Why do many men and woman feel it is better to go for a one night stand and live single for long term?
I have met many single ladies online and wine bars. They have been living single for years. And they feel it is better to have sex without touching their inner feelings. Many ladies are scared to open their heart because they lost trust in their past relationships. They want to see a different in their lovimg relationship but they are not ready to face another hurt. Men too. What is the healthier solution?
I liked her. She liked me as well. Since she read the reply from the internet users she is not showing any interest to chat me any longer. We never have met physically for a drink or chat. Is it my mistake? or is it another barrier to meet my long wait sweet heart?
2006-10-31 10:07:19 · 9 answers · asked by Vig 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
??? i d'know, but i think this is funny. : )
2006-10-31 10:11:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think if someone male or female has been badly hurt in the past then it is harder for them to take that step only if you do meet someone that you really like it will just take time to build up trust and sorry don't think one night stands are anything to form a relationship with
2006-10-31 11:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by Bernie c 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think there is nothing wrong with being single if you are not ready for a relationship , but why have meaningless sex instead?
I would rather wait till i WAS ready for another relationship , but at least you find out what people are after by talking to them!!!
Personally i don't waste my time on people who are only after casual sex or a casual relationship , they are welcome to move on and find someone else!
2006-10-31 10:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by chandra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not yet ready for a steady relationship and may have been hurt in an earlier relationship and thinks things are getting "heavy" to soon.
2006-10-31 10:19:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to her that was your view then in a single state things change and when they do so do your views you didnt know she was gonna come along and make a relationship seem worth having
2006-10-31 10:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by nendlin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot eat your cake and have it mate, if you know she will read your replies and you still went ahead, then you are up for it. Ask her out if it fails, I am afraid, you might want to looke elsewhere
2006-10-31 10:22:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in short the answers are yes and yes. why would she want to be somewhere in a long line of singles you have met. sex with no stings who wants this really!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-31 10:17:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont know what her problem may be with that.
Unless ...I dont know....maybe she thought you talked only to her? Maybe she thought your chats are exclusive. That's her problem to deal with. I dont see you did anything wrong. You dont have control over how others react.
2006-10-31 10:14:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say it is since she read the answers posted not the question so i guess it depends what the answers were!
2006-10-31 10:41:46 · answer #9 · answered by Lost soul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋