i met this girl at a club and i swear to God that she is the most gorgeous girl i or any body i've known has ever seen, well the thing is...she is 30 year old but she look like a 20 year old and has 2 little kids. You can't even tell her age by looking or talking to her, she is quite youthful and likes to party. we hit it off real well and she wants to get into a relationship with me, well, the problem is that i am 19 years old and going to college, do you think this is going to work out and should i get into a relationship with her? just think about the most gorgeous and kind person you ever came to know but with these kind of situations. thx buddy dudes ^_^
2006-10-31 11:39:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have to ask then no.
2006-10-31 11:41:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not always about just looks and I wouldn't advise on getting involved unless you want to play house and head of household. She's got 2 kids and that makes a world of a difference. Your priorities are not the same or at least I hope not if she's a mom of two. You'll see that in time, if you do get involved. Needless to say, you met her at a club...doesn't that say something?
2006-10-31 19:54:00 · answer #2 · answered by Sea -N-Sun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt do it dude. u need to get your life on track first. finish college and get started with your own life before u get involed with a girl that has kids its a big respabilty to be in a realtionshp with a girl that has kids u need to take a break from seeing her and she how u feel if u still want to be with her after taking a break and u have your life set then go for it but u have to make sure u are ready and u need to make its want u really want. u dont want her kids to start liking u and then u guys end up breaking up trust me dont rush into this take a step back and do somthing hard thinking before u jump into this
2006-10-31 19:45:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's the mother of 2 kids, 11 years older than you and has no husband. It won't work. Never in a million years.
2006-10-31 19:43:47 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would recommend against it. You, (that is YOU) are too young and will not survive in such a relationship, but ... stranger things have happened! Go with your heart! Beautiful (people) are a dime a dozen! If that is all you see her as (beautiful, sexy. etc ...), then look for someone closer to your own age. You are NOT thinking with your heart.
Just MHO,
Good Luck with that!
The Ol' Sasquatch Ã
2006-10-31 19:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by Ol' Sasquatch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello???? Any one home???? What uis the matter with you??? You are being controlled by looks and sex, pal. A 30 year old, with 2 babies who likes to party??? DUH!!! She will drop you like a hot potatoe and ruin you!!! All you know is, she is "gorgeous". You know nothing else about her, pal....nothing! You just don't "get it"......looks having nothing to do with it at all!!!! I suggeste that you zip up your pants, walk away and then study you college courses!! But, you will probably chase her so don't come crying back when the bottom falls out!!!
2006-10-31 19:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give it a couple of years, then you'll realize how bad a decision would be to go into a relationship with someone like her!!
You'd be damn surprised how well any woman can act to get what she wants...
2006-10-31 19:42:22 · answer #7 · answered by Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
11 years difference. Think about it. She was 11 when you were born.
2006-10-31 19:42:56 · answer #8 · answered by S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that since you are in college and want to have fun...it depends if she has two kids she may want a committed relationship..it all depends on how willing you are to commit!
2006-10-31 19:42:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say that age doesnt matter, as long as you're sure she's the right type for you and you think things will work out.
2006-10-31 19:45:57 · answer #10 · answered by emt2beme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay away from her. She is not right for you and the kids will only be hurt also.
2006-10-31 19:46:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋