and im not turned on by mt bf because hes kind of fat i like really skinny guys i dont know why but i want to love him tho
2006-10-29 16:30:02 · 9 answers · asked by Insignificant 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't force yourself to love someone that you don't love...if you don't feel it, let it go...
2006-10-29 16:32:26 · answer #1 · answered by Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, hon, but you can't look in two different directions at the same time. If you are not turned on by bf then he is a "friend" whether boy or girl. You treat him with respect but be upfront and tell him the dilemma. If he wishes to lose weight to meet your "thin" standard he can do that. If not, he needs to find someone who loves him the way he is. Not complicated, you just need to consider the other person's feelings for a change. With practice you can get there.
2006-10-29 16:35:39 · answer #2 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're not attracted to your boyfriend it will be a lot harder to show him how much you love him, and it'll make it harder for you in all sorts of way in the long run. Men need to know from their women that they are attractive in their woman's eyes-- so I would suggest telling your boyfriend that you'd be more attracted to him if he worked out a little... in a nice way like tell him "i think its really sexy when guys work out and break a sweat" :) Otherwise honestly i'd ditch the guy... it's not worth the hassle in the long run!!!
2006-10-29 16:34:30 · answer #3 · answered by Christine4tw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you're not the only one, a lot of women are attracted to thin gu ys. In general, thin guys have thicker and lobger penis, maybe that's why u feel that way
2006-10-29 16:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by Boboy L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your frist guy must have been thin, like me, and we are better in bed I belive, so ive been told, and you have high standards that he cant live up to. so either stick with the thin, or get one on the side, or have him diet, why would anyone want to be fat anyway...
2006-10-29 18:15:42 · answer #5 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love goes beyond the physical and your heart knows that. I suggest that you join a gym together. Love can be amazing and do amazing things. Listen to your heart.
2006-10-29 16:36:04 · answer #6 · answered by Whynotguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
liking thin guys is not a problem at all. it is your perspective in life. it is what attrac you most. you can like or love anyone even if thta person is thin or fat.
2006-10-29 16:35:53 · answer #7 · answered by Jeanus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coz studies show that thin guys tend to have bigger guns.. maybe you want bigger gun that is why
2006-10-29 16:36:25 · answer #8 · answered by Da vinci 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit feeding him!!!
2006-10-29 16:35:30 · answer #9 · answered by DoingItRight! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋