Family & Relationships - 31 October 2006

Been married near 8yrs. Was a quick wedding at young ages - both trying to escape reality of our lives at that time. Been diificult time all the way along, but love each other. Husband spent many years (but not anymore) into porn which hurt real bad. We did the separate bedroom thing and separate holidays and councelling. Passionwise its lacking, but I get alot of nuturing and security from him and intellectually good. But he`s stubborn and a bit arrogant. I can see what he offers me in the relationship, but I dont know what I give him - and when I ask he dosent have an answer. But He says he believes we`ll be together till were real old. Weve worked through so much already, but sometimes I wonder if we should just go our separate ways. We have a kid together and I want a larger family (i`m not in my 20`s anymore!) I dont take separation lightly. To add to all this we dont have a strong support network, neither of us are close to family or have many friends that we see much of or share

2006-10-31 10:29:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-31 10:29:35 · 16 answers · asked by alana_gdwn 1 in Singles & Dating

this is so random..but iv been so upset for sooooo long trying to get my man back etc n try and get over him..but like an hour ago, i just realised how much of a nob he really is..i actually think im over him? yikes I think I hate him for all the heartless **** he put me through!lol...is this revelation temporary????? or is that how it works?..lol..thanks..x

2006-10-31 10:29:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so there is a guy at my work whom i've become quite friendly with in the past month or so. We flirt a bit, just real nice and cute most of the time. He'll always make an effort to talk to me or stop by the lab to chat if he see's i'm not busy. So today (he winked at me when i passed him in the hall) i was dressed as pebbles and he made a comment about it, ya know just teased a bit it a cute way. And i pretended that i actually cared, more so just to keep the conversation going...like i said it's always real flirty and cute. So he says, "Ok i'm sorry, maybe i can make it up to you and buy you lunch sometime...today or tomorrow whatever you want" i was almost speechless i've been waiting for this guy to ask me out for a while now. I didn't get a chance to see him for the rest of the day so i guess i'll have to take initiative tomorrow. I assumed he was asking me out on a date, sort of. Do you think it sounds that way to you? Or just a casual lunch with a coworker?

2006-10-31 10:29:22 · 4 answers · asked by jessarose143 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok fellas, if you are nervous around a female, I mean nervous like your hands shake and sometimes your voice cracks, are you nervous because you are lying about something? Or are you that into the girl? Or? What?

2006-10-31 10:28:22 · 6 answers · asked by livlovelaugh 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

how do I make out with a guy? I kiss, but its my first time making out. also, how do I get him to WANT to?

2006-10-31 10:28:18 · 10 answers · asked by Aly-Gator! 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 10:27:49 · 8 answers · asked by tigger 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 10:27:46 · 11 answers · asked by justnae 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been in a relationship for two years, and we're not married yet. would it be appropriate to buy a "Happy Anniversary" card for example.

2006-10-31 10:26:36 · 13 answers · asked by Dave 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I Been in this relationship for about 5yrs and she say that she love me but something inside me saying something else so can you help me out with this?

2006-10-31 10:25:45 · 16 answers · asked by lowkey_basher 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 10:25:21 · 2 answers · asked by bad b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been dating my BF for three years. Over the summer we broke up for a month, It was bad!! He did a lot of mean things to me like call me names and leave me nasty messages when he would hear i was out on the town. (he says now that he was jelouse) My parents found out and were not happy. We have been back for 4 months now and I still havnt told my folks because everytime i mention his name they cringe and say bad things. I mean we have worked it out and i have forgiven him for what he did. Things are starting to get serious between us, He is 27 and i am 24 so he is talking about getting married within the next few years. I need to know what is the best way to approach them, when they dislike him. He is willing to be there with me when i tell them, the only problem is how do we go about it???

2006-10-31 10:25:00 · 11 answers · asked by Curlz 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im planning a wedding for a friend of mine. The wedding will be in Oct of next year. Here is the wedding dress she picked out (its a light Gold dress)

http://www.davidsbridal.com/bridal_gowns_detail.jsp?stid=2632&prodgroup=127

She wants the colors to be neutral and her cake (which she wants to plan her wedding around) is Ivory icing with Chocalate edging. I was thinking about this dress and color for bridesmaids with bright flowers but wasnt sure if the truffle color is too dark or blah. Opinions really appreciated.

Here is the bridesmaid dress:
http://www.davidsbridal.com/bridesmaids_detail.jsp?stid=2650&prodgroup=139

2006-10-31 10:24:53 · 12 answers · asked by Kristin Pregnant with #4 6 in Weddings

and I finally had the guts to talk to him. My friend asked him if he was going to kiss me, and he said not yet. But
I'm not sure whether or not he will. I keep wondering if I actually have a chance with this guy. Think I have a chance? Should I tell him that I like him like him?

2006-10-31 10:24:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were only fifteen, may it be because we were too young so she wasn't 'wide enough'?

we now 16, and realised sex isn't important, as we still virgins, yet together, though we would both like to try

2006-10-31 10:23:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hit it off huge. Talked all the time, went out all the time, etc. 2 mos. into it, she starts to shy away, but it seemed like we were getting closer. I wouldn't even ask opinions on this, but we are able to talk pretty openly now (dating 6 mos.) and she told me she has always been like this, that she always shies away from the people she really starts to care for. She is a very honest person, so I don't really have any reason to doubt her. She seems torn now and said as much just tonight. We have told each other many times that we love each other. I believe her and know I mean it. So, is she just trying to let me down easy (her heart wants me, her head doesn't or vice versa) or can she really be telling me the truth, that she loves me but doesn't know if I'm what she wants? I am so confused. It's like she loves me so much she wants to end our relationship, or that's what it seems like.

2006-10-31 10:22:51 · 10 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

ok theres this guy at school and my friend likes him...so they started going out...then i realized he liked me more...im going out with him behind my friends back..i no i should break up with him..but i can't i love him he was my crush since he came to our school...
WICH WOULD U RATHER HAVE UR CRUSH OR UR FRIEND...??

2006-10-31 10:22:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why the h e l l do you guys love to poke girls in the side? What joy does that bring you? Especially short cute girls? I don't mind but why???

Also...

Whyd o you randomly hug? Once again I don't mind but I'll walk up to someone I know and say "O I can't talk long I gotta go" "Oh...well...can I have a hug?" .........ok.........

2006-10-31 10:21:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I really really like my guy friend and i think he likes me too! Cause he sits next to me and he talks to me everyday, and he's so kind and nice! Please answer! Thanks!

2006-10-31 10:20:22 · 16 answers · asked by girlygirl 3 in Friends

... and she gets to talk to me so easily. For instance, she came over to me and said "Have fun on trick-or-treating today Mark"

She is so nice. My question is how do I get to talk to her like that/what should I say?

2006-10-31 10:20:20 · 4 answers · asked by Rollin' VIp 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 10:20:19 · 6 answers · asked by njfinancialadvisor 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 10:19:26 · 29 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 10:19:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She wont ask her mom if I can come over or her mom is saying she cant come over shes not doing anything.What should I do?

2006-10-31 10:18:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i dont like her not because she is bisexual it is because she starts mess and she like dis boy i like and she nows it so she went and told him she liked him so now she goes with him and he really dont clame her and she do we also got in to it.Wat shoul i do.PLEASE HELP ME!

2006-10-31 10:18:41 · 4 answers · asked by watta 2 in Friends

You know the type, the 6'3" guy with big muscles...gets 'em all day long.

Time for me to start eating a ton, hitting the gym, and going tanning....hopefully it won't matter that I'm 5'9"-5'10"

Any one else notice this and why does it happen?

2006-10-31 10:18:17 · 16 answers · asked by Greg S 3 in Singles & Dating

i will tell you a little about me i have a screwed up back and i cant work but i do get workers comp and ssd i like to fish,hike,camping i'm looking for a companion,someone to do things with i sick of being alone no i'm not a pervert just lonely

2006-10-31 10:17:50 · 4 answers · asked by ystkvn 1 in Friends

I see her on the same bus i take every Tuesday and Thursday

2006-10-31 10:17:20 · 7 answers · asked by Jose2012 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 10:17:15 · 20 answers · asked by Devil 2 in Singles & Dating

I gave my number to a guy...I was giving it to his friend (that is a girl) who works with me and he asked for it to and I felt weird. He caught me off guard. Anyway he called the very next day to ask me out and I didn't answer or call him back But then today I accidentally answered!! I thought it was someone else! He wanted to know what I was doing for halloween and I said, "think I am busy but i'll call you later". I said that to get off the phone. Now what do I do? Should I call him later or just never call him or pick up again? I feel that is mean. Ahhh I hate this! help

2006-10-31 10:16:48 · 10 answers · asked by Kristina 1 in Singles & Dating