Family & Relationships - 31 October 2006

well i have this think that i don't know what to do because i live with a big family...and we alway fighting.....but yes the think is that if i move with my dad... i know that i'm not going to have what i have with my grandparent...like my computer and my room...and more stuff...but that is not thinking..well if i stay with my grandparent i would more happy because i talk to them all the time i tell them what happen in school and yeah...with my dad i don't talk to him i just said hi and bye but i'm cool with my step-mom we talk and cook together....i don't know what to do...because i have promble with my aunts that they are live with my grandparents and i geting the fight with them and i don't like that so...i don't know should i stay or go....well my dad is move 11/12/06...and he told me that he is going to wait what i tell him... well i hope u guy can help me on this promble..but if i move i'm going to have promble both ways...

2006-10-31 11:12:45 · 5 answers · asked by tati or tatiana 1 in Family

im clueless

2006-10-31 11:11:40 · 8 answers · asked by munky_7_8 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm looking to buy my girlfriend a ring. I'd like to pay no more then 3k. Know of any great deals and or websites i can get a nice ring? thanks.

2006-10-31 11:11:32 · 19 answers · asked by dannySATX 2 in Weddings

Ok, this is a tough one, my mom is very self-centered and rude. She met my husbands parents for the first time and she put barely any energy into talking to them or being nice. They are very nice people and didn't deserve the rude undercurrent.

Later, her friends came to visit her at my house and she was a different person, bubbly and happy. Why couldn't she put in the effort for something that's important to me? I love my mom, I buy her everything in sight, treat her very well. Things weren't always good, but I have tried hard to help her and no matter how she acts I always will.

Here's another example - my husband and I feel it's our job to help provide for parents when they are old. We let his parents know they were welcome to live with us if anything happens and they were very appreciative.

When I extended the same invitation to my mom, she barked "I don't want to live with you!" WTF!?

Any thoughts? I'm a nice enough to silently deal, but..help?

2006-10-31 11:11:28 · 15 answers · asked by lulu 2 in Family

He rather be on the computer then talking to me what should i do? he is in love with downloading and editing porn should i become a pornstar? (naw) but what should i do to keep his attention on me. ( he is a hip hop lover)

2006-10-31 11:11:03 · 11 answers · asked by Successful1428 1 in Singles & Dating

i am a freshman and i am a guy. i have been friends with this girl that goes to the same high school as i go to for about a month. because i don't have her for any classes i don't talk to her at all during school because i don't see her. all i talk to her is through the internet. i asked her to be my girlfriend by giving her friend a note to give to her. then through messenger she told me no because she said she didnt know me well. then i told her that if we could still be friends and she said yes. i really like her. barely yesterday she got a schedule change and she got moved into 1 of my classes. now that we are able to talk person to person i feel really nervous to talk to her. even when i just tell her hi it makes me feel as if it was a different person 2 whom i had talked through the internet. i want 2 talk to her more so she can know me better because i really want to ask her out. please give me advices as to what should i say to her when i see her and what 2 do 2 not get nervous

i always see as if she is more than me when we are the same age.

it is because i am a little overweight and she is skinny.

keep in mind that i have already asked her out once. all i need is for her to know me more so she can say yes

i do know her well because i have talked to her friends that are guys from when she was in middle school

if i should hang out with her in school how should i ask her to hang out with me. like if she is walking and i want to ask her to hang out with me after school what should i tell her to ask her. also if she does hang out with me what should i start talking about

2006-10-31 11:10:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it would hopefully get government out of the marriage control issue, it would hopefully entice more people to marry that are in love regardless of religeous difference, It would hopefully cut down on divorce rates, ( maybe not )...I just think that that the old time worn " We are gathered here in the presence of God" line is antiquated and should be replaced by a more practical approach, i.e. a civil pact entered into by two consenting adults,,,I'm not gay by the way, but I have no problem with two adult consenting people of the same sex falling in love and getting married.. like i said, please don't bash me too hard for this question...

2006-10-31 11:10:28 · 11 answers · asked by Marvin C 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Are all women nut's or just the ones I come across? Seems ever girl I meet lately has a whole boat load of issues.

2006-10-31 11:09:52 · 20 answers · asked by poo hat 3 in Singles & Dating

Man my janitor really made me mad i caught him the other day scaring the kids in my building with his halloween costume how dare he well he was dressed up as a pumpkin

2006-10-31 11:09:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have 2 friends I really like but I don't know how to ask them if they wanna have a sleepover! I think it would be really fun to paint nails adn stuff but how do I ask them? They like me also!

2006-10-31 11:08:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She took me to a coffe house knowing that she and her boyfriend had to be my ride there and back. Well half way through she left me there. I had know clue she was even leaving the only way I knew that she left me was that I heard their car pull away. I waited for her for like 45 min. and I always have to wait for her. So I borrowed someone elses phone to call home for a ride. So I get to school on monday and she was mad at me for ruining her night! She is always doing this stuff to me and she never considers anyone but herself. By the way this was Katelyn P. so if you answered her question earlier she was giving you only her side of the story so now you know the whole story.

2006-10-31 11:08:24 · 9 answers · asked by wheezerelo 1 in Friends

2006-10-31 11:08:12 · 5 answers · asked by ginger 1 in Singles & Dating

First off, I'm a real estate agent. My girlfriends best friend (female) needed a loan for a home, so I got her approved and into a home. The night of the signing of the final paperwork, my girlfriend was working late so her best friend and myself went over the paperwork and had everything signed. In celebration of her new home that she would be moving into, we decided to share a bottle of wine. Now, my girlfriends best friend is gorgeous and I've always found her extremely attractive. Well you can see where this is going, one thing leads to another and we ended up having some of the best sex that I have ever had. Later my girlfriend comes home, and we're sitting in the living room like nothing has happened. Needless to say, we played things off really well and have been sleeping with eachother for about 1 month now. I've been with my girlfriend for about 2 years now and I'm thinking about kicking her out, with no place to go, and starting a serious relationship with her friend.

2006-10-31 11:07:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i like this girl but everytime i talk to her she doesnt feel interested on me what should i do? but i like her though

2006-10-31 11:07:14 · 8 answers · asked by Kemi$t 2 in Singles & Dating

What is your favourite thing that your husband/bf/crush does for/to you?

2006-10-31 11:07:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have A HUGE crush on a guy who said he doesn't like me, but won't quit staring at me when he sees me. His friends say he likes me and they also say he doesn't like me. What are like, foolproof ways to get him to tell the truth, which I think is that he likes me?

2006-10-31 11:06:38 · 14 answers · asked by maysimay2006 3 in Singles & Dating

Tell my friend I don't want her friend to come with us trick-or-treating with us, since I don't get along with her friend?

2006-10-31 11:06:37 · 3 answers · asked by Nikki 1 in Friends

othe than that he,s a good husband, but he will not empty and take the trash out. what shalli do?

2006-10-31 11:06:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Lisa McLay now Lisa Doodeman gave birth to Sarah, then 11 months later Lisa's aunty said lets take Sarah for a little holiday while my husband at the time were having some marriage problems. She did not give my daughter back to me, i tried with all my strength but i was too weak as this was an aunty that i once loved. I have heard among the grape vine through family, that Sarah does not know who I am, and Sarahs grandad is just a friend of the family..... I feel she is not doing Sarah any good...... I would finally like to reconnect with my daughter as i have always wanted, Sarahs eldest brother Chris wants his little sister back...
Also i have heard that she wants a passport and without my permission, she will not be allowed to lead the country...... I finally feel that Christine is running out of options, and needs to come and face the truth....although she probabally feels she done this for a reason when i was weak.............Sarah may hate me, but its worth the risk

2006-10-31 11:05:27 · 3 answers · asked by ldoodeman 1 in Family

I've heard people say they know after the first date. If you have some doubts after 8 months, is that bad?

Also, how do you know when you've met the one?

2006-10-31 11:05:21 · 9 answers · asked by ftz 6 in Singles & Dating

i cant be the only person to never make it to a year even though it wasnt me that walked away from the marraige

2006-10-31 11:05:02 · 32 answers · asked by smiff78 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Personally I think this site has the best information ever, the only thing I don't think is totally correct on here, is the chart that shows how much power/money matters to a woman in a relationship 50% seems way to low, everything else seems about right though, your thoughts?

http://www.laddertheory.com/

2006-10-31 11:04:22 · 3 answers · asked by D 4 in Singles & Dating

Brown hair
Green eyes
Great flirty smile
Funny, could make the whole school laugh if I wanted to
Musical.. piano, harmanica, guitar, VOICE (can really sing great)
smart (not in math)
Mature (lots of friends)
Why don't I have a boy friend?? I don't under stand!! Please help!!

P.S. Happy Halloween

2006-10-31 11:03:52 · 18 answers · asked by Choir~Geek 4 in Singles & Dating

So I just got engaged and we've already created a website (yep I am a planner) what do y'all think?

http://wedding.weddingchannel.com/kaseyandcolin

2006-10-31 11:02:28 · 6 answers · asked by Lax Angel 3 in Weddings

Everytime I am around people I feel angry and feel like they got something against me. Then I have all sorts of violent thoughts.

2006-10-31 11:02:20 · 11 answers · asked by D. A. 1 in Family

for a boyfriend of one month? i want it to be special, but since we've only been going out for a month i don't want to go too overboard. what are some good ideas?

2006-10-31 11:00:43 · 8 answers · asked by thunderwear 4 in Singles & Dating

What was the most special thing you remember about your wedding day and why?

2006-10-31 11:00:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

.......why is that ''settling'' for second best???
Does it have to be ''true love or nothing?''
What , sit at home and wait for mr right to come along , and never have a relationship up until that day?
All or nothing?
Sounds like sitting at home in dreamland to me - when i can get out there and live in reality!!!

2006-10-31 11:00:16 · 20 answers · asked by chandra 6 in Singles & Dating

I'm too shy to talk to him and I like him but he doesn't know that and he's too shy to talk to me.what should i do?

2006-10-31 11:00:14 · 6 answers · asked by LaLa 1 in Friends

My first question so give me a break

2006-10-31 10:59:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating