , and even though she's realy hot , I wouldn't go for her.but some men like older women , but hey you should act mature, coz no one likes a 26 year old in high school.
2006-10-31 09:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some other friends to fill your time and life. I find my crushes are most intense when I am lonely. Get your mind off of him. He's too young and it could hurt your status at your job.
2006-10-31 09:15:45 · answer #5 · answered by stick man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have HAD ENOUGH! the stupidity must STOP!
you need to have yourself spayed/neutered and remove yourself from the gene pool...i do believe you have pooped in it and IT STINKS!!
thank you for playing, try again tomorrow!!
2006-10-31 09:13:25 · answer #6 · answered by NONAME 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that's tough...i don't know
2006-10-31 09:14:56 · answer #7 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋