my dad always says i learn bad things from her but its him he says he's gonna put her *** in jail and he keeps me away from my older sister and says he never done anything when he has he's never been ther for her.
2006-10-31 10:08:38 · 14 answers · asked by cecimad 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you Dad won't listen to you, or if you have a hard time trying to talk to your Dad,
Try writing him a letter, and telling him how you feel.
Try talking to your big sister, and getting him to talk to her.
Try talking to someone older and adult that you trust at school, to see if they can possibly talk to your Dad,
Its seems like your Dad is very angry with your Mom, and he may have a very good reason to be, he does not sound like he means to take it out on you.
Sometimes parents don't know the best way to express how much they care for you.
Maybe that where you can start? By asking your Dad, how much does he care for you? And does he realize that seeing your Mom is very important to you.
Be brave, and patient. Good Luck
2006-10-31 10:18:32 · answer #1 · answered by * Deep Thought * 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatly I am in a same scenrio. My dad wont let me see my younger brother and sister anymore, because I started talking to my mom again. And I am 20 years old. I should be able to have any relationship i want with my mother that I want. But my dad is bitter over the divorce with my mom. My mom has my younger brother and sister half the year and my dad the other. When he has them he goes on a really weird power trip. Possibly your dad is still bitter, and hates your mom, and thats how he gets back at her, buy not letting you see her. OR maybe your mom did something that you do not know about. You should ask your dad in a serious, most adult way possible why it is the way it is. And he shouldnt be telling you that hes gonna put her in jail. Thats not something a dad should tell his child. Good luck Hopefully it works out. And try having a conversation with him, if it doesnt go anywhere try a couple days later.
2006-10-31 10:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Audipus Complex.
This is natural.
Your father need education.
Anyway, please spend time with your
father too. Please go out with him for
fun and sharing. Treat him like your
friend and talk to him without fear.
Mothers' won't rebuke her child, because
they may not know which is good and bad
for the child. If the father scolds you at
a particular time/event, he may have a reason.
Please find out the reason, slowly, otherwise,
you may hurt his feelings an make him angry.
Try this, he would prove to be the best person.
2006-10-31 13:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by pianist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really talk to your dad about that because you need your mom in your life just as well as him. I think you should seek some counseling also even if your dad won't because that can be a serious situation. I would also talk to other family about him if he won't talk to you.
2006-10-31 10:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your dad is selfish, narrow minded & coward to think so.
Blood related persons can never be harmful, specially a mother who keeps for nine months.
There may be some concret reason, which you have not reflected, for your father's behavier.
2006-10-31 13:54:31 · answer #5 · answered by kingofuniverse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you stay with your mom? Maybe there's things your dad doesn't want you to know. Have a heart to heart talk with him. Maybe you'll find out the real reason, as to why he doesn't like your mom.
2006-10-31 10:11:29 · answer #6 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your dad may know some negative things about your mom, and he wants to protect you. have a talk with him. if he is just being a controling person, then he needs to think of your feelings before he looses your love too.
2006-10-31 17:48:49 · answer #7 · answered by cee jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the first signs of an abuser is isolating the victim from family and friends. It sounnds like your parents are not together maybe? If not, see if you can live with your mom.
2006-10-31 11:15:22 · answer #8 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are your parents divorced? In that case most pronan;e your dad is insecured that if he allows you to be in your mom's company one day you too will leave him. takl to him with maturity. tell him how mush you love him and that nothing can saperate you two.
As you win his confidence , make him understand gently that you need to spend some time with your mother too. tell him what all you guys did when you spend time with your mom. this will reasure him that you are not blocking him out.
2006-10-31 23:46:10 · answer #9 · answered by urfriendfrlife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your dad. he may think your mom is a bad influence on you. tell him you want a relationship with her and to stop telling you bad things about her.
2006-10-31 10:11:19 · answer #10 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋