We were only fifteen, may it be because we were too young so she wasn't 'wide enough'?
we now 16, and realised sex isn't important, as we still virgins, yet together, though we would both like to try
2006-10-31 10:23:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lots of people have this problem first time. the reason is because she is not relaxed enough. Even if she feels calm. The most important thing you can do is spend a lot of time on foreplay, give her a massage and help her feel relaxed and loved. so many girls, especially virgins need to feel very comfortable before they can have sex. Not only will it relax her muscles down there, but also also the more you touch her the more naturally lubricated she will become. Take your time, stressing about it will only make it harder for her to become ready.
2006-10-31 10:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a smart young man...you and your girlfriend decided to wait but you're still together. There is a majority of people who look at sex as just an act however, it is much more than that. It is to be special, done with a person you love, one who loves you and one that you saved yourself for. If you have sex now, it will cheapen the act. Yes, it will feel good--now. But afterward, the guilt can be quite heavy.
Forgive me if I offend, it is not my intention, it's just simply what I believe. God has specific guidelines in the bible about this...I say you two should wait. I believe that if you do, God will bless you and your first experience will be much sweeter, much more meaningful.
Good luck to you, my friend. I pray that God will guide your steps in the right path.
2006-10-31 10:42:43 · answer #2 · answered by joncarhas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has nothing to do with how "wide" she is. lol. She wasn't relaxed her muscles were to tense. Tell her to relax. Be gentile with her. Do some foreplay (i.e. oral etc) get a bottle of lube and you're in business. And remember... Dr.Drew said it best "a woman's vagina is NOT an inside out penis" so don't treat it like one. :) Have fun. Rubber up!!!
2006-10-31 10:28:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are some rare cases where the hymen ( a thin sheet of membrane which is broken during the first sexual contact ) is not easily broken and needs a doctor's intervention to surgically tear it to make sex possible.....Its not a major surgery, the doctor just inserts a forcep into the vagina to tear the membrane..it bleeds a little and is not painful.....
2006-10-31 10:28:02 · answer #4 · answered by Modelizer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God was trying to tell you that premarital sex is wrong, will have negative consequences like teen pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases, or feelings of shame and guilt. It was a good thing, so wait until you are married, do not have sex as a teenager or you will regret that you did, then you have nothing to look forward to when you are finally married.
2006-10-31 10:32:45 · answer #5 · answered by TerraJC 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
haha.....me and one of my ex's had the same problem. i still come across that problem from time to time....yeah it's because she a little too tight. you should wait, but if you aren't going to, then just do other foreplay to "loosen" her up a bit. lots of lube and always use a condom!
2006-10-31 10:27:27 · answer #6 · answered by Rockstar Jersey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way too young. Stop doing stuff like that. That's how you get stuff you don't want.
2006-10-31 10:26:09 · answer #7 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
try oil. but first u gotta get her a.ss tight by like licking her or fingereing her
2006-10-31 10:31:54 · answer #8 · answered by champ22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it, wait till you are married. Once its gone that special experience is gone.
It didnt go in cause you are not married. It always works when you are. ;)
2006-10-31 10:26:41 · answer #9 · answered by SunValleyLife 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Aim lower, you were hitting her belly button!
2006-10-31 10:40:14 · answer #10 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋