Im not sure if it because I masterbate once a day. I can last a little longer when I put the condom on, any have any suggestions? (its wierd because I could last a lot longer in my early 20's, lol)
2006-10-29 17:03:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not the masturbation. If anything, that should desensitize you and make it last longer like the condoms do.
You may want to try a desensitizing lotion or cream. They're available over the counter at CVS and likely other pharmacies, Wal Mart, Target, etc.
2006-10-29 17:20:48 · answer #1 · answered by John's Secret Identity™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is said that it is okay to "pleasure yourself" before you go out with your partner, because this reduces the expectations that you must be a great lover and have your genitals be ever-ready. You should be able to last longer if you do this. Use thick condoms, this dulls the sensitivity of your genitals, and helps you last longer. Learn to use the "squeeze technique." I've known many guys to use "Kegel Exercises" also. This is basically your problem, but what you need to do is look outside of the box. Try other things to stimulate and satisfy your partner other than intercourse. This will reduce the pressure on you, it'll help you relax, and you'll be able to have some sense of control. There are other things you can do to stimulate your partner, like, kissing, snuggling, petting, stimulating her breast, and so forth. Use your imagination. Good luck.
2006-10-29 17:28:22 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Sweetness572♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears that you have been using the bed lot more or you may be in a hurry to have maximum shifts, hence please settle your mind first and forget what you started in 20's is now 10 years old and yet you require to mastrubate. Control your sexitment and do not think so deeply. I am sure that in the present situation it hardly matters whether you use condom or not, i presume by your details that even without condom you may be a harmless person since you have been using bed and mastrubation all at the same time.
2006-10-29 22:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-09-11 03:58:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try exercising it. Try and lift it to 20 counts 4 or 5 times a day
2006-10-29 17:10:19 · answer #5 · answered by READER 1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont care what any other man says, most men cant even last that long!!! If I were you go see your doctor, he can prescribe you something and dont masterbate!! You have a girlfriend there should be no need to do so. LOL
2006-10-29 17:08:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
whats funny about this , is that im 39 and i like the 10 min thing. my husband dont, but its all about the woman , when i was younger i loved longer too. things change as we get older, she should be like wow i turn him on, right when you feel like youre gonna you know, think of something yukky ..lol might help, or think about the lord, you might change a whole lot of things. best of luck, GOD BLESS YOU
2006-10-29 17:15:07 · answer #7 · answered by pammy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe shes just too hot. Think of the things that put your mind in neutral. Like your granmother or your hairy aunt. Things that are not sexual usually helps.
2006-10-29 17:11:08 · answer #8 · answered by Logicnreason 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-21 23:37:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try taking your mind off of it,get a c OK ring,slow down.Try thinking about her pleasure,not just your own.
2006-10-29 17:11:06 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋