A man was sentenced to 60 yrs. for horribly sexually abusing a girl he was raising as his daughter from the age 8. Now 12 yrs, she went to to the hospital where she learned she was 8 mos preg. What is it about some men that are driven to commit sexual crimes? I know women do too, but it is mostly men and in the most henious ways. Maybe the men, can answer... is it sexual over drive, a need for power, would more "normal" men do it if ther were no laws against it? As a woman and a mother I am horrified to the point that I am beginning to see men differently.
2006-10-31 10:13:25 · 6 answers · asked by Hot Star 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a lot of the time is not about sex its about control, there is something lacking in the males that do these things (its not self control as they need a lot of control to be able to keep everything in order) its a disregard of people and society
i do not understand the motivation --- i love kids all kids but could never touch them or hurt them -- i am very aware of the perceptions of people so be careful around them
2006-10-31 10:22:49 · answer #1 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fist remember that the whole wait until they are 18 thing is only about 50-60 year old.
Until then women as young as 13 were married and then expected to start having children right away and some of them were married to 30 year old men, or older. This is in no means trying to defend such disgusting acts. I am simply say child molestation is for better or worse a mental illness (leftovers of an archaic way of thinking) Men that are caught instead of going to jail should be mental counceled first along with their jail time/ probation, and if a second offense should occure then chemical castration.
I hope that the actions of a few sick minds don't warp you forever dear ma'am, the majority of men are decent.
2006-10-31 18:22:26 · answer #2 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This kind of crime is totally abhorrent. I wonder if these guys are such losers that no woman would be interested. They still have a sex drive so CHOOSE to USE children who they can TRICK or FORCE into abused.
I've heard the argument that they can't help it, they're attracted to children. ..well ****** to that! They don't have to act on it!! Many men are attracted to women but most don't say Well, I can't help raping you!
Losers, saddoes, creeps, predators, nah there's not a word that can describe their inexcusable totally selfish actions.
Anyone on here suffering this kind of abuse, go tell someone you trust now, no matter what threats may have been made against you....You will get support and help. No one has the right to do anything you don't want not even your parents....as much as you may love them....get it stopped now.
2006-10-31 18:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are alot of sick ppl out there..and the man who did that is really sick..not all people are like that..I can only imagine the thing that he got out of it was a power trip or something..
2006-10-31 18:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by anniemariee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a total lack of self control...
2006-10-31 18:14:59 · answer #5 · answered by MC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your ot the only one who feels this way
2006-10-31 18:15:52 · answer #6 · answered by westvirginiastar 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋