Girls please help me?

Question

i am a freshman and i am a guy. i have been friends with this girl that goes to the same high school as i go to for about a month. because i don't have her for any classes i don't talk to her at all during school because i don't see her. all i talk to her is through the internet. i asked her to be my girlfriend by giving her friend a note to give to her. then through messenger she told me no because she said she didnt know me well. then i told her that if we could still be friends and she said yes. i really like her. barely yesterday she got a schedule change and she got moved into 1 of my classes. now that we are able to talk person to person i feel really nervous to talk to her. even when i just tell her hi it makes me feel as if it was a different person 2 whom i had talked through the internet. i want 2 talk to her more so she can know me better because i really want to ask her out. please give me advices as to what should i say to her when i see her and what 2 do 2 not get nervous

i always see as if she is more than me when we are the same age.

it is because i am a little overweight and she is skinny.

keep in mind that i have already asked her out once. all i need is for her to know me more so she can say yes

i do know her well because i have talked to her friends that are guys from when she was in middle school

if i should hang out with her in school how should i ask her to hang out with me. like if she is walking and i want to ask her to hang out with me after school what should i tell her to ask her. also if she does hang out with me what should i start talking about

Answer 1

I met my bf on the internet, and yes, it was awkward talking to him in person the first couple of times. The more I got to know him, however, the more at ease we became....and now we're together, and it's great! i know how you feel, though, about it not seeming like the same person you talked to on the internet when you talk in person....it takes a while for that to come together mentally...at least it did for me...and then it'll just make you MORE comfortable around her.

start by talking about funny things that you might have chatted about online. Don't worry about being her boyfriend, just be friends. If you ask her out again later, then if she says "no", at least you can still be friends. Maybe you can suggest going out with a couple of other friends (as a group), and that may make her more comfortable. Ensure her that it's not a "date" but just out to a movie, etc. That way you're not pressuring her.

Your weight won't matter much. Be confident and not self-conscious... Talk about things you like with her, pretend you're online....and when you decide to ask her out for real, never ask her out in front of her friends!

Answer 2

talk to her about some of the same things that you talked about on the internet. Don't worry about being a little overweight or that she is skinny because this doesn't really matter. You need to show her that you have confidence in your appearance and when you talk to her. Girls like guys who are confident. If she didn't like you already, she wouldn't have told you that she would like to get to know you better. As you talk to her more and more, you will be less nervous so, just be yourself and everything will fall into place. Good luck!

Answer 3

if she really likes u she will accept if u ask her out again