I have been talking to this guy for two years and known him for four? We haave done everything together. We hugged, we kissed, we had our suppose to be moments, everything we have done seemed as if we were a couple. We went out on the streets and people would say "all yall are such a cute couple..," He never admit his true feelings. He said there was feelings at one point in time, but now there not and he's fed up with me and stop calling him. Everytime I dream about him, I end up in his house a few months later and were messing around again. How can some hurt me so badly expecially when he knows what I was looking for in life? I don't ever want a guy, I will die and be in my casket and in my wall knowing that I have forever been single. I almost killed myself over that guy and for the last year he have never been there for me. I wonder does he even think about me at all or will he ever forgive me. He punched me in the head twice and I cried and cried, but now I have forgiven him.
2006-10-31 12:13:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
come on dont you know you deserve better than someone that does not treat you with respect he hit you so that should tell you to run like hell.besides love your self enough to know you should be thanking god you are not with him he dont serve you wait until the right one comes thats going to love and respect you.its ok to be single until god blesses you.it will give you time to get him out your system and prepare your heart for something better.good luck
2006-10-31 12:19:22 · answer #1 · answered by ladyrena12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, again, hun. I'm sorry. It's hard.
But he doesn't love you. He never will.
You CAN move on. Take one small step at a time.
What step? Do little things first. How about cleaning up something? Finishing a small project you put off because of him? Little by little.
Say a step is a yard and a small step is a foot. Ten steps later, you actually have some distance! 100 steps later, and he's just a small speck in the distance.
Take that first step. Let go. No need to make excuses for him, and no regrets from yourself.
Cry when you need to but, not to him. Never again.
I keep repeating this, but... I'm sorry. he doesn't love you. He never will. Nothing you do will make a difference. Time to move on and time to come back to yourself.
Good luck
2006-10-31 20:20:56 · answer #2 · answered by MisterO 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, this sound pretty intense and scary. I'm sorry you are going through this. It sounds like it's tearing you up emotionally, but also hurting you physcially. One thing you must do is admit to yourself that this is not good for you to hang on to and its not healthy. You also have to realize that you are a beautiful person and you deserve to be treated better than what he has given you. Think of the reasons why you still care so much for him. There maybe some good reasons, but I must say when there's hitting involved you need to run. That shows he doesnt care and is a coward. Please please please love yourself enough to pick up the pieces and know that there is someone out there who will love you and care for you and treat you like a princess. In order for that to happen you have to think that you are worth it.
2006-10-31 20:24:02 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetie P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you are a trip. Why you let him punch you in the head? Honey it's like they say in the old days "you gotta know when to hold them--know when to fold them---know when to walk away---know when to run. And it sounds like you should run and don't look back. But seriously alot of times when a relationship has gone bad unless you go to some type of counseling, it's hard to fix. It is possible. Just pray and if that don't work, stalk him. lol
2006-10-31 20:21:51 · answer #4 · answered by curiouspie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he doesn't sound like someone I would want to keep around. He knows how you feel, he obviously feels differently, so just let him go.
Punched you in the head???? Why would you ever forgive that?
Please, for your own well being, let him go. He's not worth the trouble.
2006-10-31 20:22:10 · answer #5 · answered by deb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him girl...he's not for you...Its hard yes i know coz i've been inlove also and fool by that person but still life must go on.....The world wont stop because your lonely or because your gripping of pain.....It will move and go on...and if your going to waste your life thinking of that person who made you cry you will be left behind...Just think that everything happened for a purpose....You know sometimes we must be hurt inorder to learn so next time we are more stronger. Keep on living...keep on dreaming....Someone will come in your way....someone worth for your love...Leave him girl your wasting your time for him.....
2006-10-31 20:28:22 · answer #6 · answered by simoune s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, you must be really young so please don't take this the wrong way.
Stop obsessing over things you can't control. It's not healthy and a total waste of time and energy.
Oh, and you really need to seek help. Tomorrow, go to school and talk to the school nurse about counseling. You need it. Please.
2006-10-31 20:19:52 · answer #7 · answered by khanofali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thingk u should try and c what happens but start looking for a new guy
2006-10-31 20:18:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋