When you first met your boyfriend/husband, did you instantly feel attraction or did it grow over time? I met this guy that is really nice and is everything I'm looking for in a boyfriend but, I don't feel attracted to him. Will this change with time?
2006-10-31 12:14:00 · 7 answers · asked by cee cee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It grows over time. I met my ex husband and I thought there was no better looking man on earth. After I divorced him I looked at his picture and thought how could he be worth all the pain of getting over him? Now I am better and dating someone wonderful and he happens to be older and not as attractive as other men I could and would date but I honestly love him so much that no one in the world to me looks better then him. He's my George Clooney.
2006-10-31 12:33:28 · answer #1 · answered by kat_burk76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine took 6 years, and now it's the most intense thing I've ever felt.
At first, I thought he was nice, but never really looked at him in a "boyfriend" way. And one day, not too long ago, it hit me like a ton of bricks!
I think it's good to get to know someone first. How they look isn't important. How they are as a person is.
2006-10-31 12:29:40 · answer #2 · answered by deb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK this may seem strange to many of you but I fell in love with my husband before i even met him. I saw him driving on the street and I thought that he was a hottie and I wished I could meet him, only to realize that he was on his way to my house to visit my older sister (he was coming to work on my computer, they were not involved) then when he came to the house and i met him i almost died.
We are married now for 5 years and have one beautiful daughter :-)
2006-10-31 12:19:02 · answer #3 · answered by ME 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes it could!! I would just give it time. Sometimes a persons personality can make them attractive! And the more you get to know them the more attractive they may become to you!:)
2006-10-31 12:17:15 · answer #4 · answered by fooluvver 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes!
2016-08-07 17:13:56 · answer #5 · answered by Rebecca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just rip his pants off and jump on him it will make sparks for both of you !!!
2006-10-31 12:22:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't feel like ripping his pants off you never will
2006-10-31 12:16:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋