I have this friends (guy) and I used to like him and wanted him to ask me out, then I got to know him more and got over it although I still considered him a friend. He's really fun, but when he left the class he was in with me, I saw less and less of him, so I got over the whole "crush thing" every time I do see him, we'll probably talk and walk and just joke around. Nothing special.....afterwards (cause we usually walk to the busses because our lockers are close to eachother) I can't stop thinking about him. Then I get over it and he's just a friend........IDK WHAT TO THINK!!!!! I really don't think I like him but ehy can't I stop thinking about him only "sometimes".....??? I'm confused.
2006-10-31 10:13:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh and my brother once said there was a rumor saying I liked him, and he teases me calling him my babe......haha blah blah......and a friend of mine keeps telling me and a few friends (who really dont care) that I like him.........it's annoying cause if he got that info (even though it's not true) I fear he'll avoid e a little....at least thats what guys did in my old school.......
2006-10-31 10:15:44 · update #1
(MR PHAKA:) Any time!
2006-10-31 10:16:20 · update #2
so am i now, thanks!
2006-10-31 10:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That has happened to me and I can tell you that I think it's the feeling knowing he likes you and all the attention you get from him, maybe the way he treats you etc. It's like a high you get from it, and you maybe love him but not necessarily the way he loves you. You love or like him for caring for you. Does that make sense? Usually happens most when you seen him and/or he says or does something to portray his feelings towards you that makes you think about him afterward. In any case, I think the small "crush" is still sort of there.
2006-10-31 18:27:57 · answer #2 · answered by Sea -N-Sun 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you really got over the whole "crush thing" as you say (that's why you can't stop thinking about him!)... if I were you I'd go out with him for a while and see what happens... if it goes well, then you'll have a bf and if not, at least you won't be confused any more. .. don't you think so?
2006-10-31 18:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by musa&medusa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont think you really like him too much now you keep remembering the crush you had on him, but why dont you invite him for a coffee and a chat to find out what your feelings really are for him.
2006-10-31 18:20:19 · answer #4 · answered by Kirks Folley 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know how you feel but the only way to overcome this is make the guy ask you out or you can ask him out, you know that the guy can sometimes be shy to ask a girl out even though he talks to that girl so if I were you I wouldn't wait.
2006-10-31 18:26:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Too long a story...plez condense it or I won't answer!
2006-10-31 18:15:55 · answer #6 · answered by iamME 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋