Family & Relationships - 31 October 2006

I WANNA DUMP MY FRIEND BECUZ SHES SO BITCHY AND GETS MAD IF IM HANGING AROUND WITH OTHER FRIENDS AND IS A TOTAL BRAT!wATS A NICE WAY I COULD DUMP HER?

2006-10-31 11:55:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-31 11:55:11 · 8 answers · asked by jksliger 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been married for 5 years (together for 10) I love my husband, but im realizing im not in love anymore. Im only w/ him for our kids. I met a man a couple months ago through my brother. We hit it off quick. So much in commen and we can talk about anything. The problem is that were in love, madly in love. He already left his girlfriend because of me. My heart tells me that i want to be with this man, but i don't want to hurt my husband in any kind of way. What should i do and how should i do it?

2006-10-31 11:53:09 · 22 answers · asked by brwn_id_grl_4u 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-31 11:52:21 · 10 answers · asked by erica leigh™ 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it because:

1. You are financially dependant on him?

2. The children?

3. You have no where else to go?

4. You are held against your will?

5. You stick it out in the (false) hope that he will change one day?

6. All or combination of the above?

7. Any other reason? please state.

Most importantly, what can anyone who is aware of your situation do to help?

1. Legal advice?

2. Financial help?

3. Relocation?

4. help finding another spouse?

5. help lines, emails, phone-ins, anonymous or otherwise?

Thank you for taking the time to respond.

2006-10-31 11:51:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She is only 12 looks 18and wants to go with 2 boys & 1 girl in a neighborhood I am not familiar with!!!! I said no! Now she's angry!
What now????

2006-10-31 11:51:25 · 17 answers · asked by yidlmama 5 in Family

im a girl, but im using my bro's account cuz i really need this answered: how do you apologize to ur best friend without saying sorry, but showing it with ur actions?

my best friend got mad at me bcuz i was teasing her that she likes my guy friend then she suddenly got mad, but a while ago she was laughing with me and my other friends. Help? I really need an answer cuz I don't wanna go to skul 2morrow with her mad at me...

2006-10-31 11:51:16 · 6 answers · asked by rhyner021 2 in Friends

Say you really like this woman, you flirted for about six month, but you didn't make a move until after she got pregnant by someone else. (You did know she was pregnant at the time.) You have great chemistry together, you think she looks great, still at 6 months pregnant, but the belly isn't going to get any smaller. Would you still want her and be physically attracted to her when she starts getting real big?

2006-10-31 11:50:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for about sven yrs and 10 months, is it just the seven year itch. My husband says he has fallen out of love with me and he only loves me because I am the mother to his kids. We have had a very rocky summer & trying to mend our marriage. We are moving to a different town is this a right move. There was another woman involved, but she I guess is no longer in the picture. I am trying to work things out, but I feel like just givning up. We had a big argument over me not keeping that place clean, I have three kids a 1 & 4 year, you tell how do I keep the place clean. Also we are moving and I have been packing the last minute, but we don't even have a place to move our things. Help, help, help!!

2006-10-31 11:50:52 · 11 answers · asked by mom 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've never been in love with anyone, thank heavens, and I don't get close to people. I don't think that babies are cute, at all! And neither are little kids. I dislike romances, unless it's a classic like Pride and Prejudice, in fact, I love my dog more than I love anyone in my family.
I've been disappointed many times, and hurt, but I carry no regret or remorse or pain about it. They don't bother me at all.
I'm emotionally detached from people and the world. I'm interested in what I want to be interested in, and I stick to my priorities.
Now I have a boyfriend, who seems to be the same, though not as "hard around the heart". We get along fine, and cuddle and everything. But I feel trapped with him, because I do not love him.
He's said that he loves me, I've said it back simply because I felt that I shouldn't disappoint him.
Am I too hard a person?
I have truly attempted to become "softer", but found it impossible.

2006-10-31 11:50:31 · 8 answers · asked by Nicole 4 in Singles & Dating

I've been, talking to this guy for a while now, and we've been sexually active, but it's like the only time he acts like he wants to touch me is when we're in bed. i wouldn't want to offend him, but he's the thug type, trying to act all hard n stuff. but sometimes i think he really cares but doesn't want to seem soft. he is my first everything, and one minute i'm saying i could be done with him today, then the next, i'm craving him something fierce. i would love it he just hugged me everytime he saw, or wanted to hold my hand for a little bit. it's like he can't even stand for me to lay my head on his chest. what should i tell him, how should i go about asking him to be more affectionate. i asked him to hug me the way he did the first time we met, and he said no, but you know bad boys have to bluff alot. is that all he's doing? please give me some suggestions ladies, and guys who know how to treat a girl.

2006-10-31 11:50:30 · 6 answers · asked by jitwitit 2 in Singles & Dating

should I call, I alson found some one who I think is my brother. Keep in mind, I don't knwo if these numbers are to my family members. I thought it might be cheaper than hiring someone to help me find them.

2006-10-31 11:50:17 · 5 answers · asked by xhiien 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was w/ my ex for 3years when I found out he was cheating w/ some one at work. We continued to see eachother for a few months but it was more like a new relationship, I told him he needed to earn my trust. It happened again, w/ the same girl. I know he doesn't love her, she told me that and so did he. He said he regrets loosing me, I know he means that. We were great together, he accomplished great success and I was there to help. I told him that as long as he still works for the same company I wanted nothing to do with him, because of her. He e-mails and texts me quite often, I try to ignore him but I always give in and respond. I thought of changing my # and e-mail but I use both work business. I love him but I know I'll never be able to trust in him again. How can I get him to stop??

2006-10-31 11:50:05 · 3 answers · asked by ♥less 2 in Singles & Dating

if you read my other ??'s youll get a better picture. he has cheated in the past, but willing to work it out, now we have been having problems and i left about 2mons ago and now i know he is cheating for sure again. but i love him and i want 2 work things out but he says he is sorry he know how he f/up but doesnt give any signs of him wanting 2 work things out, i dont want to beg anymore, i have for the past 6mon, i know i should move on but how, how do i start, how do i stop calling him i know am only pushing him away, and i dont want us to be over, am i in denial!!!!

2006-10-31 11:49:37 · 12 answers · asked by why 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it because:

1. You are financially dependant on him?

2. The children?

3. You have no where else to go?

4. You are held against your will?

5. You stick it out in the (false) hope that he will change one day?

6. All or combination of the above?

7. Any other reason? please state.

Most importantly, what can anyone who is aware of your situation do to help?

1. Legal advice?

2. Financial help?

3. Relocation?

4. help finding another spouse?

5. help lines, emails, phone-ins, anonymous or otherwise?

Thank you for taking the time to respond.

2006-10-31 11:48:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

really good indications he does) were talking. and i asked him if he hung out with other girls besides me.then he didint really understand the q. so i came otu and said "do girls ever hit on u?" (cuz guys hit on me all the time and hes actually soem what of a nerd so i was j/w) and he started telling me about how this realy hot girl came up 2 him and sat on his lap 1 time in front of his friends. then he told me that another girl let him feel her up in his philos. class and alot of times she puts her hair in hsi face. he went on to tell me about how hot these girls are and how fine they are etc..... I couldn't belive he was saying all this 2 my face! but since were just friends i tried to act like it wa no big deal. then he asked me about all the "freakin guys that hit on me" in his words then i started teling him (not as graphic as he said) and he tried 2 switch the subj. im mad cuz he always acts liek he lieks me but he had 2 tell me about all these girls he trys 2 get with.

2006-10-31 11:48:32 · 8 answers · asked by thrashthemic 1 in Friends

2006-10-31 11:48:08 · 7 answers · asked by To Remain Anonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a bridesmaid in a destination wedding. So far, I have put out over $800 for the dress/shoes, shower, & bachelorette party. I still have to pay for airfare, car rental, & hotel. My question is....how much would be appropriate for a monetary gift. I was thinking $100...some people tell me that is too much..others say I should give more since I'm in the wedding. I am attending alone...so my gift is solo. Any opinions?

2006-10-31 11:46:59 · 16 answers · asked by lolabellaquin 4 in Weddings

other htan the obvious steph and stephy..

2006-10-31 11:45:23 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

haven't seen this friend i over a year,have no idea where they are.

2006-10-31 11:45:11 · 9 answers · asked by vern2340 2 in Friends

i met my best friend two years back. we've been in the same class all this time. we get along really well, n noone can tear us apart. but all these years, i've been growing more n more possesive abt her.

in feb, this guy started liking her big time, and he's a really commited boyfriend. they started going out in april, n they started doing "those things", which i couldn't stand. i hate that guy now, because i cant see them together. we all are in the same grade and the same school, so its always happening. i kinda rebelled before, but me and my friend started having fights, cause she loves him alotttt by now. so i'm kinda putting up with with of them, just for her

what do i do? its killing me inside... do i just live with it? i thought abt getting new friends, n changing my company, but i cant, i just love her company. she keeps on showing me his baby pics and his letters, and what all he does, and how sweet he is, and i feel really helpless.

2006-10-31 11:44:51 · 7 answers · asked by cartman 2 in Friends

2006-10-31 11:44:44 · 13 answers · asked by D. A. 1 in Family

She says she doesnt trust me 100 percent cause i lied to her in the past over something stupid... Thats the only thing i did wrong... She is younger than me and i'm her first serious relationship... She put us on break for a week, for her to think it over.. but i know the outcome already cause she is being very cold hearted...I tried flowers, cards and more cards... dont know what to do... She says its the best thing for us to break up...But she also tells me she loves me and wants a future... dont know....

2006-10-31 11:44:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

recently for my 18th birthday i decided to chill wit my ex...so we went to a hotel and did our thing...we didnt have sex tho...ok i just chilled wit him because i needed/wanted a little bit of affection.now hes trying to get back with me....dont ge me wrong he's a cool guy...but im not sure if im ready to get back into a serios relationship.i offere him an open relationship he says thats dumb and stupid...so guys what should i do...should i get back wit him he's os crazy over me??

2006-10-31 11:42:33 · 21 answers · asked by tiffani0611 1 in Singles & Dating

ok theres a really cute guy at work (i dont see him that often )
but when i do he does chat and his mate have told me he fancies me however im why to shy to chat to him any tips for a shy gal??

2006-10-31 11:41:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend Is a twin and her mother always put her sister over her and makes her feel so bad. Then she makes her have a low self-asteem

2006-10-31 11:40:58 · 17 answers · asked by HIS CHICK FORVER 2 in Family

would you be composed enough to speak and give a eulogy at the service or would you not be able to due to the emotion???

2006-10-31 11:40:20 · 42 answers · asked by silversilver3 2 in Family

i met this girl at a club and i swear to God that she is the most gorgeous girl i or any body i've known has ever seen, well the thing is...she is 30 year old but she look like a 20 year old and has 2 little kids. You can't even tell her age by looking or talking to her, she is quite youthful and likes to party. we hit it off real well and she wants to get into a relationship with me, well, the problem is that i am 19 years old and going to college, do you think this is going to work out and should i get into a relationship with her? just think about the most gorgeous and kind person you ever came to know but with these kind of situations. thx buddy dudes ^_^

2006-10-31 11:39:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Lets say you buy a girl a fairly expensive gift and she acts like everything is all great and says I love you, i love you so much blah blah blah and lets say 1-2 weeks later you get dumped no real explanation just dumped really badly, Is it ok to ask this ex for this expensive present you gave them??

2006-10-31 11:39:36 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is another thing she lives in Ohio and I live in IL. I really don't know how she feels about me but I have a feeling. I seen her this last weekend and we slept in the same bed, we did not do anything but we did hold each other so I also was wondering if that is just that, or maybe could be something more. I met her before last weekend and we talked all night and got along really good. I would call her but my dumbass never got a chance to get her number? any suggestions.

2006-10-31 11:39:36 · 12 answers · asked by JMT 2 in Singles & Dating