I love my girlfriend very much, and want to take our relationship to the next level (Sex). what do I do, do I ask her if she wants to becuase that seems pretty wierd. What do I do and what did you do.
2006-10-31 12:02:48 · 10 answers · asked by mr. fancy pants 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and yes this would be my first time
2006-10-31 12:10:32 · update #1
if is ur first time. watch pornos or sex video education. they teach u alot. Then afterwards take her out on a nice romantic movie were their will be some action(sex). Then take her back to ur house open the champainge and put some Barry White and kiss her and see where it goes from their. If nothing happens tell her that u love her and that she is the one all that crap that they wanna hear. use protection at all costs. If nothing happens get some good lotion for urself. lol lol
2006-10-31 12:12:17 · answer #1 · answered by fhmets03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never ask... she will most definitely say no... instead, always lead.
I would read some stuff on how to seduce a woman etc etc how to get a woman into bed etc. It will give you some confidence. Or watch some porn maybe (i'm serious). it will help you be a lot more confident in bed and learn a lot faster.
Be careful what you ask for, though. It makes the relationship SOOOOO much more complicated. Good luck.
2006-10-31 12:07:07 · answer #2 · answered by ftz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have an answer for you! You should go online and ask a whole group of strangers something that only your girlfriend can give you the answer to.
By the way the need to put the word sex into brackets (sex) suggests you are not ready for it yourself!
2006-10-31 12:07:14 · answer #3 · answered by Brad NZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask her, but express your desire to. Telling her you want to make love to her (in a tasteful way) isn't insulting, it's a compliment and a testament to how much you love her. Watch her reaction, it will tell you a lot about how she feels. If she doesn't say anything, then she's probably not ready.
2006-10-31 12:07:15 · answer #4 · answered by Missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from a girl....It really depends on how long you have been with her....If you have been together for a while, ask her before she thinks you aren't really in love with her.But if it hasn't been that long, WAIT!!!
2006-10-31 12:12:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are ready for the next level you will both know it --- no need to plan it or ask about it
easy answer you are not ready as a couple to go to the next leve
2006-10-31 12:06:22 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have to ask her as awkward as it may feel. say something like: it's hard to be this close to you and not want to do more... or use someone else as the subject (i heard...did you hear...) to approach the subject and get her reaction, if you can't easily bring it up.
2006-10-31 12:07:34 · answer #7 · answered by Omni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it really all depends on how old the two of you are.. if you're old enough there is nothing wrong with asking..
2006-11-01 05:44:29 · answer #8 · answered by jerseygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will this be your first time?
2006-10-31 12:05:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
.......Continue.to care for her> appreciate her> kiss her> do nice things for her> show R.E.A.L. "Interest" in her .Interests.> help her do things> :SHE WILL COME AROUND TO .YOU. SEXUALLY, IF THAT IS HER "DeSIRE" TOO.......
2006-10-31 12:18:50 · answer #10 · answered by Missoula Don 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋