2006-10-31 12:04:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes. you should tell them as early as now...if u reallly think you are bi-sexual...
2006-10-31 12:10:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a very very good relationship with your parents then you might. At 13 I know you have feelings about what you are but you may feel later that you are one way or the other. Hard to have a long term relationship until you know which sex you want it with. But, you could be opening up a big can of worms and lots of difficulties for yourself. Sleepovers may now become something else as far as mom and dad go, things may change a lot and you'll need to be ready for that. Also, you should not be having a lot of sexual experiences at 13. Please you're too young for that. You may have feeliings but acting on them is not right for you at this young age. You aren't emotionally mature enough to have this kind of thing going on. Slow down, enjoy being a kid, 13 is a kid and MTV, and all the programs on tv that show you different aren't real..it's make believe. Please take a look at your life and ask yourself what you want to do in the nest 5 yrs.? That's when you will be an adult and have the free will or the responsibility to have to live with your actions and mom and dad will have nothing to say. That's when you need to tell them so, you can go about living your life the way you want to. right now it's all fun and games and not the right time to be doing this. Trust me. Please be the 13 yr old that you are and not the 18 yr. old you think you want to be. Please. Also have you thought about STD's they are the fastest growing among teens because they don't get checked and they haven't a clue that they can catch anything. Aides is growing among teens faster than any population because they don't think it can happen to them, it does. Years later when they have full blown Aides they picked up when they were 13-21 and didn't have a clue. Did you know all birth control has a failure rate of at least 6 to12 %? doesn't sound like a big risk but if you'r one of the 12 out of the 100 that had sex tonight it might be you. Each time you have sex with a condom or birth control you have that risk. Most my friends got pregnant on birth control and my 2nd child was one of those. So, don't think Healt classes teach it all my dear. Hepatitis C is even more deadly than Sides now because there ia no treatment. It's not a fun subject but this is the truth. Be a kid. Don't ruin your life and figure out who it's gonna be later. You have plenty of time.
2006-10-31 20:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is something that you REALLY feel that you should let them know, then yes. But you are still very young and have a lot of exploring and growing to do. You change drastically from 13-19. Maybe you should give it some time and really find who you are. In a few years if you feel the same way, tell your parents and be proud if you are bi, straight, or gay. Good Luck!
2006-10-31 20:08:58 · answer #3 · answered by lion75 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if you feel comfortable talking to your parents in general, AND they are not going to abuse you, then absolutely, discuss your thoughts with them, but I would NOT say "I AM bi-sexual", they will get mad and say "you are too young to know WHAT you are", so word it carefully :)
2006-10-31 20:06:41 · answer #4 · answered by Life after 45 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same prolbelem just tell ur parents when u are ready to tell them if u wanna contact me my yahoo is nny_serna2000@yahoo.com
2006-10-31 20:09:09 · answer #5 · answered by atall 1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your best friend!!!!! Why wouldn't u listen to her...You need to wait and make sure u are..Your only 13...Why worry or upset your parents.You know they will be upset with anything that is different...So wait hon,cuz u will end up saving yourself alot of hassle...Thats why we have best friends...Start listening to them
2006-10-31 20:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wait till your a litttle bit older because all their gonna say is your not even old enough to know yet i know this because i told mine at 15 and thats what they said to me. not to mention it hurt them
2006-10-31 20:39:53 · answer #7 · answered by legion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your parents first. Don't pay attention to your friend
2006-10-31 20:07:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeha probably, the sooner the better, besides you need to be free to be who you are. they are your parents they will love you either way
2006-10-31 20:06:58 · answer #9 · answered by daggermouth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way to young to make that decision. I don't think it should be a disision. WHY CAN'T POEPLE BE STRAIGHT??? It makes me sick to stomach.
2006-10-31 20:17:35 · answer #10 · answered by TheSkysTheLimit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋