Family & Relationships - 31 October 2006

Okay heres my problem. I am a freshman and I really like this junior. The only problem is I've never talked to him before. His friends are intimidating, and I dont have any classes with him. He seems like a nice guy and I know he comes from a nice family. The problem is that hes really, really, good-looking, and I dont have the confidence or guts to go talk to him. And even if i did I wouldn't know what to talk about since we've never spoken before. Please help me!! Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

2006-10-31 12:14:26 · 5 answers · asked by Boy Problems 1 in Singles & Dating

When you first met your boyfriend/husband, did you instantly feel attraction or did it grow over time? I met this guy that is really nice and is everything I'm looking for in a boyfriend but, I don't feel attracted to him. Will this change with time?

2006-10-31 12:14:00 · 7 answers · asked by cee cee 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been talking to this guy for two years and known him for four? We haave done everything together. We hugged, we kissed, we had our suppose to be moments, everything we have done seemed as if we were a couple. We went out on the streets and people would say "all yall are such a cute couple..," He never admit his true feelings. He said there was feelings at one point in time, but now there not and he's fed up with me and stop calling him. Everytime I dream about him, I end up in his house a few months later and were messing around again. How can some hurt me so badly expecially when he knows what I was looking for in life? I don't ever want a guy, I will die and be in my casket and in my wall knowing that I have forever been single. I almost killed myself over that guy and for the last year he have never been there for me. I wonder does he even think about me at all or will he ever forgive me. He punched me in the head twice and I cried and cried, but now I have forgiven him.

2006-10-31 12:13:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

instantly feel attraction or did it grow over time? I met this guy that is really nice and is everything I'm looking for in a boyfriend but, I don't feel attracted to him. Will this change with time?

2006-10-31 12:13:05 · 21 answers · asked by cee cee 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He is a university professor and I was a student of his six years ago. He has a terrible marriage and I was always the friend who'd listen to him and share his pain, I never intended to take it any further, but he did. Nothing physical is going on, but I just feel so guilty knowing that he talks and sees me without the knowledge of his wife. He keeps on showing his affection to me and I keep on denying it. I know that I love him, but I can't go on with this relationship neither can I end it. He's a great person who tried hard to save that marriage and is still struggling. On the other hand, I can't stop thinking about him. I do care about him, and I know he cares a great deal about me. I didn't date anybody for the past six years, simply because he wouldn't accept it out of jealousy and I couldn't do it out of love for him. I'm in pain; guilt is eating me up. I recently met his wife while at his office, where he appointed me as a professor assistant, I couldn't look her in the eye...

2006-10-31 12:12:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf is always alot nicer to me when he drinks, do you think the things he says then is really how he feels or just the alcohol talking?

2006-10-31 12:12:29 · 15 answers · asked by Dreamer 1 in Singles & Dating

We all have that one we like to forget about..Men, know what i mean..Woman, do you have a story where you regret taken that guy home?...Sometimes there funny , sometimes there not..Whats your story?

2006-10-31 12:12:16 · 7 answers · asked by I'll bee dat 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 12:12:09 · 2 answers · asked by Juan M 1 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes I feel hopeless about the condition of my lovelife.

2006-10-31 12:11:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Yes I am amplanning to married my step-sister, and she is going to college, caring our child. our parent doesn't know about us lot. We are going the las vagas to get married .

2006-10-31 12:10:48 · 20 answers · asked by JAMIE D 1 in Family

Good advice please !

2006-10-31 12:10:20 · 17 answers · asked by Latin Techie 7 in Friends

2006-10-31 12:09:24 · 25 answers · asked by Juan M 1 in Singles & Dating

i havent been intimate in 4 years(could be more) and now i have a urge to do it but im not that type of qirl im 25 and in need if i even go into a relationship now ill have to wait like 3 freaken months!

2006-10-31 12:07:31 · 14 answers · asked by Nafertiti 2 in Singles & Dating

This lady was my first ladyfriend. She dumped me harshly. She even bragged that she had found another guy and the she liked him because his skin was lighter than mine (me and the other guy are both African-Americans), she told me I was immature, she quit speaking and talking to me, and she even told me she was relieved to be with this other guy. In addition, she even told my mother that she felt she found "the one" which was not me . I was hurt when she dumped me so harshly. She was my first love and she dumped me so angrily with no remorse. I am a not a perfect guy but I am good guy. I always cherishted her and treated her respectfully but to no avail. That was the first and last relationship I ever had. I do not want another relationship.

Please feel free to comment.

2006-10-31 12:06:44 · 9 answers · asked by wayne b 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so, has any one EVER liked someone SO much that all you could think about was that one person? Have you ever been in a class with that one person and not be able to concentrate because HE (or for the guys, she) was in there, and you were too busy thinking about them? You see this person every~day, and every time you see them, you get butterflies in your stomach and you are hoping against hope that the guy will talk to you. (Again for the guys, or the girl that you like. Just remember that from here on out. Ok?) Anywho, that is what I am going through right now. This guy, (I am not going to mention any names, but there are a few people that know who I am talking about.), is in the class that I am a teacher's aide for 2nd period. We always talk in that class. If I do not say hello to him first, he says hello to me first, and if I do not talk to him, he will spend the whole period trying to figure out why I am not talking to him. He makes me feel so confused. I don't know what to do

2006-10-31 12:06:01 · 11 answers · asked by southern_angel_200718 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do I feel so bad and depressed when my best friend (a girl, I'm a guy we are 15) gets a boyfriend and when I see them together?

2006-10-31 12:06:00 · 8 answers · asked by flaminious 1 in Singles & Dating

i see her more because wee're in youth group we are both freshmen but we go to different schools. she is going out with an 8th grader at my church who is also my friend. he goes to the same school district as me but different than her. before i asked a question about our relationship as friends an alomst all answers were that she liked me! why would she go out with the other kid!

2006-10-31 12:05:57 · 4 answers · asked by E man 2 in Singles & Dating

We moved to a new state, and since then, my husband has been less attentive. He used to buy me flowers or a card once in awhile. He still tells me he loves me, but does nto take the extra effort to show it. I suffer from depression and it has been worse lately. When I told him, he still has made no effort. I try and do special things for him. The more I think about it, the less we seem to have in common anymore. Our interests are different, and I do not like to argue. How should I approach this?

2006-10-31 12:05:46 · 12 answers · asked by rydhic 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-31 12:04:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Sometimes I woke him up in the middle of the night cuz it's really driving me crazy! He felt sorry too,but that's not something he can control.

Any suggestions?Thanks!

2006-10-31 12:03:56 · 20 answers · asked by anne 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my girlfriend very much, and want to take our relationship to the next level (Sex). what do I do, do I ask her if she wants to becuase that seems pretty wierd. What do I do and what did you do.

2006-10-31 12:02:48 · 10 answers · asked by mr. fancy pants 3 in Singles & Dating

hi guys! I am currently looking for proposal ring for my girlfriend. I have seen SK, S**K**, GH, LW but so far i am mostly attracted to the Larry's Lazarre (or sumthin). I hope my girlfriend likes it as well. What is the usual size of diamond for proposal rings. Im lookin at [.30/.35/.40], [D/E/F], SV1. I dont want to give her a big stone... she may look like my mom...LOL...

2006-10-31 12:01:49 · 8 answers · asked by caratE 1 in Weddings

My friend was going to go trick or treating with me, and these other girls, but she got really pissy, and know she still, is being pissy! What do I do, i really like her as a friend, but, well, she can be extremely mean, and moody. I want her to go trick or treating with me, but, I want an apology to! ANY suggestions, or comments, on what to do, would be greatly appreciated! Thank You!

2006-10-31 12:00:43 · 6 answers · asked by Baseball Lover 2 in Friends

2006-10-31 12:00:41 · 5 answers · asked by Patsy W 1 in Singles & Dating

FWhat are some nicknames that guys like to be called.

Haha corny but.. these are just random ones ive heard. so do u like em for guys?
babe?
baby?
sweetie?
or any others that u know?

2006-10-31 11:58:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

... you spend so much efforts to appear sexy, but you dont realize that doesent matter at all?... I am tired of chasing them and to give my love away, I am living in Italy.

2006-10-31 11:58:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

as in u think they're "the one" for u and the only one...also what should u do if u broke up with them but now u realize they're the one and they are in a relationship with someone else at the moment...idk whether he still cares that much about me anymore or not..

2006-10-31 11:57:10 · 12 answers · asked by beforehecheats 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 11:56:59 · 16 answers · asked by Rajkumar 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend has just recently broken up from her husband. Only 4 weeks ago she has already sleped with 8 different men, Some of the things she says to me makes me think that she has a crush on my husband. She was invited over for dinner last night and we we looking at photos of my husband and myself and she said wow its a shame hes your husband thats the sort of body i would like. Then she said I need some shelves put up at my house could your hubby come and do it atleast I will be able to purve on the handy man. What should I say to her I have not told my hubby how I feel about this yet as he will think that I am paronied.

2006-10-31 11:56:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay i like this guy and he is in a differnt track then me and I dont see him often and I dont know if he remembers me and I want to start talking to him how can I talk to him without looking wierd and I like this guy for like a year already I am not obessed

2006-10-31 11:55:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating