Family & Relationships - 29 October 2006

Hi

How to ask a girl to the bed

from first meeting without hurt her feeling

2006-10-29 16:30:24 · 15 answers · asked by james Smith 1 in Singles & Dating

and im not turned on by mt bf because hes kind of fat i like really skinny guys i dont know why but i want to love him tho

2006-10-29 16:30:02 · 9 answers · asked by Insignificant 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 16:29:40 · 8 answers · asked by philwan@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok here we go the is this guy I know that i really like and i know he likes me and every thing like that but i want more then friends and we have done stuff togther and I want to be with him he just makes me happy and feel whole when we are togther should i ask him or just wait if he would be my boyfriend???????

2006-10-29 16:29:34 · 12 answers · asked by melissa_werner2002 1 in Singles & Dating

Well went to dinner, smiled alot, she touched my hand alot and rubbed her feet against me. So obviously at that point, I know what's on both of our minds, and we head back to her place. Sounds like it's gona be a good night right?

Well 30 minutes later, we finally show up at her place at almost 10 pm. Right as I go inside, there's this potent smell of somethin uncooked that's spoiling. The lights are flickering, there's duct tape over the windows, and she asks me to come downstairs in the basement with her...

At this point, I'm a little nervous but I head down there, and I can barely see. There's only 1 light, but it's flickering and I saw this HUGE hole in the middle of the basement, it wasn't a drainage hole, you could fit a car into this thing, but it was too dark so I couldn't see it. I F&%KIN LEFT THAT PLACE. Told her I'd call her back. This was 2 weeks ago. I'll never go on a blind date again.

2006-10-29 16:28:17 · 22 answers · asked by bloodsanctum 4 in Singles & Dating

It all started when I was 14, I was a real loser at my school so I wanted to find a way to make friends, well I choose a really dumb and stupid way to do it. I told alot of guys that I had sex before alot of time even though I was a virgin, so yea I got attention but not in the right way at the time I didn't no what I was doing and how it could affect my future I almost had sex with my ex but it hurt to bad for me and I wanted it to be someone special so I made him stop well anyways it some how got around and my big mouth didn't care I thought I was making friends so I kept spreding it and it got to everyone it got so out of control that my family even heard and when I told the truth they didn't believe me because everyone had the same story finally I got my boyfriend and we love eachother so much and before we got together I told him those lies to because I thought he would like me more but in reality it hurt him inside so I finally told him the truth after 4 months (I no thats bad!)

2006-10-29 16:26:37 · 14 answers · asked by ~*bOrEd*~ 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this girl i have known for a little while that i want to go out with. she is in a couple of my classes and everytime we see each other either me or her says hi. i don't know what to do, someone please help.

2006-10-29 16:25:00 · 14 answers · asked by MetalMan 1 in Singles & Dating

why do we hang on to each other still even if we don't know why?

2006-10-29 16:24:58 · 15 answers · asked by free phoebe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when we first met we liked each other rightaway.problem was that I was just coming out from under my rock and I was really shy,so i didint talk much.tho I did try.but as time went onhe got kinda weird. at adventureland on the ski ride he said to me"Im going alone".he didint say it nicely either,but he didint yell.It hurt tho cause I had no intention on going w/ him,I was going on with my friend.then 2 moths later he asked me out.I said yes cuase I still liked him.weve been going out for at least 2 m. and he doesent call,claiming he doesent like phones.athomeciming he wouldint dance and when we did he turned away his facethe whole time and didint say a word.he looked really bored andwouldint talk w/ me.now we arent even friendsdontreally hang out thoi'd like to.weve hadno phisycal contact.hewont make any descions like what kind of pop he wants.I called him toask him to go to a haunted h.but he saidnot really a haunted house person.Me;thats ok,some people arent.a pauseheyelled Imsorryok?

2006-10-29 16:24:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

and he said it was an accident and nothing was behind it , what would you think and what would you do?

2006-10-29 16:24:29 · 25 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

Guys what are your REAL thoughts about a girl who is a virgin and is saving herself for marriage? What are some sterotypes that guys have about virgin girls? Some guys think virgin girls are ugly and fat, and that they can't get anyone to sleep with them. This is FAR from the truth. I get hit on by many guys, who always tell me I'm beautiful but I'm very picky. I think saving myself is one of the smartest decisions I could make cuz it protects me emotionally and spiritualy as well as from diseases. I hate when guys talk about sexual compatibility in marriage. Marriage is not based on sex. Why don't ppl talk about compatibility in other areas? One couple who has premarital sex, may have a great sex life, but if they problems in other areas then they can't even make it to marriage. But a couple who hasn't had sex but get along great in all other areas: love, trust, honesty etc, then when they get married they can have fun exploring their bodies together:)
So guys what are your thoughts?

2006-10-29 16:23:59 · 23 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

k, my best friend and I really like this guy he is funny and really awsome my friend and I loved him from a far untill recently I went to and party and he held my hand and asked me on a date he is my dream guy but my friend and I have been there for each other seince grade school what should I do?

2006-10-29 16:23:45 · 8 answers · asked by BrItTaNy 2 in Singles & Dating

I love my husband very much but some times, when we are angry over some stupid little thing, we say such mean things to each other. I just don't get it. How can we be so mean to each other one second and be cuddling and lovey later...

2006-10-29 16:23:14 · 26 answers · asked by feather 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-29 16:22:17 · 9 answers · asked by Ching 1 in Singles & Dating

When your mate tells you that they never get jealous, or not the so called jealous type. Do you honestly believe it?

2006-10-29 16:22:10 · 13 answers · asked by ill_state00 3 in Singles & Dating

I like him, but why does he do this? HELP!! i knew he was going out with another girl, Aliya, but then he asked me out, dumped me again, and then asked me out again. I didnt answer him yet cause i dunno what to do!!! I would really appreciate if you helped me!

2006-10-29 16:21:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 64 years old and she is 37. Her breasts are size 40 and she is brunette. I can do anything I want with her in bed. So far I am paying the dinners, etc. We have been together for 3 months.
I make 67k and she makes 45k.

2006-10-29 16:21:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sory about the first one that i postt...i need ur answer nice people..please reply quickly pleasseeeeeee.......thanksss

2006-10-29 16:20:41 · 9 answers · asked by gemvierh c 1 in Friends

2006-10-29 16:19:34 · 32 answers · asked by vegaz6 1 in Singles & Dating

i've known this kid since kindergarten and he use to like me but i turned him down a few times and now he has a new girlfriend who hates me and told him not to talk to me and he's actually listening to her...

what do i do?

because now i've relized i like him...alot.
but he will barely look my way.

and i can't go a day without talking to him.

2006-10-29 16:18:59 · 6 answers · asked by hey there 2 in Singles & Dating

My Boyfriend and i have lined together for 5 years and we have always have a "volitile" relationship. We have never cheated or anything and he used to tell me all the time (the first3 years) he wanted nothhing more tan to marry me. now he is in an more stable financial situatio n, but he had built more and more of a resistance to the idea. The worst part is i do not nag about it or anything but he is still like, um mabye in a few more years... I am 24 and would like t o start planning a family sometime before 30 and after a wedding!

2006-10-29 16:18:59 · 8 answers · asked by tiff"N"kai 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my last feonsay was abusive and my current is mean and mentally abussive and i treat her like gold i feel like a doormat but can't live w/o her i am head over heels in love with her but very sad with her

2006-10-29 16:18:31 · 22 answers · asked by chuck9864 1 in Singles & Dating

i told her about some boyz that wanted to take me out 2 get head...lol..but offcourse i didnt go but i told her i went just 2 find out what she would say , but she was like that gives me the full right to do what i want to do, like she will start flirting and all that. what do you peeps think of this?

2006-10-29 16:16:18 · 22 answers · asked by cool nigga 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 16:15:48 · 13 answers · asked by Eileen S 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a very dear friend who is like a little sister to me,she has always teased me in procative manner,always wearing reavealing tops around me and rubbing herself against me.I had always told her to stop,she dosen't listen,so tonight I planted a big kiss on her
and now she is angry I did that.Did I do the right thing?Or is she over reacting?What do you think?

2006-10-29 16:15:15 · 24 answers · asked by snugglebear20032004 2 in Friends

my dad is bribing me and my brothers (2 of them) with new bikes and an ipod to share. either that, or visit all of our life long friends who live in florida for new years. they used to live near me, but they moved. what should i choose? i am really close to my friends, but i like email and call them all the time, so should i go for the bribe?
help please!

2006-10-29 16:14:29 · 6 answers · asked by Dancerette 3 in Family

Have you had a very good friend of the opposite sex that you have known for years and you introduce them to your current mate. After your mate meets them, they ask you why you never hooked up with that person.

2006-10-29 16:14:15 · 15 answers · asked by ill_state00 3 in Singles & Dating

I lost the one my mom gave me. Can I get another copy from the hospital I was born in even though I now live out of state?

2006-10-29 16:12:46 · 18 answers · asked by woodybmi 3 in Family

Guys when you hug a girl frontally what are you/r intentions/thinking??

When you hug a girl on the side (side hug) what are you/r intentions/thinking?

What type of hug do you prefer?

From whom do you prefer the hug..would you hug a girl frontally if not attracted to her?

I'm just wondering if guys view these hugging styles any differently or consider one more or less friendly or romantic than the other.

Thanks for any input, much appreciated!! :)

2006-10-29 16:12:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have twin boys age 5. Their dad does not live in the home. He's been in trouble with the law and is also homeless he blames me for his homelessness because I lost my job and went to apply for aid and now he is forced to pay child support. When they used to go visit with him I was worried if they would get fed, or were they gonna be roaming the streets and he only wants to pick them up when he gets his SSI check which is once a month. I have a new boyfriend and he has been helping me with their dicipline and he tells me that he can visit them when he can provide them with a stable place to go to but I don't want that to happen because they are now starting to respect me and I know dad will probably brainwash them with something. Please help!!

2006-10-29 16:12:06 · 17 answers · asked by ameliaurbina6945@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family