2006-10-31 10:29:35 · 16 answers · asked by alana_gdwn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What kind of men do you settle for? I would never consider having sex with someone who was so self-centered. The men I know are very serious about making sure the woman is pleased first.
2006-10-31 10:31:39 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are the same. It's up to you to talk to your partner and tell him what you need and how you want it.
Here's a simple thing all women can do before sex even happens. Have a conversation with the guy about sex, tell him exactly what you like, how you like it and tell him that rushing to finish is just not good and if that's him he should never have sex with you because he will be the talk of the town as a lame guy.
It's called communication. No one reads everyones mind 24/7.
If you do, how come you have not won the lottery yet?
2006-10-31 10:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are picking the wrong men. My man always makes sure that I am totally satisfied before he pulls out. There has never been a time that he finished with out me. Good luck finding some one that really knows what they are doing.
2006-10-31 11:04:48 · answer #3 · answered by fdk30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my dear that I think is simple. If a guy truly loves you, from experience, it Will matter to have the girl come to a climax and have the best sex ever. If a guy pulls out, it is because he is NOT commited and does not want you to even get pregnant. It is about him and not you, but it should be the other way around.
2006-10-31 10:32:46 · answer #4 · answered by Randall L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
...if a man does not care about pleasing the woman....he is there only for his own pleasure... a good sexual relationship most often begins with love as the satisfaction between two people increases immensely when two love eachother..when one doesn't care about pleasing the other...he doesn't care about this person...also , if a man pulls out, he;s thinking that as a way of birth control which should have most definitely been discussed way before hand......
2006-10-31 10:39:42 · answer #5 · answered by jordan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant speak for men but I can say that not all men are the same. My man always makes sure he pleasures me before he is pleased. I can also say that if a man is more concerned about getting his then he really doesnt care about you. Find a man that will please you.
2006-10-31 10:31:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ha!..When I have sex with my bf its all about me!..I know that sounds selfish but there's more work involved with women!..When we first got with each other he was happy once he was done..after the 3rd time we had sex that changed and I put my foot down!..He says he loves sex so much cause he know's how much I'm enjoying it and that it makes it better for him, knowing my moans are real!..I wouldnt be bothered with any man that didnt put my needs first!
2006-10-31 10:37:20 · answer #7 · answered by anniemariee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they just randomly pull out it is because he is trying to hold off his orgasm. but if he just gets off and rolls over; then he is just selfish. guys who just want sex only care about themselves. the ones who actually care for you will make sure you get pleasure too.
you cant just blame men, every woman is different; so you have to let him know how to please you, you can't just expect him to know.
my man does anything to make sure i get off..... many times. hell; he tries to beat his record of how many times he can get me to reach orgasm in one session of sex..... His record is 8 times; but i think he can beat it ;) ..... im spoiled
2006-10-31 10:38:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't fuss over this guy hon, you can find someone who'll want to satisfy you before he even thinks of pulling out :)
2006-10-31 10:35:22 · answer #9 · answered by J Blu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They/we only care about ourselves. Its the truth
2006-10-31 10:30:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋