We have been friends since 2nd grade but the longer we are friends, the harder it is to tolerate her. For example, if you are talking to her, she totally ignores you...but if she is talking...you have to drop everything and look right at her the entire time.....and i have missed 10 days of school to her 1 (all covered by doctor mind you) and she is beating me in class by 0.4...that's POINT four! i'm fine with that but she wont shut up about it.....i would be happy for her if she would just talk about it once and let it go..but she runs her mouth til i cant take it and then calls me jealous. she's just very rude. How should i handle this?
2006-10-31 09:58:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's time to dump her & find another friend. You are clearly not happy and you are suppose to be happy with your best friend.
2006-10-31 10:00:03 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People grow up and grow apart. No big deal, it happens. Just start spending more time with other people, stop dropping everything to listen to her, ignore her bragging about a fraction of a point. She's rude, jealous and not someone you need to hang out with anymore. Get busy with other things and people.
2006-10-31 10:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Omg, Tell he that she is an
aWeSoMe FRIEND
but tell her to keep it cool by stop
acting like if shes was the best
out of u 2! If she gets mad @ u then
she is not a real friend
real friends are the ones u can count on when u feel
put down ,not when that person is rubbing ti on ur face
that she is smarter then u!
G00D Luck!!!!!!****
Happy Halloween!
2006-10-31 10:05:36 · answer #3 · answered by SGx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...and i thought i was the only one with this problem. believe me, i know exactly how you feel! my best advice is to confront her, whether it be face-to-face, through a note, or over the phone. just do it! your heart and mind will feel loads lighter...and make sure you don't raise your voice or sound rude. confront her about everything...and don't beat around the bush and don't lie or make up excuses for your reasoning. oh, and the things your gonna confront your friend about, make sure they are good reasons that make sense. oh, and make sure you end your note sympatheticallay; for example "i know this is a lot i just put on you, but it's just been on my mind, and it's really been bothering...and i don't want blah many years of friendship to go to waste...k? hope you understand...". try this, i hope it helps...it's always good to share how you feel with your bff. hope this helps! :-)
2006-10-31 10:07:14 · answer #4 · answered by fifi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let her know what it is she is doing that is driving you insane. She may not realize she's doin it. If she continous to do it after you've told her how feel, you should probably find a new friend. friendships aren't suppose to be a competition or one sided thing.
2006-10-31 10:06:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 03:45:45 · answer #6 · answered by matlock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel, and if that dont work try to make new friends because you seem like a reasonable friend, plus you've been friends for a long time so that would be pretty sad to have to quit being friends.
2006-10-31 10:06:40 · answer #7 · answered by bearcatz_07 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break of her. Just don't care what she is talking about - always say yes, yes - you're right. Don't get involved in conflict. Take care of yourself.
2006-10-31 10:02:40 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it...and if she freaks out...cut her out of your life. It is hard, but sometimes you have to do it! I had to do that to 2 of my friends this summer!!! Life is much better now though without those whiney B|tches bringing me down!!!
2006-10-31 10:08:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know how you feel and if she doesn't fix it, then let her go. There's no way you can possibly be happy in that friendship and you should let her know that.
2006-10-31 10:03:25 · answer #10 · answered by Ms. G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋