It all started when I was 14, I was a real loser at my school so I wanted to find a way to make friends, well I choose a really dumb and stupid way to do it. I told alot of guys that I had sex before alot of time even though I was a virgin, so yea I got attention but not in the right way at the time I didn't no what I was doing and how it could affect my future I almost had sex with my ex but it hurt to bad for me and I wanted it to be someone special so I made him stop well anyways it some how got around and my big mouth didn't care I thought I was making friends so I kept spreding it and it got to everyone it got so out of control that my family even heard and when I told the truth they didn't believe me because everyone had the same story finally I got my boyfriend and we love eachother so much and before we got together I told him those lies to because I thought he would like me more but in reality it hurt him inside so I finally told him the truth after 4 months (I no thats bad!)
2006-10-29 16:26:37 · 14 answers · asked by ~*bOrEd*~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry about what other people think about you. You have your boyfriend, and you love each other very much, and he is still with you after you told him the truth, so why worry? You got someone to make you happy, so who cares what others think? Do what makes YOU happy...don't worry yourself to death about what others think.
2006-10-29 16:31:36 · answer #1 · answered by Damien's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A. I believe this is literally, totally, 100%, unquestionably true. B. I believe this is a parable, metaphor, or some other teaching tool. C. I do not believe this is true at all, and the reason is ____ . Christian Beliefs (feel free to add your own): 1. C- It was 6, 000 yrs ago and believe that God's time table may be different than ours (our life is but a vapor) 2. a 3. c- it wasn't an apple, it was the tithe. the sin was disobediance 4. a 5. a 6. c Jesus and the saints and all believers have authority over satan 7. c Yes God gave Moses the 10 commandments, bt only cause He knew what would happen to man if he didn't comply with the laws of nature (God doesn't punish ppl, pple reap what they sow) 8. a 9. I pray, God listens, He answers my prayers, often in ways I wouldn't expect, often in ways I didn't pray for cause He knows what's best 10. I know that when I die, my heavenly father will say "well done, come on in" 11. I believe every word in the Bible is literally true and was directly written by God, through men. Yes, but there are metaphors too 12. C- no that's kindof sick. bread and wine are only symbolic, communion is done to remember what Jesus did 13. C. I believe that if I sin, I can confess it to God myself and repent (which means to turn away from) 14. C. sex outside of marriage is a sin, but will not condemn anyone to hell- only not accepting Jesus will do that 15.C Faith is the substance (evidences of God, but not actually seeing Him) of things hoped for, the evidence of things not YET seen- All things believed in in faith will eventually have to be proven 16. C. there is only one unpardonable sin- blaspheming the Holy Spirit. However, one can walk so far away from God that their heart is stone and will not turn back 17. A 18. A ( I am against the death penalty b/c we do not operate under the old law /OT, but the new law of salvation and forgiveness 19. C. I would fight to my own death for the gospel's sake or for thefreedom of my fellow man 20. C. this scripture is often misunderstood. It says to offer the other cheek. "Go ahead hit me again" usually stops a person from doing so.
2016-05-22 06:44:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well only you know the truth, if he cares about you like he says he does then he should believe you. I know it is hard in school to keep friends, when your desperate you will tell people anything, I don't think you were in the wrong, but now it has opened a new can of worms that you need to fix. I think he should believe you you and understand what you were going through then.
2006-10-29 16:31:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my god..that's bad..but desperation makes people do stupid things..i guess now what u need to do is to be faithful to ur guy, tell him the truth all the time (even though he might not believe u), and hopefully, the truth will shine thru..cuz sooner or later ur bf will know the true real situation..
and i think a good heart to heart talk would be good, and take that chance to tell him everything he needs to know to start trusting u back..dont hold anything back..if he really loves u, he'll listen and accept..and he'll wanna trust u back..but never again betray that trust u could gain from him..
2006-10-29 16:34:11 · answer #4 · answered by LadyN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres not much to do. U can try to make it up to him by doing something to him but it may not help... u did do a bad thing and he shouldnt feel bad or sad or angry... u should because he did nothing wrong. He was the victim of the lies... so u should just let him know that u are sorry and come clean if ure lying about anything else.
2006-10-29 16:31:37 · answer #5 · answered by X Anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Oh what a tangled web we weave when at first we practice to deceive." OK, for starters, you could stop lying so much! Now that you've told him the truth, the only thing you can do it hope that he believes you after such deception. Keep reassuring him of the truth and show him that you can still be trusted.
2006-10-29 16:36:13 · answer #6 · answered by zesty4pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to make him believe the truth; everybody makes mistakes and either he will deal with that and get over it or he will leave you anyway
If he is going to leave it would be better now than later. you don't want to be with him a year later with this subject being thrown in your face.
If you two are meant to be together he will come to terms with your past on his own and leave it in the past so that you can have a future together
2006-10-29 16:34:27 · answer #7 · answered by msijg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing with telling a lie is you always have to find another lie to cover your original lie. First off you shouldn't have lied in the first place, who cares what others think of you, anyone that judges you doesn't matter and those that matter won't judge you..if you live by this you'll never have to lie to get people to like you, and you won't get caught up in a lie like this. The best thing you can do to fix things with your boyfriend is to just do things that will regain his trust in you.
2006-10-29 16:31:25 · answer #8 · answered by Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least you told him the truth in the end. Trust is important in a realtionship and it may take time to get it back
2006-10-29 16:32:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Switch schools or move. Why would you screw up your reputation like that? What an idiot -what's wrong with your parents?
2006-10-29 16:33:52 · answer #10 · answered by jblonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋