Okay, so, has any one EVER liked someone SO much that all you could think about was that one person? Have you ever been in a class with that one person and not be able to concentrate because HE (or for the guys, she) was in there, and you were too busy thinking about them? You see this person every~day, and every time you see them, you get butterflies in your stomach and you are hoping against hope that the guy will talk to you. (Again for the guys, or the girl that you like. Just remember that from here on out. Ok?) Anywho, that is what I am going through right now. This guy, (I am not going to mention any names, but there are a few people that know who I am talking about.), is in the class that I am a teacher's aide for 2nd period. We always talk in that class. If I do not say hello to him first, he says hello to me first, and if I do not talk to him, he will spend the whole period trying to figure out why I am not talking to him. He makes me feel so confused. I don't know what to do
2006-10-31 12:06:01 · 11 answers · asked by southern_angel_200718 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To clear up further concerns, YES I am a student at the school. me and the guy are both seniors.
2006-10-31 12:13:15 · update #1
I'm assuming that when you say you're a teacher's aide that you're also a student in this school and not an adult (if you're an adult, you need to steer clear of this because it's illegal!).
It sounds like he likes you, too, but doesn't want to say anything because he's not sure how you feel. Pull him aside after class and talk to him. Ask him if he likes you. If he says yes, tell him you like him, too, and move forward from there. If not, then you know and you can get him out of your head and move on with your life.
2006-10-31 12:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by ricktheirish1967 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, are you the same age? Because teacher's aide to me sounds like you are older and he's in high school (if so, then back off). Those kind of feelings can never go anywhere unless you act on it. Eventually the "butterflies" go away, but you'll never stop wondering "what if" ... so you have to decide to do something. Slowly step it up, get his email or number (that's the hard part) and start talking to him. It's ok for you to make the move first, he could be shy. I'm pretty sure how he feels about you will come out in your private discussions.
2006-10-31 12:12:12 · answer #2 · answered by Missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you flirted with him to the point that you think to yourself- hey, maybe we should be friends- why not go out to a movie or something? Or, in that case, simply said: "Hey, what're you up to this friday?" (Or saturday or sunday). Sadly, the most helpful advice seems the hardest to do. And yet- you'll never know unless you ask him that single sentence.
2006-10-31 12:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by chrisser665 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel, you have nothing to lose, if he doesn't feel the same way back you can stop worrying about it and remain friends, if he does, you can start hanging out more and getting to know each other better
2006-10-31 12:08:52 · answer #4 · answered by Ace A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait if you are right he will approach you otherwise you will only make a fool out of your self
2006-10-31 12:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...Do you know if the guy likes you or not. You seem to like him a lot. Depends if you want to start a relationship or not. I dont quit understand your question....
2006-10-31 12:08:44 · answer #6 · answered by brianbombdiggity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, I felt the same way about a guy for three years.
The worst thing is, he talked to me, and he wanted to ask me out, but I never fell for it.
Ask him something casual, like, if he likes certain types of movies, and then invite him over to your house with a couple of frineds to watch one he'd like.
Please, please, please, please, please, go for it!!!
Don't sit back and be afraid about it all. I don't regret not going out with the guy, or spending more time with him, but I learnt a valuable lesson.
Life's too short to waste oppurtinities like this. He's just as afraid of you, as you are of him.
2006-10-31 12:11:49 · answer #7 · answered by Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put your cards on the table and let him know how you feel what have you got to lose?
2006-10-31 12:08:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i felt like that but i never did anything about it
2006-10-31 12:18:41 · answer #9 · answered by ya girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might like u or mabe is try to be your best freind u never now
2006-10-31 12:14:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋