Family & Relationships - 31 October 2006

I recently asked my boyfriend if he had slep with another man he refused to awnser the question! I asked him latter if he thougt it was cheating to sleep with a man he said he wouldnt awnser the question! I told him latter i knew he had slept with a man because he didnt deny it I was right! I latter asked him if he was molested as a child he said no! I know sevral of my friends who have sexual contact with men even though they are involved with women! knowing this makes me very parinoied! I belive strongly that once a man engages in this behind her back behavior it will continue! I would feel alot better about it if he were upfront about his sexualtiy with me! I myself am bisexual so it wouldnt be a prolblem. cheating is alwas a problem however and i dont think i want to compeet with other men! how can i find out for cirtan if he is like this? Or if he just tried it once? I dont understand y all he will say is this is somthing guys dont like to talk about

2006-10-31 10:15:44 · 7 answers · asked by wonering? 1 in Singles & Dating

she is all mad because she has to go with boys and she will be the only girl. i dont wanna go, and now she is pissed!! what do i do?

2006-10-31 10:14:58 · 9 answers · asked by jumanjifaceee 4 in Friends

What type of girl do you guys despise and what type of girl do you guys really get serious about?

2006-10-31 10:14:55 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my gf have been datin for about a year. she's mad at me cuz she thinks that i dont give her enough attention and love. she thinks that i spend too much time playin basketball. she won't talk to me now cuz i forgot we were supposed go on this date. wat should i do?

2006-10-31 10:14:54 · 9 answers · asked by champ22 2 in Singles & Dating

I have this friends (guy) and I used to like him and wanted him to ask me out, then I got to know him more and got over it although I still considered him a friend. He's really fun, but when he left the class he was in with me, I saw less and less of him, so I got over the whole "crush thing" every time I do see him, we'll probably talk and walk and just joke around. Nothing special.....afterwards (cause we usually walk to the busses because our lockers are close to eachother) I can't stop thinking about him. Then I get over it and he's just a friend........IDK WHAT TO THINK!!!!! I really don't think I like him but ehy can't I stop thinking about him only "sometimes".....??? I'm confused.

2006-10-31 10:13:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am so heartbroken. My love whom I trust and given all my heart and everything to just hurt me like no one has ever before. He kissed another girl--cheated. We were together for 4 years. We were so in love. How could he do this? It has only been a week that we broke up and its so so hard to let go. I mean we were together for 4 years. We are broken up but we cant stop talking to each other still because were are so used to each other's company. He feels guilty and he keeps saying sorry but he doesnt want to be together. But then he calls me and asks to see me but in the end, were still broken up. I said I forgive him and lets give it another try. We all make mistakes. But he doesnt want to be gf and bf. My friends says I need to be stronger and teach him a lesson & stop talking to him for a least a day cuz its only giving me false hope to be together again & its giving him the feeling that I am ok w/it. But its so difficult. How do i let go. He was my love and I was his.

2006-10-31 10:13:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 10:13:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A man was sentenced to 60 yrs. for horribly sexually abusing a girl he was raising as his daughter from the age 8. Now 12 yrs, she went to to the hospital where she learned she was 8 mos preg. What is it about some men that are driven to commit sexual crimes? I know women do too, but it is mostly men and in the most henious ways. Maybe the men, can answer... is it sexual over drive, a need for power, would more "normal" men do it if ther were no laws against it? As a woman and a mother I am horrified to the point that I am beginning to see men differently.

2006-10-31 10:13:25 · 6 answers · asked by Hot Star 1 in Singles & Dating

He probably knows about me breaking up with my recent boyfriend. My ex rarely talks to me (but says were friends) but he flirts with other girls when I'm around. What's his deal? Does he think that I will go back out with him? He also stares at me when I'm looking up.

2006-10-31 10:11:31 · 9 answers · asked by To Remain Anonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

I have know this girl for 5 years, recently I started dating her, we have a very special connection (we both feel it, she told me) She is also dating this other guy that she meet before me, that she really doesn't like too much. But, they were dating first. I told her at dinner the other night how much I cared for her and my feelings towards her (very hard for me to do, to put myself out there like that). Well she said she feels the same, but she needs some time to figure things out, because she already is dating this guy. But she still wants to see me while she figures it out. Should I see her again soon ? Should I try to win her over ? ..... Or, should I play it cool ? and let her contact me (not what I want, because I am nervous and waiting is making me crazy...haha) ? How long should I wait to call her ?

2006-10-31 10:11:03 · 11 answers · asked by Richard J 2 in Singles & Dating

And when is the best time to start using it on it. i just did surgeon on my scar about a week ago.. i have taken off the bandage as instructed. but i need some help on CREAM OR GEL to make it come out great..

(i will be really greatful if this question is answered by testimonias ) or people of experieces

2006-10-31 10:09:36 · 6 answers · asked by babe G 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

she had another kid from him years later,my boy is 19yrs now we both had great jobs before my boy was born theres no reason for her tobe on welfare all those years and why should get the whole bill ,i lost everything because but stil getting billed wages garnished she was the one on welfare not me ,she could of worked,i dont mind paying but she left me and the home we planned to raise our boy and now 19 years later my wage garnishment is at its highest ever ,and if this continous ill be homeless please help me

2006-10-31 10:09:33 · 14 answers · asked by dano l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

?????

2006-10-31 10:08:40 · 24 answers · asked by ellmo 2 in Singles & Dating

my dad always says i learn bad things from her but its him he says he's gonna put her *** in jail and he keeps me away from my older sister and says he never done anything when he has he's never been ther for her.

2006-10-31 10:08:38 · 14 answers · asked by cecimad 2 in Family

2006-10-31 10:08:29 · 13 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Singles & Dating

Why do many men and woman feel it is better to go for a one night stand and live single for long term?

I have met many single ladies online and wine bars. They have been living single for years. And they feel it is better to have sex without touching their inner feelings. Many ladies are scared to open their heart because they lost trust in their past relationships. They want to see a different in their lovimg relationship but they are not ready to face another hurt. Men too. What is the healthier solution?

I liked her. She liked me as well. Since she read the reply from the internet users she is not showing any interest to chat me any longer. We never have met physically for a drink or chat. Is it my mistake? or is it another barrier to meet my long wait sweet heart?

2006-10-31 10:07:19 · 9 answers · asked by Vig 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 10:06:31 · 13 answers · asked by super.sassy25 1 in Singles & Dating

Cause we talk to each other pretty much everyday, and he either wasn't at school or he probably didn't want to talk to me. Do you think that he still likes me, even though we didn't talk to each other or sit by each other?

2006-10-31 10:06:11 · 6 answers · asked by girlygirl 3 in Friends

year and a half..I'm living with my boyfriend for 5 months and everything is going great..he makes me so happy, treats me
great, surprises me, is honest with me and just everything I want and more. My life is great at that end.

My past relationship which ended roughly 2 years ago to a guy i was with for 5 years ended quite sourly. He cheated with 2 girls in the last year while I went to Australia for 5 months and I remained faithful, even though we were going through a difficult patch I thought somewhere in my head that things might work out..he was my first love if that explains anything!..Anyways, now 2 years on I still hear ppl talking about what happened, how he cheated and who with..I dont want to hear these things and am shocked ppl enjoy talking about it..I feel like a fool..like ppl pity me when I'm really happy..how do I shake this off?..

2006-10-31 10:05:51 · 11 answers · asked by anniemariee 2 in Singles & Dating

Not to be perverted or anything, but I just wanna know what I can do to make this girl crazy about me.

2006-10-31 10:05:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i tried to tell him im with Vincent now but he wount back off and after i told him that it was back to sucking on my boobs should i tell vincent bout this or will he be mad ?? HELP

2006-10-31 10:05:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well last last monday, i had a huge crush on a girl and i kinda wana forget it but i really cant. we had the eye thing goin for bout 40 minutes ... yea dont ask me how i managed to stare for so long either. maybe cuz she was jus that beautiful...and i cant get her out of my mind... and then carrying on to this week, i need to no if some other girl likes me... cuz i can tell shes tons shy and ye she smiles.. she looked at me for like 3 secs and then she looked down.I try to establish eye contact but no can do. i get the feeling shes too shy to look me in the eye. ima try tallkin to her tomorow help dont know what to do?

2006-10-31 10:04:30 · 15 answers · asked by obvlious56 3 in Singles & Dating

I thought I only felt that way because I was pregnant but my son is 2 months old and I still feel the same way. He's single and has NO children. My son's father and I broke up when I was about 3 months pregnant but we remain close friends because of our son I have an appointment next month. What should I do?

2006-10-31 10:03:12 · 11 answers · asked by tantalizin1 5 in Singles & Dating

This man that I am currently dating has alrady been married and divorced. He says that he cares about me so much that he doesnt want to have any secrts between us, so I asked him how many sexual partners he has had, and he said that he couldnt even count them, there have been so many. Should I stay with him?

2006-10-31 10:02:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when it comes to boyfriends and relationships??????

2006-10-31 10:01:36 · 34 answers · asked by cotoneaster 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 10:00:25 · 47 answers · asked by hotpinkangel_9 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 10:00:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have been friends since 2nd grade but the longer we are friends, the harder it is to tolerate her. For example, if you are talking to her, she totally ignores you...but if she is talking...you have to drop everything and look right at her the entire time.....and i have missed 10 days of school to her 1 (all covered by doctor mind you) and she is beating me in class by 0.4...that's POINT four! i'm fine with that but she wont shut up about it.....i would be happy for her if she would just talk about it once and let it go..but she runs her mouth til i cant take it and then calls me jealous. she's just very rude. How should i handle this?

2006-10-31 09:58:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

so what like if you don't answer in a couple months? they take points away?

2006-10-31 09:56:40 · 6 answers · asked by JOHNBOY 2 in Singles & Dating

I found out that my husband has been having net sex with a girl he slept with 3 years before. Does this mean he is cheating on me?

2006-10-31 09:56:19 · 33 answers · asked by teresapowers 1 in Marriage & Divorce