Family & Relationships - 29 October 2006

my bf told me he was going to visit his aunt, but i called her and she said he wasn't there. so when he got back i told him about this and he tried to tell me more lies. but i wouldnt be quiet until i got the truth from him. he wanted to go out with his friends. and now i think every word he says is a lie. we've been together for 9 months and i feel so lonely without him. what should i do. forgive him or leave him? what would you do?

2006-10-29 17:15:56 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, heres the deal, Im 21 and dont drink, dont smoke, or do drugs, i dont have any friends, but i want to have a girlfriend, any advise?

2006-10-29 17:13:37 · 5 answers · asked by princekaze4 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband calls our daughter and I and never calls back, but to try and contact him they say you have to go thur her to get a hold of him, his cell phone is not working he does not call and all this started over was from a co- worker and their daughter spreading rumors of lies.That split us apart to begin with saying i was with another guy and never was.it was a week yesterday since we have heard from him.And a month the 28 th since we seen him personally.I hear he tells his aunt that he still loves me and cares about me but he had his wedding band off,we are still married if he wears a ring or not.I keep waiting and he does not call or nothing has never changed his address and just left his stuff behind just as he planned to come home in the beginng before all this happened at the carnival.Stressed in michigan

2006-10-29 17:13:29 · 11 answers · asked by kdkc06 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Living w/ bf. He is 8 years older. He has an 11 year old daughter. She stays with us twice a month. I have to share my closet and bathroom w/ her (even though we have 2 + 2). I share rent w/ him. I pay less, but only by $250. He makes double what I do a year.


Is this fair???? And every time she comes up, we fight? What is wrong?

2006-10-29 17:11:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

1. tells a lie every week
2.wont go down on me, even though i go down on him.
3. called me another womans name.
4.gawks at other women.
5. spends time with me on his schedule not willing to compromise.
6. go to, to many parties. plus hes a dj on the side.
7. always denies when he is wrong.
8. doesnt communicate well.
9. when i break up with him he says ok.
10. always says he loves me and want to be with me.
11. he has a truck and mine broke down. so ive been walking and catching buses for 2 years while he is still riding.
12.says hes not doing none of these things to me.
13. agrees we should break up cuz i fuss about these things to much. but talking hasnt helped.
im out of the relationship now but i was just curious to what kind of guy is this and why was he doing me like this if i was nothing but nice to him.


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2006-10-29 17:10:34 · 29 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

I just had a divorce in which I initiated. My ex calls and is kind on the phone and with the children but when he comes to pick them up or drop them off, he is very antisocial and very cold acting with me. Why the change from on the phone to in person?

2006-10-29 17:10:09 · 6 answers · asked by bunnylatte 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-29 17:09:15 · 29 answers · asked by rupam k 1 in Friends

I live with my boyfriend for about a year and a half its ben now, but he never cleans the house. At first I didn't mind but sometimes I couldn't keep up with the chores and he would comment on it. It really hurts my feelings. I never really say anything to him because I don't know am I supposed to do all the chores? He works alot but so do I. I pay alot of bills and I pay for food and groceries so its not like Iam home all day while he is working but the reason I never really argue with him about it is because he makes way more money than I do so tell me someone am I supposed to be the one that does all the chores? Help!

2006-10-29 17:08:25 · 4 answers · asked by Kristy 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 17:08:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Child goes to school in father's city. Do we meet halfway or do I do all the driving? We split all her expenses; no one pays child support. I have her one week. Father has her one week. I'm driving about 500 miles per week dropping her off and picking her up. They refuse to meet halfway at all!! If we went to court would they be required to meet halfway? Would judge side with father on this?

2006-10-29 17:06:40 · 7 answers · asked by Josh H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so i'm not on speaking terms with my ex bf, and I don't really care about his life.

Now i'm not the revengeful type, but I am a bit bothered that I know he still has the parking pass I bought for him when we were together so he could park in my zone. I wouldn't care except I paid for it and went through the trouble of getting it and I don't want him using it to visit other girls plain and simple. Especially since I live by all the sorority houses and he's in a frat. Why should I help him out in anyway?

So I went to his car one night with my friend and we were going to remove it and realized it was INSIDE the car. So then I had the idea of buying a sticker to cover it. So I did. I bought a really girly sticker with pink and flowers on it and I covered the parking pass up, making sure the other ones he really uses aren't. I had a blast doing it haha.

What do you think?

2006-10-29 17:06:33 · 18 answers · asked by coochie1 2 in Singles & Dating

if a guy is intrised? so i used to like this one guy. he used to look at me but not any more. all of a suden he stoped so does this mean he doesnt like me any more?

2006-10-29 17:06:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok first off, im 12. This is my dad's account.
I'm pretty sure she likes me because she always wants to spend time with me, and i do to. Some examples... i asked if we could trick or treat together as Wayne and Garth from waynes world... she immediatlely said yes.
Another example... she found out I'm a drummer so she started saying she wants a drum set and wants me to teach her the concepts.
Third... Her mom's company picnic gave her mom 1 extra ticket... and she used it on me.
Theses a lot more... but umm the point of this question is...
im almost possitive we have something goin', but im afriad if i go for it and ask... our friendship will break.
so just tell me people... whats your opinion?

2006-10-29 17:05:57 · 9 answers · asked by shurdonky 2 in Singles & Dating

I have this friend who i met in college. We're not a couple we're just real good friends who hang out. She's a muslim, but i have no problem with that because its bout the friendship, not religion. Her family likes me, accept the father. I'm a very shy guy, but he thinks i'm fronting. He's had words with his daugther, saying that he doesn't want her around me because i'm not a muslim. she refuses to end our friendship, but its causing a bit of drama. Should i continue this friendship or end it to stop the drama from continuing between her and her father.

2006-10-29 17:05:03 · 13 answers · asked by henryskia 2 in Friends

Caring for a Parent

2006-10-29 17:04:53 · 4 answers · asked by Laura R 1 in Family

Im not sure if it because I masterbate once a day. I can last a little longer when I put the condom on, any have any suggestions? (its wierd because I could last a lot longer in my early 20's, lol)

2006-10-29 17:03:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a somewhat attractive, good personality, 40 something woman who receives many advances and can get many dates. I swear that the men I like, don't end up wanting me but the ones I don't, do want me. I don't like playing games and am honest to a fault. So, if I'm not interested in a man, I tell them and let them know why...nicely of course, but when I do like a man, I also tell them and tell them why. I swear it always goes downhill from there because ok the challenge is over. Do guys like the challenge instead of someone who is honest about their thoughts and feelings?

2006-10-29 17:02:37 · 3 answers · asked by hearts_and_thoughts_2003 3 in Singles & Dating

ok i like this guy and i think he likes me too but he's really rich and im afraid that i wont fit in cuz im just an average person and never been around wealthy people that much before

2006-10-29 16:59:47 · 8 answers · asked by ........ 4 in Singles & Dating

ok so i have been talking to this guy for almost a year...we have never actually been together but we "loved" each other and what not...so on friday night we hung out and we went to his house and went in the hot tub and things got a little crazy and we started making out and then things got sexual but NOT sex!! i am young by the way lol!! well anyways this is the first time we have ever done anything like this and i am afraid that now tomorrow wen i see him we will get into a fight about it he wont want to be in a relationship even though this happened....so what do i tell him if he says that??

2006-10-29 16:59:13 · 6 answers · asked by caliprincess555 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my husband for a long time, I have always loved our love life, he is very creative and open to knew things and I like that. He is simply the best lover i have ever had...I don't know why he keeps telling me that i am not enjoying sex with him, its crazy, I am not the quiet type so it seems obvious i enjoy it....Mabey he is the one who is not enjoying it, what do you all think?

2006-10-29 16:58:40 · 9 answers · asked by feather 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-29 16:58:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-29 16:57:22 · 2 answers · asked by lovable_friendly_fun 1 in Friends

she kissed another guy while drunk at a party. before me they had a past. she says it was a drunken mistake and that it will never happen again....that im the only one for her.....i dont think that there is any excuse....am i wrong?

2006-10-29 16:57:17 · 29 answers · asked by how it feels 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm the kind of girl who is always surrounded by guys. got alot of guyz fren, so we hang out together most of the time, chilling out and have a couple of wine, clubbing, sometimes even got drunk. of course, that's the furthest i go, i know my limit and will adhere to my principles. but can you guys accept me as a gf. well, people know that i got a good personality, gentle and sweet. but can you tolerate my style? or will you try to change me?

2006-10-29 16:53:58 · 15 answers · asked by Princess is here 2 in Singles & Dating

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2006-10-29 16:53:28 · 15 answers · asked by raj s 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 16:52:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she ties me to a barrel, puts a ball in my mouth and uses a strap on with me. Her girlfriends likes to watch and record it all on their mobile phones. Whenever I suggest trying the usual positions she laughs and just bangs me harder. I love her so much but I get so jealous when she makes love tenderly with her two girlfriends but is so violent with me. I would die if we ever broke up but I can hardly sit down without feeling pain. Unless I carry her pony style around the house and do all her housework she will use the whip on me. Is this something I just have to accept to be with the woman I love?

2006-10-29 16:52:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or how many have attended her book conferences

2006-10-29 16:52:29 · 1 answers · asked by geezzzy 2 in Family

You see her as your girlfriend and wanna take things to the next level. She realizes your feelings for her. But just doesnt want u to keep waiting around for her. Because shes scared that if the the whole girfriend thing doesnt work out that she will loose the person that most important to her. How could i convince her otherwise????

2006-10-29 16:51:37 · 12 answers · asked by Wil 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im a mother of 3 children. And once a month i like to have a girls night out.Is that wrong?

2006-10-29 16:50:36 · 35 answers · asked by twisted 3 in Family